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User Topic: What is it going to be like after D for kids?
sleepless34
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Default  Posted: 7:28 PM, September 6th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I am really struggling today. I am waiting for my kids to come home from day with Douche Dad. I have been thinking a lot about a more permanent schedule, one where I do not have to see him so much- but nothing seems normal.

This is my family. I don't want to give up half their time. I don't think they are going to want to be staying in some apartment with him a few nights a week.

If he is the one that wanted to leave, why doesn't he just leave- and let us do what we were doing- we are just fine. He can visit them, but what does it look like when you really have "two households."

I have so much anxiety about all this. I am freaking out.....


Me BW- 40ish, awesome
Cheating scusband 40ish
2 kids, elementary school age
Bomb dropped Aug 4 out of nowhere...

Posts: 406 | Registered: Aug 2013 | From: Hell
nowiknow23
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Default  Posted: 9:33 PM, September 6th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

It sucks, honey. It really does. But "normal" isn't the same thing post-D for the vast majority of people.

But it isn't the end of the world, either. I promise. The kids will likely adjust easier than you will. ((((hugs))))


You can call me NIK

There's always failure. And there's always disappointment. And there's always loss.
But the secret is learning from the loss, and realizing that none of those holes are vacuums.
- Michael J. Fox


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