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User Topic: Miley Cyrus...freak show!
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Default  Posted: 1:54 PM, August 28th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I didn't watch the show. I did find a video online though because I wanted to see what everyone was freaking out over. I'm just glad my kids didn't see it.

My 8 yr old DD likes her old music. She has some of her music from when she was Hannah Montana. I won't let her listen to the new stuff.

I think the big difference between her, Madonna and some other singers is Miley has a huge following of younger girls. The whole thing was just nasty.


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Default  Posted: 3:08 PM, August 28th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Honestly, had they gotten someone who was a little more coordinated/ sexy, I probably would have found the performance kind of hot...

Although sometimes it freaks me out how much Robin looks like Mr. Seaver...


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Default  Posted: 4:02 PM, August 28th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I'm a fan of Big Freedia (New Orleans bounce music.) Miley's moves just weren't the same--they didn't have the joy of the body that you see at his/her concerts.


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Default  Posted: 4:06 PM, August 28th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

His song is the verbal equivalent of her actions on stage. When Madonna first came on the scene she was also slut-shamed, she is *now* an artist, but back in the day she was not so well received or spoken of.

I don't see it as slut shaming. Whoever that guy was (and I've never seen nor heard of him, and have never heard his song before watching the vid online) was just standing there either lip syncing or mumbling something. I couldn't hear the lyrics and it didn't seem to have much of a tune, so to me he just looked like Bloated Elvis in a bad suit, mumbling into a mic while a girl gyrated on him. He looked like a tool, but wasn't as far as I could see doing anything dirty or offensive. IMO, not knowing anything else about him, in the performance he nearly looked like a victim of her hyper awkward lunges.

I was a teen in the 80's and so I did see all the crazy crap Madonna did, but she was actually a really good dancer, choreographer and (for the times and her music) a fairly good singer, too. She put on a really well rehearsed show. She would work up a sweat and you could tell she was working her ass off. As far as I could tell Miley Cyrus isn't a singer or dancer, doesn't have a core talent to launch from and seemed to use the stage to essentially throw a fit while masturbating. When I was a teen Madonna's performances shocked me, but it also made me want to take dance lessons because she was an amazing dancer.

I used to think the same of Michael Jackson. Yeah, he crotch-grabbed and that was always gross, but man he was a good dancer and that "move" felt and looked deliberately choreographed. Compare that to the rappers and musicians who came after him who didn't dance at all, but just held their penis through their pants and squeezed once in a while while they were singing.


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Default  Posted: 4:22 PM, August 28th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Fwiw, slut shaming isn't referencing her performance, it's referencing the fact that people are disgusted by her performance but are giving the guy a pass despite him being just as bad/guilty/involved in the performance. Slut shaming is referencing the fact that women doing that are bad, slutty girls but the men are all awesome bro you're a stud. That is, a double standard.


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Default  Posted: 4:27 PM, August 28th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage


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Default  Posted: 5:04 PM, August 28th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

giving the guy a pass despite him being just as bad/guilty/involved in the performance.

All I saw was the video clip of their vma performance, so I haven't seen whatever he did on stage that was the equivalent of her behavior, and don't want to.


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Default  Posted: 5:10 PM, August 28th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

They are both adults and should be ashamed of themselves. That performance was vulgar, inappropriate, and classless. I don't think it was more Miley than Thicke- if anything, he is older and should have known better.

The whole thing was very...yuck. Between the teddy bear, foam finger sexual innuendos, and the tongue-flailing- I don't know who choreographed that dance of hers and said, "yea, this will be hot" but that person needs to be fired.


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Default  Posted: 5:19 PM, August 28th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I wish I could get my patients to stick their tongues out that well. You could probably look in her mouth and see her stomach forget the tonsils!!!

[This message edited by purplejacket4 at 5:20 PM, August 28th (Wednesday)]


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Default  Posted: 5:22 PM, August 28th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Didn't see it. Seeing the pics posted here is enough for me.

The song itself is catchy...but then it dawns on me which song it is and I change the station. Just can't listen to it.

BUT, the reason I hopped in is this:

I feel sorry for his wife having to watch that sordid performance involving her husband....I'm sure she wasn't impressed either

I heard a report that said RT's wife had no issues with the performance......


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Default  Posted: 7:37 PM, August 28th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

You wanna hug me
Hey, hey, hey
What rhymes with hug me?
Hey, hey, hey

The meaning and/or innuendos of the song aside, this is just... I have no words. And apparently, neither do the lyricists of this song. Mug me? Slug me? Fudge me????

Lots of catchy tunes have really idiotic or wtf or lyrics that are offensive or just plain ole don't make sense. I still think the macarena is sketchy and I have no idea what the hell they're saying.


Miley, Stop. Just stop. This was just a train wreck on sooo many levels, whether it be vulgarity, inappropriateness, coordination or entertainment in general. If I ever saw anyone "dancing" like that irl, I'd be tempted to push the furniture away and have a tongue depressor at the ready.

My lawn, get off it.

[This message edited by unfound at 7:38 PM, August 28th (Wednesday)]


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Default  Posted: 8:51 PM, August 28th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

LOl at ajsmom's post. Hilarious!

I agree with this ...

it feels like a break down

It reminds me of Britney Spears - remember the haircut pics? This kind of has the same feel.


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Default  Posted: 10:15 PM, August 28th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Sooo...... I am looking thru the TV listing this evening and I see that Disney is running one of the Hanna Montana movies I figure they made that deal months ago to coincide with Miley's release of her album and now they are regretting it.

Anyway, I chuckle and say something to DD16. She said she had not seen the VMA thing yet but heard A LOT about it. I said "It was gross and ick"

So DD starts to watch it, starting witht he dancing bear song thru the blurred lines song. Here is a sampling of her comments:

* (immediately) Is she on drugs? She looks like she is on drugs.

* What is she doing?

* I didn't know white girls could twerk...

* eww, why does she keep touching her vagina?

* Oh, she just took off her clothes

* o.m.g

* That is just gross

* Does she come back after the rap....oh, there she is...what is she doing??

And when it was over -- "That was a LOT worse than I imagine. What was that??"

Just thought I would share the reaction of someone who was, at one time, in her core audience.

I think Miley was trying to show the world that she was grown up and sexy, but she came off as raunchy and pathetic.

And I think the only thing that Robin Thick did wrong was book her to sing with him. It was a catchy and fun song that will forever be tainted by a weird chick humping a foam finger.

[This message edited by Dreamboat at 10:16 PM, August 28th (Wednesday)]


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Default  Posted: 11:39 PM, August 28th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Madonna could dance. She could sing. I didn't agree with all of her subject matter, but she's an artist with a point of view and a musical/dance medium to express it. It has always been clear that Madonna has been authentic to who she is as an artist.

Even Lady Gaga is an artist. I definitely don't agree with her subject matter for most of her songs and pretty much all of her videos, but she's an obvious artist. When she's performing you can just look at her eyes and see she's being authentic.

I'm sorry, but I don't see artistic talent in the Miley VMA performance. I never watched her in her Hanna Montana days, I have no nostalgic sense of her or desire to keep her trapped as an innocent virgin. People grow up & have sex. Big whoop. Has nothing to do with one's artistic talent. I just didn't see any dance ability in the VMA performance. Also, the look on her face, in her eyes, was simply not authentic. Listen, I've just spent a very long time married to someone who was not authentic. I am now operating on a master's level for detecting people who aren't authentic. What I saw in the VMA performance was not authentic.

As for the Thicke guy, I don't even know WTH he is. The song y'all are talking about I refuse to listen to. It has a good beat, I like the tune, but the words are horrible so I won't listen. What he may or may not have done while Miley was on stage I cannot say, since her performance was so painful I stopped watching it. That's saying something, because I don't find much which is that upsetting. I even like Mapplethorpe, for goodness' sake!

I am an artist. I understand artists. The VMA gig was not art.


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Default  Posted: 11:55 PM, August 28th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Okay, I just watched the Blurred Lines unrated video. Gratuitous nudity, definitely an exploitation of those beautiful girls, but you know what? Totally didn't offend me like the VMA performance did.


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Default  Posted: 12:10 AM, August 29th (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

And I think the only thing that Robin Thick did wrong was book her to sing with him. It was a catchy and fun song that will forever be tainted by a weird chick humping a foam finger.

^^Summed up perfectly^^

Here's one for Miley


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Default  Posted: 12:14 AM, August 29th (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

She's very late to that party. The hair is similar in outrage factor. Difference this was 1985 And the song is, well, at least catchy. I happen to like them, but then again my tastes can be a bit...eclectic.

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Default  Posted: 7:46 AM, August 29th (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

All I saw was the video clip of their vma performance, so I haven't seen whatever he did on stage that was the equivalent of her behavior, and don't want to.

That's the thing he just STOOD there....didnt interact with her at all.

And look, the song is not all that great for women, we get that. But its not about raping anyone.

I would be willing to bet that at least at some point in everyones lives, they have had someone say to them "Come on, you know you want to"....and yet you still didn't do it.

There are songs out there that are WAY worse, but no one is flaming them here.

Here's part from Wait (the whisper song):

"Wait (The Whisper Song)"


Hey how you doin lil mama? lemme whisper in your ear
Tell you sumthing that you might like to hear
You got a sexy ass body and your ass look soft
Mind if I touch it? and see if its soft
Naw I'm jus playin' unless you say I can
And im known to be a real nasty man
And they say a closed mouth dont get fed
So I don't mind asking for head
You heard what I said, we need to make our way to the bed
And you can start usin' yo head
You like to fuck, have yo legs open all in da butt
Do it up slappin ass cuz the sex gets rough
Switch the positions and ready to get down to business
So you can see what you've been missin'
You might had some but you never had none like this
Just wait til you see my dick

THAT is just wrong...wrong wrong wrong.....

And RT's wife isnt mad because the RT looked uncomfortable on stage. She knew that he didnt care for all that business. It was totally obvious.

I think his unrated video is to much. I liked it better when the girls clothes were on.


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Default  Posted: 7:53 AM, August 29th (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

LOVE this:

http://youtu.be/rHdiutY4XqA


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Default  Posted: 8:23 AM, August 29th (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

http://fistintheair.com/2013/08/28/justin-bieber-ft-miley-cyrus-twerk/

Oh. My. God.

I feel so old

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