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User Topic: Unbearable
bytheboard
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Default  Posted: 10:22 AM, September 6th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I just can't take this pain anymore. I hate that every option is fucked up. I feel exactly like I did when I was raped. I feel like that 16 year old girl again... So wounded and with no hope of justice... Left to deal with it all alone. Expected to be the bigger person, to be "strong", to just deal with it. I have no choice here. I have to deal with it one way or the other. He did this to me and I can't change it.


BW: sparrow 34
WH: 45 SA(regretswhatidid)
DDays: 9/3/12 ,9/10/12 ,9/12/12 ,10/01/12 ,12/03/12,more TT same events 2/24/12
3x ONS= 2CL hook-ups,1 on TDY
46 Craigslist Ads, AFF, chatrooms,
4EA w/past partners
4 kids

Posts: 35 | Registered: Dec 2012 | From: Virginia
shatteredheart7
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Member # 39734
Default  Posted: 10:24 AM, September 6th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

((((bytheboard))))


Me~40
FWH~46
Married 8yrs
Together 11 1/2
Me~ 3 kids, 21,17,14
Him~no kids
A with a mutual "friend" for 2+yrs
He confessed 9/9/12
A was over 2/12
7/13~ Happier than we have been in yrs!

Posts: 240 | Registered: Jul 2013
TxsT
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Member # 39996
Default  Posted: 10:28 AM, September 6th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

ByTheBoard....

Concentrate you yourself, heal yourself. He is of little significance right now. Go get so good IC.Move out if you have to. Separation from your biggest trigger will do you good.

T


Me: BS 50
Hubby: WH 53
Together: 32 years
Married: 25 years 09/10/2013
2 boys: 23&21
Dday: 09/11/2012
A length: 4+ years (yes years)
status: Ongoing Reconciliation :o)

Through thick and thin we will survive but he gets only one shot at it!


Posts: 605 | Registered: Jul 2013 | From: CDN
simpleD
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Member # 40321
Default  Posted: 10:39 AM, September 6th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

So sorry for your pain & struggle. The yo-yo effect of emotions can be horrible. I agree with TxsT that getting some IC and taking time away from WH, if possible, may be helpful. Can you ask him / tell him to leave? Take care of you & your needs right now.


BS(me)48; WH 49
High School Sweethearts
Together 32 years
Married 25 years
DD, 20 years
Dday 8/11
In Recovery

Posts: 22 | Registered: Aug 2013 | From: United States
TxsT
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Member # 39996
Default  Posted: 10:40 AM, September 6th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Wow Simple.....our profile stats makes us look like twins but I am just a bit older

T


Me: BS 50
Hubby: WH 53
Together: 32 years
Married: 25 years 09/10/2013
2 boys: 23&21
Dday: 09/11/2012
A length: 4+ years (yes years)
status: Ongoing Reconciliation :o)

Through thick and thin we will survive but he gets only one shot at it!


Posts: 605 | Registered: Jul 2013 | From: CDN
JanaGreen
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Default  Posted: 11:21 AM, September 6th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

((HUGS)) so very sorry.


We're both in our 30s. One awesome 4-year-old daughter.

Posts: 6167 | Registered: Aug 2010 | From: Somewhere in the South
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