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User Topic: movies you shouldn't watch
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Default  Posted: 12:09 PM, September 10th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Netflix has an indie film called "Rid of Me" which many might find triggery. It is a little dark film, that has some hilarious moments. I like it because the main character is very introverted like me and there were some awkward moments in the film that resonated with me. So reminded me of many moments with my WH and mutual friends where I felt like an outsider.

"Something to Talk About" with Julia Roberts is great, and actually empowering. Very triggery for some no doubt though.

WH: 41
me: BS, 45
Together 18 1/2 years, married 17
DDAY 8/2/12
OW: EA- friend of 4 months
Status: separated

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Default  Posted: 2:37 PM, September 10th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

The Incredibles of all movies triggers me....a cartoon!

Elastic girl thinks Mr incredible is having an affair.

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Default  Posted: 4:22 PM, September 10th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

A month after reconciliation, I made the mistake of watching "Temptation: Confessions of a Marriage Counselor". I was a hot mess before the end. Not a good idea.

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Default  Posted: 4:38 PM, September 10th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I've given up on movies. Even Despicable Me II triggered me, for reasons I cannot remember.

me - BS (40s)
DDay - June 2013, A was 2+ months, EA then PA
In MC & Reconciling
An affair is a personal crisis, not a relationship.

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Default  Posted: 10:43 AM, September 11th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

watched sons of anarchy (tv show) and there has always been cheating in it...i got up and walked away...he just stared at me...

Me: 26 BS Him: 29 WH
Together since Dec 2005
officially done 10-30-13

Never be ashamed of a scar. It simply means you were stronger than whatever tried to hurt you.

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Default  Posted: 12:31 PM, September 11th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

On the TV, Broadchurch , a murder mystery series on BBC. Fantastic show, but there were a couple of episodes surrounding an A, and the way the actress portrayed the BS was so realistic it ripped my heart out.

I write romance novels, or at least I used to prior to D-day. One of them was a 'forbidden love' story, which was my most popular story ever. It never set right with me, though, and I wrote a sequel (also prior to DDay) where they dealt with the aftermath and the WW ultimately reconciled with her BH. I got hate mail for it like you wouldn't believe saying I ruined a beautiful love story. Now, post D-day, I can't even bear to think about it.

[This message edited by DecimatedHeart at 12:31 PM, September 11th (Wednesday)]

Me, BS 41
Him WH 42 - LTA, EA/PA
Together 24 years
DD13 - the love of my life
DDay#1 11/10/2012
DDay#4 4/5/2013 (NC broken AGAIN)
A supposedly over 6/14/2013

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