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User Topic: AP, who are they?
jimbo25319
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Default  Posted: 9:29 PM, February 10th (Monday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

My STBXWW's AP is a pilot she flew with at work. STBXWW is a flight attendant.

Posts: 480 | Registered: Apr 2011 | From: Maryland
caboo
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Member # 32398
Default  Posted: 9:35 PM, February 10th (Monday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Nurses x3

Unfair or not, I can't say I think very highly of that profession anymore.


Posts: 1 | Registered: Jun 2011
awesomedamaged
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Member # 36067
Default  Posted: 1:17 AM, February 11th (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Who cares what it is? A lying, hoodrat, whore, mother of 3, divorced, who cleans houses for a living and had this on her FB: "I hate liars and backstabbers" which by the way she took off her FB after "someone" pointed it out to her. What a dumbass!!!!!!!


"You can't unring that bell or unfuck that woman." (Chump Lady)

Posts: 173 | Registered: Jul 2012 | From: Midwest
Betrayed67
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Member # 38134
Default  Posted: 1:41 AM, February 11th (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

My WH's ONS was an STD-infested whore single mother of two who lived on government support at that time.

[This message edited by Betrayed67 at 1:41 AM, February 11th (Tuesday)]


Me-BW 46 yo;Him - WH 53 yo
Married 13years
One daughter together 9yo, 2 stepchildren(His from previous marriage)
Various DDdays (see my profile)
ONS and multiple "friendships" with women in various online dating sites

Posts: 131 | Registered: Jan 2013 | From: New Zealand
Girlietoo
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Member # 38719
Default  Posted: 6:24 AM, February 11th (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Recent grad- engineer in training, a co-worker


Me- 40
Him- 47
March 9, 2013- the day my heart died

Posts: 232 | Registered: Mar 2013 | From: Canada
Abbondad
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Member # 37898
Default  Posted: 6:34 AM, February 11th (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Psychiatric nurse. A caring, insightful, sensitive soul.


Divorced April Fool's Day 2014

Fear is the mind-killer.
Fear is the little-death that brings total obliteration.
I will face my fear.
I will permit it to pass over me and through me.
-Dune


Posts: 1571 | Registered: Dec 2012
byefornow
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Member # 41992
Default  Posted: 7:21 AM, February 11th (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Psychology major. Business associate by trade.


BW- me
WH - him
married over 25 years

Posts: 87 | Registered: Jan 2014 | From: USA
MindMonkey
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Member # 41679
Default  Posted: 10:50 AM, February 11th (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Lots of nurse AP's!!!

Can someone who is an RN and faithful give me some hope that the profession is not a death trap of infidelity? My FWW is a nurse and it scares the hell out of me.

OM1: Shitty excuse for a nurse. I still get the skin crawls around male nurses.

OM2: Twice divorced anesthesiologist. He cheated on and dumped wife #1 after she worked to put him through school. Second wife went to jail on prescription drug charges. Wonder where she got them?


BH, 35, CoD, Military...sober since 6/17/14
FWW, EA/PA (x2) different OM coworkers
Reconciling since 8/1/13
100% ready to file at next dealbreaker...don't test me.

Posts: 205 | Registered: Dec 2013 | From: NoVA
TrulySad
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Default  Posted: 11:45 AM, February 11th (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Two were military members
One was a nurse/Christian Counselor
One a paramedic
One was a student
The rest.....who really cares. Sigh....


Me: Done with his bullshit and getting stronger day by day

Posts: 422 | Registered: Jun 2013
SurelyNOT
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Member # 40617
Default  Posted: 12:15 PM, February 11th (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

My former h's ow, is on disability, a stay-at-home mom with a 10 year old autistic son, and a 19 year old daughter who has quit school and has been thrown out of the house because she has a drug problem, she is also gay. ow recently had a post on her fb regarding me that called into question my capabilities as a mother, because my two children want to have nothing to do with their errant father. According to her I have broken down their relationship - can you believe that
My ex also is very intolerant of gay people, people with special needs/handicaps, etc. so I cannot comprehend how he has found his "fresh start" with ow and her children. But you reap what you sow - and you my pitiful ex have made your choice.

Posts: 95 | Registered: Sep 2013
Iwilltranscend
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Member # 42631
Default  Posted: 3:36 PM, March 5th (Wednesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

OW#1 (EA/PA): military, divorced with one child. Her ex-H left her for her best friend.
OW#2 (EA): woman 10 yrs my WH's senior, works in State Dept


BW: me (41)
WH: 43
DD#1: Feb 4, 2013
DD#2: May 6, 2014
Married 2010

Posts: 20 | Registered: Mar 2014 | From: USA
OutoftheDeep
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Default  Posted: 4:31 PM, March 5th (Wednesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Office peon, late 20's, has a body like a potato, kids by some absent father/fathers. A dullard, yet arrogant and vain and self entitled. All her fb posts usually involve absolutely nothing but posting drinking pictures. I'm trying to figure out if my husband had an affair with her.

She makes it a point to work in male dominated industries like automotive & construction. I think she does this because although she tries really hard to be hot, she isn't. By being in these industries she has access to dozens of men and basically no other female competition.


Me - maybe BW
He - maybe WH
both 40ish

My mother was always the OW
ExWH in first marriage had LTA. DDAY was November 2003.
Current marriage:
2/2013 Busted him at strip club.
then...
Porous boundaries w/ ho-worker


Posts: 261 | Registered: Feb 2014
BtraydWife
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Default  Posted: 4:35 PM, March 5th (Wednesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

OW#1 -exGF -she's a stay at home mom

OW#2 -stripper/porn star who joined the circus at age 3, yes age 3, her family dumped her

OW#3 -coworker-it's an office environment

So I feel like we've covered the 3 most common.


Me-BW
Him-WH
DD-March 2010
TT for 6 months

Delay is the deadliest form of denial. - C. Northcote Parkinson


Posts: 677 | Registered: Feb 2014 | From: United States
ziganska
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Default  Posted: 4:37 PM, March 5th (Wednesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Office intern, who apparently never had a real relationship (surprise) and has always been the OW in her short, sordid, disgusting life


Me: 42
Him: 49
DD: 12/2/2013
Married: 9 years but together for 15
Recovering, Reconciling, Rebuilding, Restoring

Posts: 123 | Registered: Dec 2013 | From: New York
TICKED OFF
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Default  Posted: 4:44 PM, March 5th (Wednesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Worked as a hostess at Baker's Square.

Posts: 2397 | Registered: Sep 2005
Allornothing
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Default  Posted: 4:53 PM, March 5th (Wednesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Skelewhore is an unemployed drug abuser, never married, 2 kids to different fathers, living in a home her parents own and on government benefits. Winner!!


Me- BS 42
Him- FWH 42
Married 19 years, Together 25
Kids- 23,21,15,14
D Day- 7 Sept 2013
OW- Irrelevant

Posts: 158 | Registered: Feb 2014 | From: Australia
brokengirl37
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Default  Posted: 6:28 PM, March 5th (Wednesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

OW is an older (50) gutter whore leather C-nt. My Co-worker who works at a major grocer chain. Has no morals....apparently my life was better than hers, so she thought she would try to take it from me.


Me: 38
WH : 40
2 Boys Age 10, 13
D-Day Feb 16 2014
OW: My Co-worker

Posts: 58 | Registered: Feb 2014 | From: Canada
Uhtred
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Member # 40392
Default  Posted: 6:40 PM, March 5th (Wednesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Other man #1 54 year old goofy looking nerd 22 years her senior, Married with grandchildren our children's ages, British Petroleum employee. 1 year long physical and emotional affair - I found out and confronted.

Other man #2 Ex military married with Children. Emotional, Sending dirty messages and pictures affair. Found out and confronted.


Me: BH 32years old DDay 4-29-13
Her: WW 33 years old
“Yet each man kills the thing he loves
By each let this be heard
Some do it with a bitter look
Some with a flattering word
The coward does it with a kiss
The brave man with a sword”

Posts: 534 | Registered: Aug 2013 | From: Houston, Texas
Dobegirl
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Member # 41837
Default  Posted: 6:46 PM, March 5th (Wednesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

A 25 year old slut who worked at a big retail chain in the mall. Tried to get pregnant by my stbxwh. And tried to slap a restraining order on me.


Me- BS 44 Always faithfull
Him- WS 44
2 mo. EA/PA with 25 yr. old slut that stroked his ego, online profiles, CL ads
Married 8 years-No kids together
DDay-11/21/12
False R many different times fromJan/13 till Dec/13
Ring

Posts: 147 | Registered: Dec 2013 | From: Northern Indiana
LolaJean
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Member # 42669
Default  Posted: 9:49 PM, March 5th (Wednesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

OW #1: vet assistant (30 year old recently divorced who ended up sleeping with 7 of our neighbors. The biggest pain in my ass. She tried to do all sorts of things to steal him away from me, and turn our friends against me. Things have turned out nicely now that she is almost completely out of the picture.)
OW #2: admin assistant, 30's single mother of a teenage daughter
OW #3: works for a magazine, also party promoter (apparently is a "pornstar")
OW #4: esthetician, bartender
OW #6-7: cosmetology students, servers
OW #8-20+ that I know of: friends of friends who showed up at parties, all just have restaurant jobs that support their partying
- most one night stands that continued into sexting, dirty pictures and a couple more nights randomly when I was traveling

They all had one thing in common: they fell for his BS smooth talking and his promises. He met most of his whores at bars or parties. He's a complete dreamer and paints a really pretty picture, especially after a couple cocktails.

AP are all sorts of people but its clear they are all their own sort of fucked up. It takes a special kind of person to be intimate or communicate this way with a person they know is in a committed relationship.


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