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User Topic: Sweetest kid ever
Pass
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Default  Posted: 8:16 AM, September 3rd (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I got a text from 13 at about 7:00 this morning:

First day of school feels weird without you. I woke up and ran into Mom's room and said, "We need to take the yearly picture on the porch. That's what Dad always did."

Then he sent me a picture of him and his little brother on the front porch with their backpacks.

Sweet kid!


Edited to change a grammatical error that I made. It was mocking me!

[This message edited by pass at 8:42 AM, September 3rd (Tuesday)]


Loyal spouse: Me; Disloyal spouse: The Princess
Two sons: Now 11 and 14
DDay: Nov 15, 2012
Separated: Mar 2, 2013 after married 17 years, now divorcing!

The best thing about hitting rock bottom is that everything after that looks fucking fabulous


Posts: 1656 | Registered: Jan 2013 | From: Ottawa, Ontario, Canada
hangingontohope7
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Default  Posted: 8:40 AM, September 3rd (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

This made me smile. What fantastic sons you are raising.


Me: BW
DDay #1 Tried R
DDAY #2 Divorcing

Burn everything love then burn the ashes.


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lieshurt
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Default  Posted: 10:21 AM, September 3rd (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

You've done a great job there dad. How sweet that your boy thought of you and the the tradition you created with them.


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Sometimes it's better to push someone away...not because you stopped loving them but because you can't take the pain anymore.


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Nature_Girl
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Default  Posted: 10:47 AM, September 3rd (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Love this!


Me = BS (Stay-at-home-mom)
Him = EX-d out (abusive troglodyte NPD SA)
3 tween-aged kids
Together 20 years
D-Day: Memorial Weekend 2011
2013 - I DIVORCED HIM, I'M FREE!
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=RBOJpIwF47Y

Posts: 9231 | Registered: Jun 2011 | From: USA
Phoenix9572
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Default  Posted: 10:58 AM, September 3rd (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Kudos to your DS for keeping your tradition alive. Its always nice to know when the little things you do as a parent get noticed. Sorry you couldn't be there for your children today but it was nice that you were in their thoughts.


Me - 40
WH - 42
Married 18 years
kids - 14, 12
DD - May 13, 2013
DD2 - Aug 4, 2013
DD3 - Aug 27, 2013
Status - Legally separated; really wanted R but don't think that is possible anymore

Posts: 103 | Registered: Jul 2013 | From: Southern Indiana
Pass
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Default  Posted: 11:17 AM, September 3rd (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Thanks. I didn't mention it to him, but the porch picture has been on my mind the past few days. He's a thoughtful guy!

[This message edited by pass at 11:17 AM, September 3rd (Tuesday)]


Loyal spouse: Me; Disloyal spouse: The Princess
Two sons: Now 11 and 14
DDay: Nov 15, 2012
Separated: Mar 2, 2013 after married 17 years, now divorcing!

The best thing about hitting rock bottom is that everything after that looks fucking fabulous


Posts: 1656 | Registered: Jan 2013 | From: Ottawa, Ontario, Canada
nowiknow23
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Default  Posted: 11:18 AM, September 3rd (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage


You can call me NIK

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- Plato


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newlysingle
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Default  Posted: 11:20 AM, September 3rd (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

What a sweet boy!


BW - Me (37)
XWH - (37) The Gnat
OW - Some dumb whore he picked up in another state and moved here here. Known as Hello Kitty.
M for 8 years, together for 10
1 DD (5), 1 DS (1 year)
Dday 3/13
Divorced 9/20/13

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jo2love
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Default  Posted: 12:49 PM, September 3rd (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage


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Kajem
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Default  Posted: 4:24 PM, September 3rd (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage


I trust you is a better compliment than I love you, because you may not trust the person you love, but you can always love the person you trust. - Unknown
Relationships are like sharing a book, it doesn't work if you're not on the same page.

Posts: 4818 | Registered: Jul 2012 | From: Florida
PurpleRose
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Default  Posted: 6:14 PM, September 3rd (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

That kid is a keeper.


divorced the Dooosh
*****************************
even if you find your voice,
sometimes it does not matter anymore,
when you speak to a man who is deaf by choice.
~dodinsky

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SBB
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Default  Posted: 4:48 AM, September 4th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Oh, doesn't that just make it all worthwhile.

I'm beaming over here - you must be bursting with pride.

Love this.


Buzz- The word you are searching for is 'Space-Ranger.'
Woody- The word I'm searching for, I can't say, because there are Pre-school toys here.

Posts: 5383 | Registered: Apr 2012 | From: Australia
Pass
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Default  Posted: 2:05 PM, September 4th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Definitely bursting.


Loyal spouse: Me; Disloyal spouse: The Princess
Two sons: Now 11 and 14
DDay: Nov 15, 2012
Separated: Mar 2, 2013 after married 17 years, now divorcing!

The best thing about hitting rock bottom is that everything after that looks fucking fabulous


Posts: 1656 | Registered: Jan 2013 | From: Ottawa, Ontario, Canada
k94ever
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Default  Posted: 3:13 PM, September 4th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

We definitely need a "like" icon here.

What a great kid. You did good pass. He's going to grow up to be a fine man.

k9


BS: 56
WS: 53
Betrayed: 23 years
Affairs: 14 (2 lasted 3 months. Rest were ONS)
WS died: 16 May 2011
Do not stay in your hurt forever. Choose to move out of it.

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fallingquickly
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Default  Posted: 7:08 PM, September 4th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Love this. Sweet boy.
But I must say that this made me smile:

Edited to change a grammatical error that I made. It was mocking me!


Me-BW 50
Him-STBXWH

2 Ddays and lots of TT
divorcing

Scars remind us where we've been. They don't have to dictate where we're going. (Criminal Minds)

I saw him, I could not unsee him. -StrongButBroken


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