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User Topic: What was your Ah Ha Moment?
sisoon
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Default  Posted: 5:33 PM, September 11th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

For me, there was no ah-ha moment. My decision to commit to R built up over time.

She listened to me vent and answered difficult questions without defensiveness. She sat in MC sessions and took confrontation after confrontation from our MC and used them as guides for change.


fBH (me) - 70 (22 in my head), fWW (plainsong) - 65+, Married 45+, together since 1965
DDay - 12/2010
Recovered, not yet fully R'ed
I share my own experience because it's the only experience I know, not because I'm a good model.

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