Was talking to my shrink about when I start dating. I told him that there have been similarities between all the women in my life. I was looking for the right descriptive word. I said, "outgoing", "formidable", before he finished the sentence for me with "dominant".
Yes, that's it. I've always been scared of asking women out, and so have waited for these outgoing, formidable, dominant women to ask ME out.
So, if I'm going to break type, I need to ask some women out. It doesn't scare me as much as it used to, but I just have no idea where I'm supposed to find these women and ask them out.
I'm a 43-year-old hobby folk musician, and go to multiple open stage and jam sessions per week. So I mostly hang with much older men, and a few much older women.
I just don't know where to do this. I'm still waiting for divorce, so it isn't a rush, but my current prospects have me thinking it will be tough.
However, my days of dominant women are over. I'm looking for someone who wants an equal. Doesn't that sound nice?