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hitbyatruck
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Default  Posted: 12:59 PM, September 3rd (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

And I highly doubt he will be your last love, my dear. Your future is shining bright waiting for you to jump on in!


Married 1998, 2 kids
D-day3/27/09,he left 5/23/09
WH wants to rebuild 3/21/10
He moved back in 9/25/10,
Dec, 2011-finally putting it all together, H had multiple affairs.
Possible porn addict for 15 yrs.
01/2014- in house separation

Posts: 3277 | Registered: Apr 2009
Melody3
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Member # 33591
Default  Posted: 7:55 PM, September 17th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I met with the lawyer last week........2 hours.......plus she revised the decree (again). I wonder how much that bill will be? Ugh......I've already spent a lot and not gotten very far.

She emailed me the draft of the decree, and if he doens't DISAGREE then it could be complete.

Why am I so scared? My heart skipped a beat when I saw it in my inbox. WE've worked on drafts before, but never been as final as we are now. He's not speaking to me this week (who knows why) and I'm trying to keep my distance........(as other on here tell me to do and my gut tells me) BUT my gut also wonders if this is the right thing. Why do we hesitate and doubt ourselves? Someone give me a kick.......


BS (me): 37
WH: 37
Separated: 9/2/2010
DDay: 10/2010 PA with OW. Married 13 yrs, Together 20
Two kids, 7 (daughter) & 3(son)
Divorced 12/2013

Posts: 752 | Registered: Oct 2011 | From: Midwest
Melody3
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Member # 33591
Default  Posted: 9:16 PM, September 17th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I'm really anxious and not dealing well with all of this tonight.


BS (me): 37
WH: 37
Separated: 9/2/2010
DDay: 10/2010 PA with OW. Married 13 yrs, Together 20
Two kids, 7 (daughter) & 3(son)
Divorced 12/2013

Posts: 752 | Registered: Oct 2011 | From: Midwest
hitbyatruck
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Member # 23769
Default  Posted: 5:14 PM, September 18th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Breath, this is a long time in coming. The divorce will stop the very shitty Limbo phase you have been in for so long. Oh, and he was never in Limbo, only you. He never gave up the side action long enough to even try. He has not once showed you a real effort in the many times he said he wanted to R.

It comes down to that you deserve better. Now you can hope and pray that he does right by the kids. Hugs to you.


Married 1998, 2 kids
D-day3/27/09,he left 5/23/09
WH wants to rebuild 3/21/10
He moved back in 9/25/10,
Dec, 2011-finally putting it all together, H had multiple affairs.
Possible porn addict for 15 yrs.
01/2014- in house separation

Posts: 3277 | Registered: Apr 2009
Melody3
♀ Member
Member # 33591
Default  Posted: 8:00 PM, September 18th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Thanks Hit.

It just seems to be really hard right now in these last steps........

Reality, fear of unknown, etc.......Just have to take it moment by moment right now otherwise i get too overhwhelmed.


BS (me): 37
WH: 37
Separated: 9/2/2010
DDay: 10/2010 PA with OW. Married 13 yrs, Together 20
Two kids, 7 (daughter) & 3(son)
Divorced 12/2013

Posts: 752 | Registered: Oct 2011 | From: Midwest
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