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User Topic: He swears this is spam...I'm struggling to believe it is
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Default  Posted: 3:34 PM, September 6th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

In SpinningW's case a VAR may not be all that informative. The recent acting out of her WH has been via electronic communication and via contact in porn video parlors, etc.

Assuming the Tracfone is his he may intend to use it for internet access, sexting, photo sending and receiving and so on, but not necessarily for talking. She'd have to have access to the actual phone in order to discern what he's up to. After all of this, that's not likely to happen!

ETA: typo

[This message edited by alphakitte at 7:50 AM, September 8th (Sunday)]

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Default  Posted: 3:21 PM, September 7th (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Spinning~ how is it going?

Me: BS
Him: FWS
M: 15 years
4 lovely daughters
Working to rebuild.

Posts: 960 | Registered: Aug 2013 | From: Canada
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Default  Posted: 4:05 PM, September 7th (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

You are dealing with an addict. He's lying. Be tough.

File for divorce or at least ask him to move out.

BS - mid-40's
SAWH - mid 40's
Kids - 2 elementary school aged
Getting tons of therapy and trying to "work it out"

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