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painpaingoaway
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Default  Posted: 6:32 AM, August 30th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I make a concerted effort to say something nice to everyone I encounter everyday.

So yesterday, I'm at a department store waiting as the sales associate rings up my purchase and I notice that she smells really nice. So I say, "wow, you smell great, what is that you're wearing"? She responds, "oh, it's a lotion I get at Bath and Body Works".

I say, "do you remember the name of it"? And she responds, "yes", and then looks down at the register.

Ummmm, okay, weird...so feeling a little awkward, but with a huge smile, I say, "well, are you going to tell me"? And she says, "it's just for me. It's my personal scent, I don't want to share that information".

WTF!


me BS female 56/him WS 59
Married 33 years
D-day July 09/he gave me his slut's STD
Watch my movie: "My wayward husband's adventures in STD land":
Episode 1: youtu.be/9Jv0-d_CdYc
Episode 2: http://m.youtube.com/watch?v=8Tz822H82Gk

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authenticnow
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Default  Posted: 6:41 AM, August 30th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage



Take up your space (and do it well).

"That's the thing about pain, it demands to be felt."


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nowiknow23
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Default  Posted: 6:51 AM, August 30th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

"her personal scent" that's mass-produced and sold all over the world? What. Ever.


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- Carlos Santana


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feelsgaslighted
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Default  Posted: 6:52 AM, August 30th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Some people are just strange!

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painpaingoaway
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Default  Posted: 6:58 AM, August 30th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

"her personal scent" that's mass-produced and sold all over the world? What. Ever.
haha, I know. when she first said it, I thought, wow, is B&BW now creating 'personal scents' for people, how cool! Then I realized she was just a snooty bitch.


me BS female 56/him WS 59
Married 33 years
D-day July 09/he gave me his slut's STD
Watch my movie: "My wayward husband's adventures in STD land":
Episode 1: youtu.be/9Jv0-d_CdYc
Episode 2: http://m.youtube.com/watch?v=8Tz822H82Gk

Posts: 7092 | Registered: Jan 2010 | From: Coastal South
tushnurse
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Default  Posted: 9:15 AM, August 30th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

LOL, Maybe she buys all the scents, and mixes them together, and she didn't want to share her secret recipie. LOL


Me: FBS
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Married for 22 years now, was 16 at the time. .
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She11ybeanz
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Default  Posted: 9:30 AM, August 30th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I would say you should have said,

"So if you told me, you might have to kill me?"

BUT...under the circumstances....she might have.... PSYCHO...GEEZ!

[This message edited by She11ybeanz at 9:30 AM, August 30th (Friday)]


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Divorced: December 13th, 2010
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Posts: 2724 | Registered: Feb 2010 | From: Virginia
purplejacket4
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Default  Posted: 10:03 AM, August 30th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

You might have escaped with your life by just letting it drop!


Me: BS 45
Her: fWS 48 (same sex partner)
Together: 18 years now (both MDs)
OW: meh so what 40s PhD
DD1: 10/30/11EA; DD2: 11/10/11 Had ONS; TT until 12/26/11; broke NC 6/12; NC again 7/12; R-ish

Posts: 2239 | Registered: Dec 2011 | From: Great Southwest
Tred
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Default  Posted: 10:12 AM, August 30th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I would of asked her if she was wearing "Come to me"...


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sullymeishadomi
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Default  Posted: 12:06 PM, August 30th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Doesnt the store do a mix your own scent? Or is that only with oils.

People have their quirks for their own reasons. Let her have her quirks and move on.


People tell you exactly who they are...why expect them to be what they are not ....will be divorcing the selfish creep.

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jrc1963
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Default  Posted: 7:00 PM, August 30th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I would've said... "Well, I try to find the positive in everyone, so I'd have to say... 'You excel at being a weirdo super bitch', have a nice day!"

On the other hand... I don't think I'd comment on how someone smells in the first place because I think all perfumes stink.


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Him: FWSO - 69
DS - 13
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Mrs Panda
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Default  Posted: 9:36 PM, August 30th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Wow that is pretty hilarious.


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M 13years. Reconciled.
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Posts: 1992 | Registered: Jan 2010 | From: The SouthEast
painpaingoaway
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Default  Posted: 7:47 AM, August 31st (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

You excel at being a weirdo super bitch', have a nice day!"

I just don't understand people like this. I have never in my life refused to share info like that, especially if someone has complimented me. You know like people that refuse to share recipes and such. Now if culinary is their livelihood, well then of course I understand them not sharing. But just your ordinary person not sharing info like, where they get their haircut, or whatever, WTH, just simply bizarre in my book.


me BS female 56/him WS 59
Married 33 years
D-day July 09/he gave me his slut's STD
Watch my movie: "My wayward husband's adventures in STD land":
Episode 1: youtu.be/9Jv0-d_CdYc
Episode 2: http://m.youtube.com/watch?v=8Tz822H82Gk

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circe
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Default  Posted: 8:07 AM, August 31st (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I think it's great that you find positive things to say to people each day! I hope some of your kindness rubbed off on that woman. I wonder what she has going on in her personal life that she was protecting the name of the mass produced mall store lotion as if it were the top secret original recipe for Coke. I mean I wonder if in some other area of her life she was feeling like she didn't have any space to breathe or something?

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Eranda
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Default  Posted: 8:22 AM, August 31st (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Now that's some serious insecurity LOL.


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Gottagetthrough
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Default  Posted: 4:28 PM, August 31st (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

How weird! I have worked at a dept store before and You get mystery shopped all the time. I would have thought she would try to be nice just for that fact!

She could have just said she didn't remember what the scent was called... There's no need to be rude (esp when u work in customer service)


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Want2help
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Default  Posted: 9:53 PM, August 31st (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

"Well, I try to find the positive in everyone, so I'd have to say... 'You excel at being a weirdo super bitch', have a nice day!"

Seriously, I think a hearty laugh and a little head shake would have put her in her place. WOW, some women, that's how we treat other women?


When other women ask me what I'm wearing, I'm all like "OMG, it's PINK SUGAR by Aquolina, you HAVE TO GET IT!!! Here, let me spray you!!", but I'm a little over enthusiastic like that. My husband says I should be in marketing.

[This message edited by Want2help at 9:57 PM, August 31st (Saturday)]


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RDay 8/07
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Jrazz
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Default  Posted: 10:16 PM, August 31st (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

OMFG that is the hilariest.

What an idiot. Like she has cornered the market on "Sweet Pea" or "Moonlit Path" and is the only one running around wearing it.

Oooh girl, better look out. I'm going to steal your smell then somebody is gonna steal it from me and pretty soon we'll alllllllll smelllllllllllll the saaaaaaaaaame and then NOBODY will smell "good" ever again!!! MWAHAHAHAAAAA!!!!!


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sadcat
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Default  Posted: 6:08 PM, September 2nd (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

everytime I ask someone what perfume they are wearing and it is a BBW scent it is always "twilight woods" Every. single. time.

Betcha that is what she was wearing

what a wench


I need not suffer in silence while I can still moan, whimper and complain.

If this isn't what I consider soulmate crap, I don't know what is.


Posts: 13253 | Registered: Oct 2005 | From: GA
circe
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Default  Posted: 6:58 PM, September 2nd (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I just visited a home with "sandalwood rose" BBW spray in the bathroom and it was heavenly!

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