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User Topic: Book recommendations for Internet cheating
Jesss
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Default  Posted: 8:51 AM, September 6th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I'm a stay at home mom, no babysitter, not time for IC right now. Can anyone recommend a book for some whose WS was on dating sites, talking to strangers for cyber sex, exchanging pictures, most likely even meeting them for sex.
Right now, I am positive I am done with him and this marriage. I just need help to feel better. Maybe a book will help. I'm breast feeding so I can't take any drugs unfortunately Im finding it very hard to think about anything else. And this pain is unbearable. I keep replaying our while marriage and thinking about all the clear signs that I missed or ignored.


BS: 31, WS: 35
4 kids between 2 and 7yrs old
DDAY 1: July 2013
DDAY 2: Sept 2013
DDAY 3: Oct 2013
DDAY 4: Feb 2014

Posts: 103 | Registered: Aug 2013
sparklezombie
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Member # 40095
Default  Posted: 10:10 AM, September 6th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

My WH has done the same and it is devastating. Is there any way you could do telephone counseling or take the baby with you to IC? I've taken my daughter with me before when I didn't have childcare (she was 6 months old the last time I took her). It is well worth trying to do that so you can go.

Also, what is your situation like? Have you confronted your husband? Have you been tested for STD's, etc.?


BS: Me
WH: Husband
One daughter - 22 months
Married 11.5 years
2.5 false R's.
Status: Divorcing.
You can't pick up a turd by the clean end. Time to flush the toilet.

Posts: 247 | Registered: Jul 2013 | From: Somewhere on the Eastern Seaboard
Jesss
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Member # 40333
Default  Posted: 1:10 PM, September 6th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Hi, Thanks for replying.
I have confronted him, not in person though, he works out of town. He completely denies it all. He used fake names and pictures so he thinks ill never know.
I haven't got STD test yet. Have to wait for him to be home for that too. I have 3 kids, oldest is 6... Bringing them wouldn't work :(


BS: 31, WS: 35
4 kids between 2 and 7yrs old
DDAY 1: July 2013
DDAY 2: Sept 2013
DDAY 3: Oct 2013
DDAY 4: Feb 2014

Posts: 103 | Registered: Aug 2013
Jesss
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Member # 40333
Default  Posted: 12:23 AM, September 7th (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Found some on the thread for this type of cheating.


BS: 31, WS: 35
4 kids between 2 and 7yrs old
DDAY 1: July 2013
DDAY 2: Sept 2013
DDAY 3: Oct 2013
DDAY 4: Feb 2014

Posts: 103 | Registered: Aug 2013
blindsided03
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Member # 40302
Default  Posted: 1:16 AM, September 7th (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Sorry to hear this. Mine did the same thing. She forgot to flush the toilet and all of my stuff was put back in the wrong places. I hate that loser. And have class with him every day. I wish everyone knew what a dick he was, but I try to use that energy to help myself instead. It's really hard. There isn't a lot out there for this kind of thing, which totally sucks. I just wanted to say I feel your pain. Some of us really understand what you're going through and wish you didn't find yourself here.


BW
M6m
Dday(2)8/13
D12/13...he's a sociopath.

Posts: 62 | Registered: Aug 2013 | From: Hell
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