4 kiddos in lower 20's
“He has no idea how beautiful the ordinary becomes once it disappears."
"Knowing is half the battle"
Expecting progress not perfection
When you and your spouse are reconcilled (and you will know when that is) you will be able to move forward and become a better couple than you ever had been. It takes a lot of hard work but you will get there if your spouse is doing all the work and you can accept what happened. Accepting what happened was the hardest part for me.