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Topic: He couldnt' wait - vent

Phoenix9572
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Posted: 2:45 PM, September 5th (Thursday), 2013

My ever controlling SAWH just sent me the petititon for legal separation that he filed. I can not get in to the attorney that I want until Monday and he had to go and do it. I am so frustrated at him trying to control everything, even our F'n divorce!!!!!! I just wish there was soemthing I could do to knock him off balance just enough so he would know that he doesn't get to call all the shots. I thought he might have gotten that hint when I threw his butt out last week. Gosh I want to take him down a peg or two!!!

Me - 40
WH - 42
Married 18 years
kids - 14, 12
DD - May 13, 2013
DD2 - Aug 4, 2013
DD3 - Aug 27, 2013
Status - Legally separated; really wanted R but don't think that is possible anymore

Posts: 103 | Registered: Jul 2013 | From: Southern Indiana

Tearsoflove
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Member # 8271

Posted: 3:00 PM, September 5th (Thursday), 2013

You could always go straight for divorce unless legal separation is a requirement in your state.

"Just because I don't care doesn't mean I don't understand." ~Homer Simpson

Posts: 3968 | Registered: Sep 2005

Phoenix1
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Member # 38928

Posted: 3:03 PM, September 5th (Thursday), 2013

I agree with Tearsoflove. You can trump his "control" by going straight to divorce if that is an option for you. He certainly won't see THAT coming!

BS - Me
XPOS - too many OW/OCs over 20+yrs
Kids - DDs 22,17 -DS20 Deceased
M Dissolved 2013

This above all: to thine own self be true, and it must follow, as the night the day, thou canst not then be false to any man ~ Shakespeare, Hamlet

Posts: 975 | Registered: Apr 2013 | From: Rising out of Hell's ashes!

Kajem
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Member # 36134

Posted: 5:38 PM, September 5th (Thursday), 2013

I'd get a Rottweiler for an attorney and give the command to go for blood.

Let the separation cost him!

Hugs,
K

I trust you is a better compliment than I love you, because you may not trust the person you love, but you can always love the person you trust. - Unknown
Relationships are like sharing a book, it doesn't work if you're not on the same page.

Posts: 4850 | Registered: Jul 2012 | From: Florida

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