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User Topic: He couldnt' wait - vent
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Default  Posted: 2:45 PM, September 5th (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

My ever controlling SAWH just sent me the petititon for legal separation that he filed. I can not get in to the attorney that I want until Monday and he had to go and do it. I am so frustrated at him trying to control everything, even our F'n divorce!!!!!! I just wish there was soemthing I could do to knock him off balance just enough so he would know that he doesn't get to call all the shots. I thought he might have gotten that hint when I threw his butt out last week. Gosh I want to take him down a peg or two!!!

Me - 40
WH - 42
Married 18 years
kids - 14, 12
DD - May 13, 2013
DD2 - Aug 4, 2013
DD3 - Aug 27, 2013
Status - Legally separated; really wanted R but don't think that is possible anymore

Posts: 103 | Registered: Jul 2013 | From: Southern Indiana
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Default  Posted: 3:00 PM, September 5th (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

You could always go straight for divorce unless legal separation is a requirement in your state.

Me: BS
Him: FWS
3 kids

DD#1: 3/18/2003
DD#2: 9/28/2010 with a follow up on 1/28/2011 where he decided to come clean about the EA actually being a PA.

The OW could have been anybody and both turned out to be nobody special.

Posts: 3787 | Registered: Sep 2005
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Default  Posted: 3:03 PM, September 5th (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I agree with Tearsoflove. You can trump his "control" by going straight to divorce if that is an option for you. He certainly won't see THAT coming!

BS - Me
XPOS - too many OW/OCs, started 1994? - never stopped
Kids - 22, 20, 17
M Dissolved 2013!!!

This above all: to thine own self be true, and it must follow, as the night the day, thou canst not then be false to any man, ~ Shakespeare

Posts: 828 | Registered: Apr 2013 | From: Rising out of Hell's ashes!
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Default  Posted: 5:38 PM, September 5th (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I'd get a Rottweiler for an attorney and give the command to go for blood.

Let the separation cost him!


I trust you is a better compliment than I love you, because you may not trust the person you love, but you can always love the person you trust. - Unknown
Relationships are like sharing a book, it doesn't work if you're not on the same page.

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