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User Topic: AP, who are they?
Hurthalo
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Member # 41782
Default  Posted: 9:05 PM, February 8th (Saturday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

My WW and I are both Navy Officers. OM is a baby faced poor excuse for an Army officer who is the same rank as us.

My wife was his 9th instance of infidelity in his own marriage. He also proudly screws hookers for fun. He's a real piece of work and I have no idea what my wife saw in him.

Frankly it scares me.


Forgive the unforgivable, or bear the unbearable.

Me BS (34) WW (29)
Married 2 years
2y old Daughter
D-Day 05 Nov 13


Posts: 138 | Registered: Dec 2013 | From: Australia
Lost15
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Member # 40898
Default  Posted: 9:39 PM, February 8th (Saturday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

MOW was a 1st grade teacher for 20 years and a high school softball coach. I say was because she just up and left her job to go be with stbxh. She also left her 4 kids behind.


me(BS)-34 him(WS)-32 DS-15
Married 15 years
Blindsided with divorce 07-12-13
DD-08-1-13 OW-40ish,married 20 yrs, with 4 kids she abandoned
Divorcing and trying to move one tiny step forward at a time.

Posts: 114 | Registered: Oct 2013
FindMyselfAgain
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Member # 36969
Default  Posted: 9:51 PM, February 8th (Saturday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

She is nothing more than a broken little girl (20 years old at the time of the affair). The company whore, whose life goal was to die when she's 27...cause, you know, everybody really cool dies at 27. She was a machine operator at a production plant...going from one maintenance tech to the next.

I pity her. What a sad existence...


DDay: October 7, 2011
R finally started in earnest: April 2014

Posts: 202 | Registered: Sep 2012
jpumpkin
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Member # 42148
Default  Posted: 10:49 PM, February 8th (Saturday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

#1 cow. Damsel in distress type who fed the need of FWS to be the kisa to EVERYONE and lended an ear and her body when we hit a rough patch.

#2 employee who provided him with recreational prescription drugs.

In other words, train wrecks.


Posts: 62 | Registered: Jan 2014
DTERMINED2SURVIV
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Member # 42294
Default  Posted: 9:35 AM, February 9th (Sunday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

A door girl at a nightclub... THAT WAS EA
One worked at a daycare -PA
One worked at mcdonalds lol-PA
One did hair-PA
One was a full time student-PA
One worked at walmart-PA
One was a stripper -pa
One was a bartender-pa
One was a shot girl-pa
(this is all at the same nigthclub)
One was a waitress-pa
One was a teacher-pa
They were all sluts on the side...




Posts: 271 | Registered: Feb 2014 | From: Where theres lots of southern HOEspitality
lovehonorcherish
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Member # 41843
Default  Posted: 9:57 AM, February 9th (Sunday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

H's AP was a 41 year old, bottle blonde...nothing to write home about; twice married, twice divorced to the same man; drove a school bus and flipped burgers part time at McDonald's


I am no longer accepting the things I cannot change...I am changing the things I cannot accept.

Posts: 125 | Registered: Dec 2013 | From: Northeastern US
crestfallen
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Member # 27993
Default  Posted: 8:11 AM, February 10th (Monday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

H's AP was a co-worker, 16 years younger than the both of us. She lives at home with her Mommy, still. Not only did she boink my H, she boinked his boss and tried to boink my son years ago when he was 21. He was smart enough to turn her down, but my H wasn't. Go figure!!!


BS-me-57
WH-57
Married 32 years
OW-Mr. Ed ish! Seriously!
DDAY- 2/21/09
TT until 1/10/10
Working on R and doing well!!

Posts: 179 | Registered: Mar 2010
chipmunk41
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Member # 40694
Default  Posted: 8:16 AM, February 10th (Monday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

OW is self-employed. She owns a cleaning business.


wake me up when it's over...

Posts: 46 | Registered: Sep 2013
heartbrokeninaz
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Member # 40779
Default  Posted: 8:18 AM, February 10th (Monday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

33 year old massage therapist. Never been in a real relationship. Not able to function like a normal person. Everyone in our circle felt sorry for her because she was so dumb. Amazing.


BW 40 (me)
WH 40
DDay 1 07/31/13 ONS with horseface
DDay 2 05/09/14 inappropriate texts to another woman (not returned)
I live a real life fairy tale. I married prince charming. He kissed a troll. He turned into a frog.

Posts: 207 | Registered: Sep 2013
NikkiD
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Member # 38173
Default  Posted: 8:19 AM, February 10th (Monday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Damsel in distress type who fed the need of FWS to be the kisa to EVERYONE and lended an ear and her body when we hit a rough patch.

ditto


"Spoil me with Loyalty; I can finance myself...."
ME: BS-33
HE: WS-32
Married 3 years, known 20
2 kids
D-Day #1 12/30/12
False Recovery
D-Day #2 1/21/14
LTA 5 years-ish
Riding the "Struggle Bus"
Living apart....

Posts: 668 | Registered: Jan 2013 | From: Midwest
alifeforesaken
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Member # 41139
Default  Posted: 8:20 AM, February 10th (Monday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

WH employee. He got promoted, she got promoted to his exec asst. and that's when it started. Unfortunately, that's still the relationship, though WH said he is willing to leave.


BW (31)
WH (32)
Children (1yr) (1 due Mar '14)
DD#1 - 9/28/13 DD#2 11/24/13

Posts: 84 | Registered: Oct 2013
cancuncrushed
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Member # 28156
Default  Posted: 1:35 PM, February 10th (Monday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

single. marketing dept. 30 yrs old. Daughter of reknowned childrens cancer dr. Grew up in a wealthy home. Did not care for her self supporting. Looking for older man with money. Spends all her time online, copying others creativity to keep her job, and shopping addicton . She got engaged over christmas, and loading up pinterest with all her future purchase ideas. yes, he is older and successful. Its spooky to see him compared to my H. They favor. She has VERY expensive taste.


a trigger yesterday

Posts: 951 | Registered: Apr 2010 | From: athome
wildbananas
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Member # 10552
Default  Posted: 1:39 PM, February 10th (Monday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

OW 1-3, they all worked in telecom (engineers).

OW 4, I DHAC. Homewrecker works.


Travel light, live light, spread the light, be the light. ~ Yogi Bhajan

Posts: 15415 | Registered: Apr 2006 | From: Now an AZ girl
alwaysclass
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Member # 42200
Default  Posted: 1:55 PM, February 10th (Monday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

OW#1: college student who worked at Dunkin' Donuts . Guess she fed this cop (XWH) donuts along with his ego kibbles...or maybe she played ring toss

OW#2 LTA skank "hair stylist / colorist" basically hair dresser. 50+ divorcee. . She got divorced because her x cheated on her with an infamous adulteress( who was convicted of shooting her BFs wife in face). Skank's ex was given physical custody of her son. Guess what she told my ex why she didn't have physical custody? She gave it up so he could stay in same school. Of course wouldn't you turn your child over to someone that you accused of beating you? Of course and a family court judge will choose your "batterer" ex over you? Hmmm and my XWH BELIEVED all her sh*t. Oh and did I mention my ex was a cop?!!!! The final aspect of this "Catholic" woman: she taught CCD classes for the 9 years that the affair was going on. Hmmm she needs to study up on those Ten Commandments!

I swear we BSs can't make this up. Time to write a best seller


BS me 51
DWS him 52
Married 23 years
2 DSs 18y & 15y
D day 10-25-2011
Divorce final 10-25-2012...eerie same


Posts: 7 | Registered: Jan 2014
LostSamurai
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Member # 41347
Default  Posted: 2:15 PM, February 10th (Monday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

OM#1 - Relative of mine. 10 years older than her. A music minister and a janitor making 10.50 an hour and couldn't afford to do anything on his own.

OM#2 - 28 year old janitor that lives with his Mom.

Nuff Said.


I am now nothing by a mere Ronin.

Posts: 1041 | Registered: Nov 2013 | From: Maryland
huskers
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Member # 42168
Default  Posted: 2:47 PM, February 10th (Monday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Whore is person who cut his hair. I noticed it looked like shit couple months back. Would love to ruin her business as she owns the salon.

Posts: 101 | Registered: Jan 2014
64fleet
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Member # 18710
Default  Posted: 2:52 PM, February 10th (Monday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

OM was a maint. man at her office, OMM was a law school grad with a govt job supervising an office full of women-she was trading up big time w/that one.


time wounds all heels

Posts: 5397 | Registered: Mar 2008 | From: deliverance land
bionicgal
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Member # 39803
Default  Posted: 2:53 PM, February 10th (Monday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Desk clerk at gym, and aspiring "novelist." You can't make this stuff up.


me - BS (40s)
DDay - June 2013, A was 2+ months, EA then PA
In MC & Reconciling
An affair is a personal crisis, not a relationship.

I edit, therefore I am.


Posts: 2065 | Registered: Jul 2013 | From: USA
womaninflux
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Member # 39667
Default  Posted: 3:00 PM, February 10th (Monday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Social climbing (member of a board of an organization for "at risk children") former nightclub VIP room hostess (where she met lots of men who helped her move up in her career such as working as a recruiter for one of those companies that tells you you're paying too much for utilities and also get a fancy executive title at another "startup" company). When all of this shit went down last year, I asked my family member how someone with no college education could get a job with a title like that and they said, "Womaninflux, you KNOW how she got her job!!!"

Naive me…yes…that is still apparently how the world works.


BS - mid-40's
SAWH - mid 40's
Kids - 2 elementary school aged
Getting tons of therapy and trying to "work it out"

Posts: 910 | Registered: Jun 2013
ruby44
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Member # 41135
Default  Posted: 5:00 PM, February 10th (Monday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

she works for the same company, OW ran a facility in another state. They apparently met while both we attending a work function. She was married and is now in the process of divorcing. I keep in touch with her husband.


Me BW 52, Him WH 48
Married 13 years,
2 DDs (12 and 10)
D-Day Confirmed 10/24/13 suspected before that but did not want to believe it.
WH filed for D 11/12/13
2/8/14 WH asked if he could come home.
Lies!

Posts: 277 | Registered: Oct 2013 | From: Midwest
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