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User Topic: Just need to rant
Gemini71
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Flame  Posted: 10:09 PM, August 30th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I've been dealing with riding the roller coaster in and out of BS fog, and trying to make some decisions for the future. So today, WH stopped by to pick up the boys for a camping trip this weekend. He brought me candy and flowers. REALLY!!!

Sure, that really makes up for sleeping with my best friend and some random Craig's List chic. Way to mess with my head. Too bad it will just backfire on him.

The Legal Separation papers are on their way.

[This message edited by Gemini71 at 10:10 PM, August 30th (Friday)]


Edited to correct stupid typos.

Two steps forward and one step backwards, is still progress.


Posts: 1764 | Registered: Jul 2013 | From: Illinois, USA
Skan
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Default  Posted: 12:34 PM, August 31st (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Far too little, far too late. (((hugs)))


Imagine a ship trying to set sail while towing an anchor. Cutting free is not a gift to the anchor. You must release that burden, not because the anchor is worthy, but because the ship is.

D-Day, June 10, 2012



Posts: 4804 | Registered: Jun 2012 | From: So California
Jrazz
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Default  Posted: 1:05 PM, August 31st (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

What, no jewelry?

I'm really glad you can see this for what it really is.

(((Gemini71)))


I bow to those who keep their hearts open when it is most difficult, those who refuse to keep their armor on any longer than they have to, those who recognize the courage at the heart of vulnerability. - Jeff Brown

Posts: 17332 | Registered: Feb 2011 | From: California
nowiknow23
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Default  Posted: 8:11 PM, September 1st (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

((((Gemini))))


You can call me NIK

"Sometimes it takes a good fall to know where you really stand."
-Hayley Williams


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Nest2007
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Default  Posted: 10:06 PM, September 1st (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Ha! I feel the same way about my former friend and OW. You can't 'nice' your way out of having slept with my WH. He, at least, is showing genuine remorse and his actions and words prove he's serious about R. Some people are just so stupid. SMH!


BS 35
WS 31
DD, only child
DDay: 06/09/13
End of TT/Full Disclosure 07/08/13

Reconciling. A stronger marriage now.

Psalm 37. It rocks my world. So does 140. Big guy upstairs has got it all figured out.


Posts: 230 | Registered: Jun 2013 | From: Here and there...
Gemini71
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Default  Posted: 3:35 AM, September 2nd (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Believe it or not, his peace offering of bringing me candy and flowers, has turned into the catalyst for filing for D. It has pointed out to me just how broken my trust of him is, and just how far up his a$$ his head must be.

I have been asking for the past 2 weeks for him to make a marriage counseling appointment for us. That's what I really wanted. Not candy and flowers.

Now its just too little, way to late.


Edited to correct stupid typos.

Two steps forward and one step backwards, is still progress.


Posts: 1764 | Registered: Jul 2013 | From: Illinois, USA
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