Topic: SI, here is part II of the saga...plus copy of his letter
Member # 31468
| Posted: 7:12 PM, September 6th (Friday), 2013|
NC and move on EW - best for both of you. ((Hugs))
Together 9 yrs
Status: Divorced 4/27/11
Above all, be the heroine, not the victim. - Nora Ephron
It is our choices...that show what we truly are, far more than our abilities.
- J. K. Rowling
Posts: 3784 | Registered: Mar 2011 | From: Texas
Member # 17185
| Posted: 7:26 PM, September 6th (Friday), 2013|
Woe! Block him and don't write to him. He has some major issues going on. One of the many nutty people we run into throughout our life.
Had you said to him "your rude to people, a child molesting cereal killer, I think you're responsible for burning The Hindenburg and sinking the Titanic, and by the way your car is ugly", he would still tell people you dumped him over his car.
Of course an ugly car is a turnoff and deal-breaker!
The details really don't matter anymore. Trying to find my way.
Posts: 645 | Registered: Nov 2007 | From: southeast
Member # 30937
| Posted: 11:34 PM, September 6th (Friday), 2013|
What a nut job! You sure dodged a bullet.
Posts: 125 | Registered: Jan 2011
Member # 27148
| Posted: 9:33 AM, September 7th (Saturday), 2013|
He just showed you he is not well emotionally.
NC and block him. If this is what it is like after one meeting, imagine the rest. YIKES!!
Me: BW- 53
DD-18 and DD-16
Together 20 years
Donít get to the end of your life and find that you lived only the length of it; live the width of it as well.†
Posts: 1796 | Registered: Jan 2010
Member # 12014
| Posted: 11:07 AM, September 7th (Saturday), 2013|
I personally think you're spending too much time analyzing his letter, especially if you only had one date is a huge waste of time!
If I received such a letter, I'd chalk this guy up as a NUT CASE and move on! Who cares what he thinks about you!?
Way too much drama for me!
Posts: 933 | Registered: Sep 2006 | From: Southern California
Member # 38458
| Posted: 11:02 PM, September 7th (Saturday), 2013|
So much teenage angst from what should be a GROWN ASS MAN!
Goodness, he's ranting like a 13 year old being dumped for the first time to someone he barely knows. And the whole thing about no one wanting to have sex with him...
He's got MAJOR issues. And apparently he wears them on his sleeve like badges of honor. You didn't dodge a bullet, you dodged a heat-seeking missile.
Me-29 Starting over
ExWH-29 Probable NPD, PA, manchild
3 beautiful young children
DDay 1/20/13 Admits PA
No remorse so NO R. DIVORCED! 9/2013
Posts: 541 | Registered: Feb 2013 | From: USA
Member # 32811
| Posted: 10:03 AM, September 9th (Monday), 2013|
You didn't dodge a bullet, you dodged a heat-seeking missile
Ugh! Dating is sooo much fun
I couldn't handle my husband's pregnant gf. After all, 17 years I was faithful. -Him?! Not so much.
D Aug 2008
Posts: 2360 | Registered: Jul 2011 | From: With my dad...
Member # 32368
| Posted: 10:40 AM, September 9th (Monday), 2013|
While reading this letter, a Shaw quote popped into my head.
"It is dangerous to be sincere unless you are also stupid" and with this guy I would add the word "and clueless" to the end of this quote.
This is just weird, scuse me while I pull the pillow over my head.
I've wiped the shit off. It can be wiped off you know.
Posts: 404 | Registered: Jun 2011
Member # 10468
| Posted: 9:28 PM, September 9th (Monday), 2013|
Is anyone else wondering if he offed his wife?
Ddays 2004 & 2007
I cut my losses mid 2013
Feeling happier every day :)
Posts: 5887 | Registered: Apr 2006 | From: Florida
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