But after a a month of moving forward I just don't care anymore. I am in a new phase, but I am not sure what. Maybe this is true detachment? I don't feel like making an effort anymore. I am not giving up but I just feel so tired and beaten up like I was in a battle.
I see posts of people like on facebook and blogs where they talk about how great their marriage is how great their husbands are and I just empty. I don't comment and just wonder why their marriage worked out so well.
It sucks, but then again, it's kinda meh, so it doesn't even suck.. it just *is*.
Don't get stuck there though. The emotions are there, and will need to be addressed at some time when you're mentally able. If you find you're getting stuck there, then you might want to seek some kind of help to get out of it.
I'm sorry (((ionlytalkedtoher)))
I see posts of people like on facebook and blogs where they talk about how great their marriage is how great their husbands are ... just wonder why their marriage worked out so well.
Don't believe everything that you read/see is true. I thought I was living in one of those "American Dream" families. Great kids, cars, house, vacations, jobs, etc. Unbeknownst to everyone except the WW, she was hiding an A and skyping herself all over the internet.