Secondly, if you don't get your email, perhaps you can go back to the site and 're-request' the activation email.
I'm not sure either whether you're reactivated one of your husband's old accounts or whether you just created a new one for yourself.
Once you get the activation email and are able to log into the account, it should be pretty easy to see if there's aready an existing profile that was written out by him back when he had the account, or if it's all blank and needs to be filled out from scratch.
As I'm not overly familiar with the site, I'm not sure if you've created a brand new acct or not.
It never gave me the option to click another email address.
SO...since you were asked to actually activate your account..it sounds as if he either had an account there,and suspended or deleted it(but they still have a record of his email address,so when you attempted to log in, they assumed you wanted to reactivate the account.
It sounds like you have not only found his account..but you found his secret email account also..when AFF sends you the new link/password,go there immediately. Before your WH figures out what you have found..forward as much info as you can into an email account he doesn't have access too.
Im so sorry.
[This message edited by confused615 at 10:47 AM, August 27th (Tuesday)]
..that feeling you get in your stomach, when you heart's broken. It's like all the butterflies just died.
1) I opened up adult friend finder
2) I typed in his name (ie Simon) and his old password (same one he used on yahoo chat)
3) (I didn't type in any email address or nothing)it asked me to activate account. I activated it with my email address, but ive had no activation email to activate it.
Ive just typed in his user name again, and then any old password (I actually did a few times with different passwords I made up) and it saying the same thing (Activate ur account) and when I click on it, its giving the same email address ... Anthony.taylor234 @ wherever.com ... so it cant be my husbands as its giving his email address for every password I put in (even put in the password 'cheatingfecker2012) lol .... Phew!!!! My heart was in my mouth for a few hours there ...
I didn't have any other email account address pop up at all.
Hopefully this is nothing..but it sounds off.
Type in username Tony and any password and it should take you to this page
Then, click 'is this the right email address' then 'here' and see a email address come up ... tell me if that works
Maybe because Tony is a common name,so there are alot of Tony's? I used my WH username..not so common..and it took me to a page saying it was invalid.
It sounds like you just have a common username.
This shit will make you feel crazy...you're not. Im so sorry you're dealing with this.
ACK! They also have church AFF.
[This message edited by confused615 at 11:41 AM, August 27th (Tuesday)]