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User Topic: All he wants to do is ruin everything
soveryweary
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Default  Posted: 7:52 PM, August 26th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

We have two timeshares in Mexico one week each year.
We had already booked this years prior to this final DD and my filing for divorce.
I was planning on going myself, it's the end of October and I love it at that time.
He gets home today and tells me that since we didn't go last year, he was going to go and book the other condo. And go the same week I am,
What a jerk!!!!
You know, if I thought I could get away with it, I would cancel his flight.
But, FTG, I'm going. I deserve this trip. And most likely I won't see him except on the plane.
I hate him, I despise him. I will not let him rob me of this.
I


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Kajem
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Default  Posted: 8:15 PM, August 26th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

So when's the SI party ?

Invite a friend to go with you? Bringing someone along will keep you busy so you won't dwell on his being nearby.

Is it a possibility?

Hugs,
K


I trust you is a better compliment than I love you, because you may not trust the person you love, but you can always love the person you trust. - Unknown
Relationships are like sharing a book, it doesn't work if you're not on the same page.

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soveryweary
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Default  Posted: 8:18 PM, August 26th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

You know what Karen, I thought of that but I really wanted to go and just do nothing but lat at the pool and relax at night.
Not worry about anyone but ME for a change.
Seriously, I read on here someone pretending their STBXH was dead, I think that's how I will approach ths.


Divorced 1/3/14

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nowiknow23
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Default  Posted: 8:24 PM, August 26th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Good for you! Don't let him ruin this for you, honey.


You can call me NIK

"If you carry joy in your heart, you can heal any moment."
- Carlos Santana


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Bloomsday
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Default  Posted: 8:59 PM, August 26th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

soveryweary,

Condolences on your timely loss.


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