Thank you so much to those of you who have already been through this. I know it'll get easier with time, but this infidelity stuff is just blow after blow isn't it? It's like you just keep getting knocked down by something new every time you get back up.
The D should be final very soon, in the next couple of weeks and I think I will feel much better after that. Dealing with Hello Kitty will be the last major hurdle with this mess.