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User Topic: Renewing the art of kissing
confused615
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Default  Posted: 12:46 PM, September 10th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

They certainly do T.

But..for my *F*WH..his steps have been big ones.

It's true..when a wayward gets it..really and truly gets it..you,the BS,KNOW. You are no longer questioning everything and anything. The change in him is as noticeable as night and day.


We are going to be ok. I haven't really allowed myself to believe that until the last few days. But we're going to make it.

And..so with you and your *F* Mr T(lol ). I've followed your posts....your husband "gets it" too.


BS(me)42
FWH 45
4 kids..21,20,11,10
M: June 2001
D-Day: 8/10/10
Status: Reconciling.

..that feeling you get in your stomach, when you heart's broken. It's like all the butterflies just died.


Posts: 7425 | Registered: Jan 2011 | From: Indiana
TxsT
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Default  Posted: 12:50 PM, September 10th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

He does, he really does. He is such a loving wonderful man and I am happy that we can build from our past mistakes.

i was sneaky this morning. I went into his briefcase and hid an anniversary card for him to open at work. I knew he hadn't had the time to go and get one for me yet but I couldn't let the opportunity to pass me by to surprise him with some unexpected love and kindness. The fact that I openly feel like my old self in this respect is making our 25 th anniversary everything I always wanted it to be but never thought I would feel!!!!

T


Me: BS 50
Hubby: WH 53
Together: 32 years
Married: 25 years 09/10/2013
2 boys: 23&21
Dday: 09/11/2012
A length: 4+ years (yes years)
status: Ongoing Reconciliation :o)

Through thick and thin we will survive but he gets only one shot at it!


Posts: 605 | Registered: Jul 2013 | From: CDN
painpaingoaway
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Default  Posted: 2:00 PM, September 10th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Loving the pics! More, more!

And LF, WHAT a gorgeous photo of you two and the church! Just beautiful!


me BS female 56/him WS 59
Married 33 years
D-day July 09/he gave me his slut's STD
Watch my movie: "My wayward husband's adventures in STD land":
Episode 1: youtu.be/9Jv0-d_CdYc
Episode 2: http://m.youtube.com/watch?v=8Tz822H82Gk

Posts: 7056 | Registered: Jan 2010 | From: Coastal South
looking forward
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Default  Posted: 2:14 PM, September 10th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Thank you, pain!
Here's one from a few years ago in Negril...

Considering what I had done with OM, I am truly, truly blessed with having a husband who overcame an extraordinary hurdle.
Yes, he still struggles with all of this infidelity crap I saddled us with, but what huge, huge leaps forward!


Memory and hope; one looks backward, and the other forward; one is of today, the other of tomorrow.
"Find a place inside where there's joy, and the joy will burn out the pain." (Joseph Campbell)

Posts: 2839 | Registered: Aug 2009 | From: Where a river runs through it
TxsT
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Default  Posted: 5:28 PM, September 10th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Ok now I have to go and find one of me....sheesh

And now you even upped the anti and have swim attire on!!!!!!

Looking Forward I am so glad you were able to get beyond this terrible time we are all facing. You two look so sweet together. I never think that of many people who have ditched their first spouse for their second, it never really looks natural. You on the other hand look deeply meant for each other.

T


Me: BS 50
Hubby: WH 53
Together: 32 years
Married: 25 years 09/10/2013
2 boys: 23&21
Dday: 09/11/2012
A length: 4+ years (yes years)
status: Ongoing Reconciliation :o)

Through thick and thin we will survive but he gets only one shot at it!


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