Topic: SA from DDay to D - Found this amazing blog.
Member # 39532
| Posted: 2:27 AM, September 4th (Wednesday), 2013|
This isn't pretty, but it's an amazing read.
Me: BW 34
Him: WH 31
Together: 8 years, married 7.
DD: 9mths at DDay, now 14mths
OW: Work Colleague/Former friend. Now renamed GutterSlut McTrampyPants
End of TT/Full Disclosure 07/08/13
Reconciling. A stronger marriage now.
Posts: 146 | Registered: Jun 2013 | From: Australia
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Member # 40533
| Posted: 5:11 AM, September 4th (Wednesday), 2013|
Thank you for sharing. I liked this line "I couldn't save or our marriage and had come to the realization that I couldn't save [insert WS]and had no business even trying because you can't save someone who is bound and determined to self destruct. So for the sake of my kids and my sanity, I decided to concentrate on saving myself."
These were very good words for me to read today.
Me: 37 yo BW
Him: 39 yo WH
2 daughters (7, 4); married 15 yrs
DD: 6/2/13 (5 mo EA/PA with coworker)
Not sure where we're headed
Posts: 38 | Registered: Sep 2013
Member # 39987
| Posted: 7:03 AM, September 4th (Wednesday), 2013|
Oh Wow! Is all I can say. I can't imagine the horrors that woman endured through the unraveling of her life and her relationship with her WH. I am only just beginning this path and pray that things do not go this badly for my family.
Thank you for sharing her story here.
Me - 40
WH - 42
Married 18 years
kids - 14, 12
DD - May 13, 2013
DD2 - Aug 4, 2013
DD3 - Aug 27, 2013
Status - Legally separated; really wanted R but don't think that is possible anymore
Posts: 103 | Registered: Jul 2013 | From: Southern Indiana
Member # 99
| Posted: 8:44 AM, September 4th (Wednesday), 2013|
WOW. That's some powerful stuff that brought me back to a somewhat parallel universe. My exH was also SA with prostitutes, and OMG, the girlfriend experience was the hooker that I discovered first.
"Anyone perfect must be lying; anything easy has its cost. Anyone plain can be lovely; anyone loved can be lost." Barenaked Ladies
Posts: 2331 | Registered: Jun 2002 | From: North Carolina
Member # 32211
| Posted: 5:29 PM, September 6th (Friday), 2013|
It blows me away how someone can hide that for so long. I mean how do people live with themselves and why. Why not just be single and have dirty prostitutes anytime you want...Why drag a wife and kids through it? I just don't understand people. I try not to judge because judge lest ye be judged but really, I don't get it...
Two boys 13/11
Married 15 years
Dday: too Many to remember. 3 significant OW and many "less"'significant OW. Believe WS has bad boundaries and craves the attention.
Posts: 818 | Registered: May 2011
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