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User Topic: Random Trigger...
hurtbs
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DOH!  Posted: 6:33 PM, August 26th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I posted a while ago that XSO and I broke up about 2 months ago when I moved 1,500 miles for a job. Neither of us wanted to do long distance. It was the right choice, just sucks.
We have spoken a few times since the breakup, but not regularly. I'm maintaining about 90% NC - largely just to give me some breathing room to move forward and heal. It's going fine - I feel like emotionally I'm where I should be after a breakup from a 1 year relationship (funny how A and ugly D gives you some real relationship perspective...)

Well, in the celeb gossip news (which somehow is always on the front news page) is that Lamar Odom, husband of Klhoe Kardashian has disappeared. Big trigger... weirdly. He and I used to always joke about the Kardashians. It was one of those private jokes between just the two of us. Miss it... and him...

So tempting to text him about it, but I'm not.

More than anything that's what's hardest... not texting him the little things about life.


Me BW Him XSAWH
DDays - 1 was too many
Divorced 2012

"In life, unlike chess, the game continues after checkmate." - Asimov
"Be patient and tough; someday this pain will be useful to you." - Ovid


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She11ybeanz
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Default  Posted: 7:10 PM, August 26th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

((hurtbs))


"Life's curve balls come out of nowhere.... just remember to duck and weave!"

ME - BW - 34
HIM - XWH - 38
D day: November 15th, 2009
Married: 5 Years, together 8
Divorced: December 13th, 2010
New Beginning: Piper/8-3-12


Posts: 2400 | Registered: Feb 2010 | From: Virginia
jo2love
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Default  Posted: 9:36 AM, August 27th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

(((hurtbs)))




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wildbananas
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Default  Posted: 12:43 PM, August 27th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

(((hurtbs)))


Travel light, live light, spread the light, be the light. ~ Yogi Bhajan

Posts: 15273 | Registered: Apr 2006 | From: Just a Cali girl
click4it
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Default  Posted: 1:01 PM, August 27th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

its like losing a best friend all over again, I get it. ((((((hurts))))))


Me: 41
Two boys: 16 and 13
Divorced 12-13-05
d-day 10-02-01

Laughter will cure life's ills. Have you had your laugh today?


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