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User Topic: Seeing the OW
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Default  Posted: 5:03 PM, September 6th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

to be honest....seeing and not stopping to correct inapropriate behaviour like this woman's is right up ther with people not saying or doing anything about essance her actions are like that of a intentionally control someone elses actions. Sad that ther is so much imaturtiy in the world!!


Me: BS 50
Hubby: WH 53
Together: 32 years
Married: 25 years 09/10/2013
2 boys: 23&21
Dday: 09/11/2012
A length: 4+ years (yes years)
status: Ongoing Reconciliation :o)

Through thick and thin we will survive but he gets only one shot at it!

Posts: 605 | Registered: Jul 2013 | From: CDN
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Default  Posted: 5:03 PM, September 6th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Just keep carrying yourself with grace and go on about your life. Hasn't she hurt you enough already? I know it's hard, but from everything I read here it will get easier. I have to deal with the same kind of thing. My WH's AP lives next door

BS (34)
WS MisterP (37)
Together 14 1/2 years
D Day 03 Aug 13 EA & PA
D Day #2 01 Sep 13 continued EA & PA with OW
Slowly but surely finding my way.

Posts: 172 | Registered: Aug 2013 | From: Colorado Springs
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Default  Posted: 5:36 PM, September 6th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I'm HIS wife.

and this is the thing that gets me. This is when therapists say,"yeah, but he's with you."

his Dday: 2/10 but TT until 7/11
my Ddays: 1/12, 4/12 broken NC 12/12

me (WW/BS): 48
him: (BS/WH)52
4 kiddos in mid 20's

“Follow your intuition. Be smart, be brave. Tell the truth and don’t take any shit.”

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