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User Topic: Do AP's often have more than one A?
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Default  Posted: 4:26 PM, September 5th (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

This is my WH first affair and last while married to me..
detective found out so much crap on this Bitch- OW(single) 25 when with my H had multiple affairs with other Married men.. in the Double digits... What is wrong with people. She had daddy issues for sure but I don't give a shit. oh and she was the OC as her mom was a MOW whore.

Me-BS 50 Him-WH 47, DD17
Together since 1993, Married 19 yrs
DDay 3/12,4/12,7/12 EA-PA OW - 25 single husband chasing bastard whore

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Default  Posted: 4:40 PM, September 5th (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

H's former whore had left her (then) h and her two small children after getting prego during an a with the man she is with now

She then had an a with another man at work before my h's a with her. (found this out by a supervisor I knew at her work)

After h's a, she had an a with another man at work, then the neighbor across the street then she tried to hit on the lawyer up the street from me (his wife stopped it dead in its tracks before it happened).

So YES, "whore-a-celly" was a busy little lady.

Note: in talking to a neighbor around the corner recently ( a somewhat friend of ow h) I was told that the little sluts h went and had himself an a with a woman at work after he found out about her a with my h.

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Default  Posted: 4:50 PM, September 5th (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

So many sad stories....very sad.

The OW in our story was had a horrible relationship with H Nd her H had actually told her he was going to divorce her so who knows. A few of her work mates who know our story think this wasn't her first A. She was a bitch and held a very high position in a multinational firm and they thought she had slept her way there.


Me: BS 50
Hubby: WH 53
Together: 32 years
Married: 25 years 09/10/2013
2 boys: 23&21
Dday: 09/11/2012
A length: 4+ years (yes years)
status: Ongoing Reconciliation :o)

Through thick and thin we will survive but he gets only one shot at it!

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Default  Posted: 5:58 PM, September 5th (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

My STBXWW's POS AP had an affair with another married woman prior to the one with my WW. Wonderful KISA, that one. Good choice, WW.

But I'm sure their infidelity will all be a thing of the past now that they are together and have found the one person on whom he/she would NEVER cheat.

Rots of ruck.

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Default  Posted: 6:07 PM, September 5th (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

The BH of my X's MOW told me that she had had another affair with her boss prior to the affair with my X. My X says this A is the only time he cheated, but why on earth should I believe that? I don't think he had others, but I'll never know and it hardly matters now.

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Default  Posted: 7:07 PM, September 5th (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Dreamland, I think our husbands screwed the same OW. The only difference is she was only married for a year but the same history! Bitch

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Default  Posted: 9:31 PM, September 5th (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

The cOW has had multiple A's. in fact WH was warned away from Her because of her history. She had another A while with my WH, and another since then with another coworker. Come to find out she was also the HS cumdumpster.

Me - BW 40
Him - FWH 39
Her - MOW 47 Fat Assed Toothless Man Faced Whore!!!

DD#1 July 28, 2010 Admitted to EA. A went underground.
DD#2 August 19,2010 Admitted PA

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Default  Posted: 10:35 PM, September 5th (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I don't know about XH's current girlfriend's history( MOW from his A)but I do know that when he was bedding her during our marriage, he was simultaneously
having (at the very least) an EA with an employee whom she did not know about, "because she would be ticked". And apparently he is cheating on her again now. SIL told me he asked for help to password protect his phone from her snooping.And I happen to know he spent a fancy romantic weekend away - but not with her. HA!

On the other hand, OWEmployee had an A with her previous boss - and was bragging at an AA meeting that she was having an A with a married man, while she was with my WH. Skank.

[This message edited by trebleclef at 10:38 PM, September 5th (Thursday)]

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Default  Posted: 2:21 AM, September 6th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

It is so sad to hear of these multiple affairs.

OW has definitely got daddy issues as far as I'm concerned and I wouldn't be surprised if she was now crossing boundaries (just friends!!) with men in her new workplace.

Apparantly ex is now in counselling, well so he says. I'm glad to hear this as he might be able to fix himself so that he doesn't carry on with his bad behaviour as my children grow up.

That is my main concern.

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Default  Posted: 4:39 AM, September 6th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Dindy I could have written your post! When I met AP, before I knew of A, I told her I was pleased to meet her as I get a bit jealous sometimes. She actually told me I had nothing to worry about cos she was a lesbian. She then went on to say she never tells the men she works with cos 'they would all want 3somes with her!' Ego alert!!

Then she told me she likes women for sex and men for the emotional side of things cos women are bitches. She actually admitted to using men and 'going through the motions' sex wise to get what she wants but never enjoying it! She told me 'I know I shouldn't do it, it's leading them on and cruel in the end when they fall in love with me but I love the attention!

It looks like she was telling the truth there if nowhere else. H's reaction when I told him was that it figured. It explained why she never touched him, never responded, just offered herself and manipulated him til he didn't know which way was up.

I know she bounces from man to man cos she changed her affections from H to another man in his workplace within a couple of weeks, she goes as far as to kiss and hug him in front of H and the boss!!! All the boss said was put her down to the guy This guy is at least single but it has had a positive affect on H cos it has made her see what she is like and how stupid he was to fall for it. It's clearly a game she plays constantly.

When we told her she had better get herself tested for std's after I got oral thrush she said 'well I don't sleep around' but she had one guy a month before H, one straight after, H, the new guy and the guy she lives with and her army of admirers, at least half a dozen of them according to her. Er... I am pretty sure that counts as sleeping around. That's all in 6 months and I can't believe she cares if they are single or not.

So yeah, I believe there are women out there who love the chase and like to have guys hanging on their every word and deed married or not. It's in the chase and the attention, for her at least!

Together 19yrs
me BS 36
him WS 41 (silent lucidity)
ea 1 facebook flirting with an ex 2011
ea/pa - co worker 6wks feb to apr2013 pa for 1 wk with sex one time
too much tt to count = latest tt 30/7/14

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Default  Posted: 4:40 AM, September 6th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Single OW had at least 2 As before that I know of.
After my partner she had 4 different boyfriends within 4 months, two of which she cheated on.
She's gradually making her way through the town so much that she is now single and no one who has ever heard of her will go near her.
Some people will never learn!

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Default  Posted: 5:08 AM, September 6th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Stats? You want stats?
Well… A person that has had an affair is statistically 4 times more likely to cheat again that someone that hasn’t cheated is likely to start cheating. So yes – many WP have more than one affair and thereby very likely more than one affair partner.

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Also, this woman calls herself a lesbian (clearly bisexual!), and the fact she had an A with a man who was in a long-term relationship with a young child and another one on the way makes me think that she has probably played this game before.
Interesting study I read a long time ago, although the source was Maxim magazine, so take that for what it is worth. Apparently, lesbians are statistically likely to have 20%-40% more male sexual partners in their life than women who identify as straight. Most likely because they are not involved in committed relationships with men, so every time it is with a different man. Not sure what the point is, but it seems like it might be relevant here.

[This message edited by aesir at 5:08 AM, September 6th (Friday)]

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Default  Posted: 2:41 PM, September 6th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Wow aesir, that's an interesting point you read there about lesbians usually having more male sexual partners.

I definitely feel that OW loves to have the attention of men in power. She jailed the guy whose position my ex took over for rape.

Not that I'm saying she wasn't raped as I would never say that. It's just that at the time me ex had to be trained by this guy on sly whilst the court case was taking place. It was all very hushed and the big bosses thought she was a prick tease. Then ex had the cheek to defend her because she was raped knowing only too well that I was raped, thanks a lot!

Then she has an A with ex once he starts getting promoted. What a great life for him: me struggling at home with a 2 year old son and a baby on the way whilst he's constantly getting his ego rubbed from his bosses and his lesbian lover.

And olwen, yes, our AP's must have went to the same school for 'how to fuck up happy couples because I have daddy issues'. They are both clearly bunny boilers!

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