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User Topic: AP, who are they?
integritymatters
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Default  Posted: 6:53 PM, November 1st (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Law Clerk - Specializing in Family Law and Litigation


I dropped my toast this morning and it landed butter side up! It's going to be a good day. :)

Posts: 1482 | Registered: Apr 2009 | From: Canada
Deanna
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Default  Posted: 7:18 PM, November 1st (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Florist


DDay - 11/4/09
BS-49 DDay
fWS-46 DDay
EA/PA with childhood sweetheart/ kissed
R - 11/25/09
Life is not a dress rehearsal

Posts: 1439 | Registered: Dec 2009 | From: Northeast
traditoperanni
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Default  Posted: 7:40 PM, November 1st (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

There were many. Most (probably hundreds over the course of 40 years) were escorts.
OW#1 (had A with my fwh for 37 yrs
"off and on " is an administrative asst
in HR for law firm. Never was married, never had kids, lived with her parents till they died. She's a real winner.
OW#2 wasn't working when they had a for 4 months back I'm the late 80's
Then 12 yrs later calls my fwh asking for a job - and he hires her!
Ow# 3 fwh met her as an escort but
she supposedly has a Phd in ,get this,Human sexuality and counseling. Yeah sure.
There were other As but I don't know much about them most of them were
Escorts that he frequented often.
One of them that he saw quite a bit is now a owner of a Tea shop.
What a world.


Me- BS (63)
Him-WS (63)
M- 42 yrs
dday#1 11/09, Dday #2 10/11 and many since
P.A.'s - too many to count
LTA's too many to count (one for 37 yrs)
escorts etc- way too many to count.
Broken heart- too many times to count.
R- Getting bet

Posts: 428 | Registered: Jul 2011 | From: California
nomistakeaboutit
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Default  Posted: 7:50 PM, November 1st (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Vice President of Technology


Me: BH 56.........Her: WW 43
DD: 6..........DS: 4
Married for six years.
DDay: 12-25-11 Divorced: 7-15-12
...................................
"It's like a nightmare within a nightmare, which in and of itself is a nightmare!"

Posts: 944 | Registered: Sep 2012 | From: U.S.A.
tryin2havefaith
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Default  Posted: 7:54 PM, November 1st (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Psychopathic....former stripper.. trolls multiple sex sites...flips both ways.... a REAL catch!!!

Guess I'm lucky to ONLY have gotten hpv


ME- BS
HIM- WS
DDay 1/2011
4 - 6 months of TT'ing
Fully R'd
"Just as ripples spread out when a single pebble is dropped into water, the actions of individuals can have far-reaching effects. " -Dalai Lama

Posts: 265 | Registered: Oct 2012
Want2help
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Default  Posted: 8:00 PM, November 1st (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

CNA, nurse hopeful. But, from what I hear, all she does at work is kiss ass and back stab.


BS- me.
FWS- him.
DDay 6/07 (immediately separated)
RDay 8/07
OC born 3/08
OC Adopted 2014
"That which can be destroyed by truth should be." -P. C. Hodgell

Posts: 2265 | Registered: Aug 2008 | From: PNW
Lostinthismess
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Default  Posted: 8:05 PM, November 1st (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Work place military slut. Transferred, people started talking, and apparently she'd slept with everyone and they had unprotected sex. Fml.

[This message edited by Lostinthismess at 9:54 PM, November 1st (Friday)]


Dday- 4/4/13
fwh- harrypotter
'You just keep living, until you are alive again'
'I don't want perfect, I want honest'

Posts: 330 | Registered: May 2013 | From: Ca
foundoutlater
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Default  Posted: 8:08 PM, November 1st (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

A really fucked up boy hiding behind a mask and trying to figure out who the fuck he was and pretended that he had morals and integrity.. Unfortunately he was a friend and I know more about him than I want to know.

As for making money heís a grease monkey that struggled to complete high school, and I think he supplements his income from illegal activities.


Your beliefs donít make you a better person, your behavior does.

Posts: 1131 | Registered: Jul 2011
kra127
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Default  Posted: 8:32 PM, November 1st (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

OW is in the military and was with my WS as her fiancee is deployed.


Me 40
WS 39
2 young kids, Married 10 yrs
OW 22, admitted to EA and then TT to PA two weeks later. Also, found out about several "friends".
Dday 10/8/13
Divorcing

Posts: 91 | Registered: Oct 2013
Lyonesse
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Default  Posted: 8:46 PM, November 1st (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I think her main occupation was crying. Every time WH describes something from his timeline, it involves her crying. He was a KISA, so he was actually drawn in rather than repelled by her constant tears.

Never spoke to her, but she did call our house once about six months after d-day, and left a message...sobbing about how she "needed" to speak to him.

I believe she also pulls a paycheck from some cultural organization. Probably their CEO (crying emotional-manipulation officer). Stupid whiny slut.

[This message edited by Lyonesse at 8:47 PM, November 1st (Friday)]


Me: BS, 40's.

Posts: 1794 | Registered: Jul 2011 | From: West Coast
ontheslope
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Default  Posted: 8:55 PM, November 1st (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Navy. I don't know what he did in the Navy... nor do I care.

I'm surprised I can watch NCIS without triggering.


Me: BH, 36
Her: WW, 37
Two girls 8 & 10
Married 12 years
Dday: July, 2009

She wants answers... I'm still trying to figure out what the questions are.


Posts: 269 | Registered: Sep 2013 | From: Maine, USA
somanyyears
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Default  Posted: 9:05 PM, November 1st (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage


..he 'WAS' a lawyer, with no integrity, who used his law office as the meet-up location with my ww.

..deliberately had her miss signing some documents on our house purchase so he could get her to return there.

..died from a brain tumor April 2006..

..now, just dust in the wind!!

smy


trust no other human- love only your pets
She isn't and never was who I thought..I can't believe who I married and what she did to us.
Me 67
Her 63
Married 42 yrs (together 47)
18 yr LTA with bf


Posts: 4123 | Registered: Dec 2009 | From: the sad state of affairs
BetrayalHurts
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Default  Posted: 9:43 PM, November 1st (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

The OP in my life was a stay-at-home mom turned phone sex operator, now doing daycare


M 25 years
BW Me - 50's
WH Him - 60's
OW 25 years younger
D-Days too numerous to mention last D-day being 12-2-11 *OW went on fishing trip 5-21-13*

"A relationship is only made for two, but some bitches don't know how to count"


Posts: 353 | Registered: Feb 2012 | From: Colorado
Crushed1
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Default  Posted: 10:10 PM, November 1st (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

SAHW - Stay at home whore.

Never worked a legit job in her 46 years. Now on H #6 and that doesn't include the four (that I know of) live-in men she did in between the guys she duped into marrying her. This is one creepy bitch who loves showing up at her guy of the moments job seeing who she can root out...


~~"You can't run away from yourself"!!! Me to my H when he descended into adultery insanity.
~~Prov.15:13 "By sorrow of the heart the spirit is broken"
~~"The day breaks-your mind aches"
~STRENGTH~PEACE~HOPE~FAITH

Posts: 9713 | Registered: Feb 2005 | From: Texas
pastthelies
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Default  Posted: 10:42 PM, November 1st (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Stunned that many are so religious!

Posts: 64 | Registered: May 2013
Getting to Happy
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Default  Posted: 12:23 AM, November 2nd (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

TV camera assistant slut.


WS him
BS me DD's 26, 25' DS 23
dd1 1-1-10, dd2 Mothers Day 2011, dd3 3-12-12 Hawaii trip with ho-worker...

Never forget what is worth remembering or remember what is best forgotten.
Unknown


Posts: 1140 | Registered: Apr 2012 | From: La La Land
Scientist
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Default  Posted: 3:15 AM, November 2nd (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Retired engineer with all the lack of social skills associated with that profession, now working as a low grade community worker. Total failure as a human being by any measure.


Me: 58
WW: 58
M: 36 years
Together 39 years
4 children, 1 grandchild
dday(1) July 2005; dday(2) September 2013

Posts: 46 | Registered: Oct 2013 | From: UK
TarnishedSilver
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Default  Posted: 7:13 AM, November 2nd (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

ALL of them were active military women all single, one with a 2 year old daughter, they either worked with fwh or he met them on the base.


Me-BS (47)
Him-WH (48)
Married 26 years together 31
2 teenagers
Dday #1- 2/20/2011
Dday #2- 1/08/2012

Healing myself is now my top priority.


Posts: 156 | Registered: Oct 2012 | From: USA
Camille87
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Default  Posted: 5:43 PM, November 5th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

She was an unlicensed architect in her mid to late 30's, mom of an 18 month old and going through a divorce.

And I don't care who they are if they are willing to eat crumbs from the table of someone else's marriage, sit in the backseat behind the wife, be at the beck and call of their affair partner who offers no sign of commitment and puts her in a vulnerable and dishonorable position then that OW has serious self esteem issues. No woman who knows her value would EVER allow herself to be treated that way! Who signs up for that?! If the man in your life has to hide you from his parents, friends and co-workers and contacts you whenever he wants to(around his family schedule) then you're just an option in his life, not a priority and if you're a woman who signs up for that your parents did a shitty job of instilling self respect and confidence in their daughter!


Me: BS--42
FWH--45 (recently diagnosed with Bipolar Disorder)
(Two kids: a teen & a tween)
Married 20 years
R in progress
D-day: Nov 17, 2012

Posts: 27 | Registered: Nov 2013
collateraldamage
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Default  Posted: 5:48 PM, November 5th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

ARC analyst. Whatever that means.


Me:BS (46) Him:WH (46)
Married 20 years/together 26
Two DS 16/14
DD#1 2/1994 (PA) DD#2 1997-2000?? several EA DD#3 2/17/2011 PA 6 months DD#4 7/13/2011 My Space Account (from 20007) looking for casual sex 10/17/2011 DD#1,000,000... new EA

Posts: 198 | Registered: Jun 2011 | From: los angeles
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