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User Topic: My daughter tried to kill herself
Kajem
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Default  Posted: 11:01 PM, September 4th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Sending prayers for your daughter and those that love her.

Hugs,
K


I trust you is a better compliment than I love you, because you may not trust the person you love, but you can always love the person you trust. - Unknown
Relationships are like sharing a book, it doesn't work if you're not on the same page.

Posts: 5017 | Registered: Jul 2012 | From: Florida
tushnurse
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Default  Posted: 2:26 PM, September 5th (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

(((To you and your daughter)))

Please know that kids often lack the ability to understand the finality of it. This makes it even more dangerous. Hopefully she remembers enough the awful parts to wake her up. In addition make sure she gets all the supports in place before she leaves the hospital. Meaning therapists, psychiatrists, group therapies etc. Make sure school knows, and she gets an IEP for this. You want all the resources opened up to you.

((((and strength)))))


Me: FBS
Him: FWS
Kids: 15 & 17
Married for 22 years now, was 16 at the time. .
D-Day Sept 26 2008
Fully R'd, and Happy Happy Happy

Posts: 8244 | Registered: Oct 2008 | From: St. Louis
tushnurse
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Default  Posted: 2:26 PM, September 5th (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

(((To you and your daughter)))

Please know that kids often lack the ability to understand the finality of it. This makes it even more dangerous. Hopefully she remembers enough the awful parts to wake her up. In addition make sure she gets all the supports in place before she leaves the hospital. Meaning therapists, psychiatrists, group therapies etc. Make sure school knows, and she gets an IEP for this. You want all the resources opened up to you.

((((and strength)))))


Me: FBS
Him: FWS
Kids: 15 & 17
Married for 22 years now, was 16 at the time. .
D-Day Sept 26 2008
Fully R'd, and Happy Happy Happy

Posts: 8244 | Registered: Oct 2008 | From: St. Louis
nowiknow23
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Default  Posted: 2:37 PM, September 5th (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Thinking of you and your family. Sending you all strength and light. ((((nekorb family))))


You can call me NIK

"Sometimes it takes a good fall to know where you really stand."
-Hayley Williams


Posts: 25063 | Registered: Aug 2011
damncutekitty
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Default  Posted: 5:09 PM, September 5th (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Visit as often as you can. If she's allowed to have some of her own things (clothes, toiletries, etc) make sure she has them.

When I was inpatient the staff at the hospital just assumed the I and my family knew the drill. On everything. Nobody told me I could have my own clothes (except a bra). Nobody told me my family could bring me shampoo and deodorant, and not only that none of the staff told me where the hospitals stash of toiletries was kept. I didn't even get brush my teeth for 2 days! It was very frustrating.


Keep calm and carry on.

Posts: 49468 | Registered: Nov 2004 | From: Minneapolis
joeboo
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Default  Posted: 7:32 PM, September 5th (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I wish you and your family much needed peace.


Posts: 1208 | Registered: Feb 2011
Crushed1
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Default  Posted: 10:45 PM, September 5th (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

((((Nekorb,DD,family)))) I'm so sorry. Praying for your DD and family.


~~"You can't run away from yourself"!!! Me to my H when he descended into adultery insanity.
~~Prov.15:13 "By sorrow of the heart the spirit is broken"
~~"The day breaks-your mind aches"
~STRENGTH~PEACE~HOPE~FAITH

Posts: 9694 | Registered: Feb 2005 | From: Texas
harrypotter
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Default  Posted: 11:33 PM, September 5th (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

My thoughts and prays with your daughter and family.


WS-Me
BS-Her (Lostinthismess)


Posts: 71 | Registered: Jun 2013
Amber13
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Default  Posted: 4:31 PM, September 6th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I'm so sorry. I hope you will all be okay.
I put my mother through this when I was very young. Being a mother now I cant comprehend the pain I must have put her through. Im trying to ease my guilt by being a better daughter now.
Best wishes xxx

Posts: 63 | Registered: Aug 2013
Dreamland
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Default  Posted: 4:59 PM, September 6th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Sending love and peace ..
So sorry I have a 17 yr old DD.. Be there just be there and let her know no matter what she is a blessing. I feel for you all ...


Me-BS 50 Him-WH 47, DD17
Together since 1993, Married 19 yrs
DDay 3/12,4/12,7/12 EA-PA OW - 25 single husband chasing bastard whore

Posts: 515 | Registered: Aug 2013
uncertainone
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Default  Posted: 12:41 PM, September 7th (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Wishing you strength and peace.


Me: 37

'til the roof comes off. 'til the lights go out. 'til my legs give out, can't shut my mouth


Posts: 6795 | Registered: Mar 2010
heartbroken_kk
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Default  Posted: 1:16 PM, September 7th (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

sending you my thoughts and best wishes for a speedy recovery for your daughter.


BW then 46, STBXWHNPDPAFTG the destroyer of my entire life.
D-Day 1 1999, D-Day 2,3,4,5,6... 2009 thru 2011.

Separated, divorcing, moving on.
I edit because I always make typos.


Posts: 1126 | Registered: Feb 2009 | From: California
CheaterMagnet
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Default  Posted: 1:26 PM, September 7th (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Oh sweetie! I keep waiting to get that call about my aspie son.

I am holding you and your family (and PPGA and WW too!) in my thoughts and prayers.

I am so very sorry.


If Happy Ever After did exist, I would still be holding you like this.
All those fairly tales are full of shit.
One more fucking love song I'll be sick. ~ Maroon 5

Posts: 1025 | Registered: Oct 2011 | From: Kailua-Kona, HI
Must Survive
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Default  Posted: 3:23 PM, September 7th (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

nekorb

(((hugs)))

Please do everything you can now for your daughter. Don't let anyone tell you to wait for anything.

When they turn 18, you lose control over what you can and can't do for them.


Me BS
WS: Just a squished bug on the window of my life!
Divorcing, STBXH is engaged/living with OW#3

They have a choice: they can live in my new world, or they can die in their old one." Daenerys Targaryen


Posts: 720 | Registered: Jan 2012 | From: Must Survive
sisoon
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Default  Posted: 2:42 PM, September 8th (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

(((nekorb, dd, family)))

I'm so glad your daughter was found in time to give her another chance.


fBH (me) - 70 (22 in my head), fWW (plainsong) - 65+, Married 45+, together since 1965
DDay - 12/2010
Recovered, not yet fully R'ed
I share my own experience because it's the only experience I know, not because I'm a good model.

Posts: 9991 | Registered: Feb 2011 | From: Chicago area
wildbananas
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Default  Posted: 1:08 AM, September 9th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

(((Nekorb, dd and family)))


Travel light, live light, spread the light, be the light. ~ Yogi Bhajan

Posts: 15383 | Registered: Apr 2006 | From: Now an AZ girl
Phoenix1
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Default  Posted: 1:12 AM, September 9th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

((nekorb and family))


BS - Me
XPOS - too many OW/OCs over 20+yrs
Kids - DDs 22,17 -DS20 Deceased
M Dissolved 2013

This above all: to thine own self be true, and it must follow, as the night the day, thou canst not then be false to any man ~ Shakespeare, Hamlet


Posts: 1035 | Registered: Apr 2013 | From: Rising out of Hell's ashes!
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