Well...he's doing things right so far.
The problem isn't really what he is doing or what he might do..it's that he spent the last several months lying to you..watching you die inside..and he was lying to protect himself and OW. He needs to be in IC to address WHY he would do such a thing.
MY WH finally "get's it" too. Im having a hard time getting past the lies..false R is a bitch.BS(me)42
M: June 2001
..that feeling you get in your stomach, when you heart's broken. It's like all the butterflies just died.