Cheating Hurt by Infidelity
Betrayal Wayward Donations lying
Welcome

Forums

Guidelines

Find a Local Counselor

The Healing Library

Media

Contact Us
lies
cover
In Association with Amazon.com
Support
Infidelity -
-
like us on facebook
You are not logged in. Login here or register.
[Register]
Newest Member: roseyposey (44693)

General Post Reply     Print Topic    
User Topic: AP, who are they?
emotionalgirl
♀ Member
Member # 40184
Default  Posted: 7:52 PM, September 8th (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Was on workers compensation for injury obtained working for cleaning company....lots of spare time on her hands to text and talk to my WH!


1st D day: Saturday July 20,2013
2nd D day....when the s**t really hit the fan and the truth came out.Saturday August 3,2013
3rd D day: Friday August 16, 2013...NC sent Friday Aug 30 4th D day NOV 11
Me: BS
Him: WH
Married 25 years....finally in R

Posts: 370 | Registered: Aug 2013
momwith2boys
♀ New Member
Member # 37459
Default  Posted: 7:55 PM, September 8th (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

She was my friend of 6 years. She is a married, stay at home mom to 3 small children (former engineer). I have done all kinds of things for her like throw her a baby shower, watch her children when she was working, took care of her pets and home while she was on vacation.


Me BW 34
husband 34
Married 9 years, together 12 years
OW-my so called "friend"
2 boys (6 & 2)
D-day 10/17/2012
D-day2-2/24/2013 told me it was her
D-day3-6/16/2013 found out affair never ended
Working on R

Posts: 34 | Registered: Nov 2012
mixedintherut
♀ Member
Member # 40330
Default  Posted: 8:02 PM, September 8th (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

OW is a truck driver, just like him! So their crazy schedules can coordinate, and God only knows what else!


DD 1: PA 12/4/09 He spent 2.5 years with OW1
R: 8/31/2012
DD 2: EA 8/16/13
BS: 26
WH: 25
1 young daughter.
Terribly disgusted. He refuses to give up his "friend". Headed towards D.

Posts: 136 | Registered: Aug 2013 | From: kentucky
Holly-Isis
♀ Member
Member # 13447
Default  Posted: 8:06 PM, September 8th (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Ugh. Now I wonder if it's a band I listen to...hope not.

xOw1 was the receptionist at the local mental health center...so I couldn't go there for help after d-day.

xOw2 is a gov't analyst.


"Being in love" first moved them to promise fidelity: this quieter love enables them to keep the promise. *CS Lewis*

Posts: 11115 | Registered: Jan 2007 | From: Just a fool in limbo
Housefulloflove
♀ Member
Member # 38458
Default  Posted: 8:09 PM, September 8th (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

An almost non-English speaking cleaner at Ex's job. She was depressed, suicidal, lost custody of her kids, had no nearby support and apparently no morals. Ripe for the picking!


Me-29 Starting over
ExWH-29 Probable NPD, PA, manchild
3 beautiful young children
DDay 1/20/13 Admits PA
No remorse so NO R. DIVORCED! 9/2013

Posts: 541 | Registered: Feb 2013 | From: USA
toomanyregrets
♂ Member
Member # 37740
Default  Posted: 8:11 PM, September 8th (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

fWW's boss.


BH - 64
fWW - 59

"Affairs are not mistakes, they are a series of deliberate choices." - CrappyLife


Posts: 457 | Registered: Dec 2012 | From: Upstate NY
blakesteele
♂ Member
Member # 38044
Default  Posted: 8:25 PM, September 8th (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Married business owner, 5 kids.

I was shocked to see pics on here a while back....BS and WS look like every person I see on the street....no evil eyes, no sexy devil looking women....just every day people.

I work with a fWS that is a grandma.

God be with us all.


ME: 42 BH, I don't PM female members
SHE: 38 EA
Married: 15 years
Together: 17 years
D/Day 9-10-12
NC: 10-25-12
NC: Broken early November 2012, OM not respond
2 girls; 7 and 10
Fear is payments on debts you have not

Posts: 3609 | Registered: Jan 2013 | From: Central Missouri
LiedtoLucy
♀ Member
Member # 39246
Default  Posted: 8:28 PM, September 8th (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Registered Nurse


LTL

Me: BS
Him: WH
OW=UW or Ugly Whore- cow of WH
UW claims to be pregnant w/ WH baby and I HATE her for it.
DDay: 4/23/13
Together: 14 years
Married: 10 years
Kids: 3 beautiful boys. Ages: 8, 4, & 19 months
Trying to R-Some days are


Posts: 173 | Registered: May 2013 | From: Southeastern U.S.
cantgetup
♀ Member
Member # 36146
Default  Posted: 9:05 PM, September 8th (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

OP, prior to be fired for coming to work drunk, worked for a major airline. Now works at big box home improvement chain.

Posts: 308 | Registered: Jul 2012
mrs. duped
♀ Member
Member # 28668
Default  Posted: 11:14 PM, September 8th (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Registered nurse here too!


me: BW-36
him: WH-34
married 8 years; together 13 years
one dd=2 years old
3 month EA turned PA with coworker
D-day: April 19 2010.
Trying to R

Posts: 141 | Registered: Jun 2010 | From: michigan
3boys
♀ New Member
Member # 38736
Default  Posted: 11:35 PM, September 8th (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Holier-than-thou-Christian middle school teacher and married mother of 2.


BW-47
FWH-54
M-28yrs
DS-24,DS-20,DS-14,DGS-10mon,DGS-5mon.
MOW-holier-than-thou Christian whore
2 yr EA, 2-3 mon PA
Dday-10/10/2009
R

Posts: 31 | Registered: Mar 2013
cuppacoffee
♀ Member
Member # 39313
Default  Posted: 11:38 PM, September 8th (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

skankface was a movie theater employee. now she's a movie theater manager going for the job my husband just lost.

i hope skankface gets the herp.


I'm like a vacuum bag
That holds all that old dirt
Remember that time we said we'd be together forever?
Don't hate me, don't regret me, don't ever forget me
Wherever you go, whatever you do, don't say I never loved you

Posts: 360 | Registered: May 2013
sleepless34
♀ Member
Member # 40274
Default  Posted: 11:46 PM, September 8th (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage


OW was a woman he met in an open marriage chat room (and we didn't have open marriage, so what up with that?)
Then they feel "in love"Puke

OW is also a narcissist, insecure, slutty looking, older, sales person, who actually ran for political office and listed info about her "midwest family values" she better not run again...


Me BW- 40ish, awesome
Cheating scusband 40ish
2 kids, elementary school age
Bomb dropped Aug 4 out of nowhere...

Posts: 443 | Registered: Aug 2013 | From: Hell
Josephine01
♀ Member
Member # 38511
Default  Posted: 12:11 AM, September 9th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Works for the IRS and likes to play with her maintenance men. While in mourning from the "love of her life's" death. Her AP my H who is no better.


Me, 42 BS
H, 61 WH
2 boys 19 and 15 years old
Married 24 years

Posts: 314 | Registered: Feb 2013
avicarswife
♀ Member
Member # 35799
Default  Posted: 12:26 AM, September 9th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

mOW#1 unemployed (unemployable bunny boiler) but did voluntary work at church for my husband - friends with mOW#2

mOW#2 part time volunteer chaplain! (My WH officiated at her wedding to her BS who was his friend.) ALL so


BS: 47 (me)
WH: 51
Married 26 yrs, 3 kids (16-24)
D-Days 2012: 23 - 24 May + TT
D-Day 2013: 12 Apr OW#3
mOW #1 EA yrs PA Feb 2009-end 2011
mOW #2 EA months PA 4 months 2010
OW #3 PA single time 2010
Status: Maybe 'R'

Posts: 715 | Registered: Jun 2012 | From: "down-under"
NotDefeatedYet
♂ Member
Member # 33642
Default  Posted: 2:26 AM, September 9th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

One was a 40 year old truck dispatcher. Another was a mechanic. And the primary one was essentially a ditch digger; he worked for a haz-mat clean up crew. None of them had any college. She said because I did graduate college it made her feel inferior. So yeah, she was looking for idiots.


"It's a fool that looks for logic in the chambers of the human heart."

Posts: 769 | Registered: Oct 2011 | From: Texas
kickboxer
♀ Member
Member # 39858
Default  Posted: 2:28 AM, September 9th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

OW #1 - ? (BarHO ONS)
OW #2 - Works at PetSmart in some career-type capacity (ONS found on POF)
OW #3 - Middle School teacher, married for 2nd time (old girlfriend, reconnected on FB, 6 month long-distance EA)

OW 4, 5, 6...and beyond? He says there weren't any others, but I don't know how long it will take - or if - I will ever believe that.

Barf.


BW - 42 (Me)
WH - 39 (2 ONS, 6m EA)
Married 13 years, 3 children
DD: 7/13/13
Status: Rugsweeping, I guess.

Posts: 248 | Registered: Jul 2013 | From: Somewhere Out There
confused615
♀ Member
Member # 30826
Default  Posted: 5:46 AM, September 9th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Now? He is a truck driver (yes,I keep tabs).

But then...he was a cashier at a gas station.

I am THREE DAMNED YEARS out. THREE! And it just hit me...when I met WH...I was an assistant manager/cashier at a little small town gas station.

So OM and I have something in common.


Ya know...these little "surprises"..that aren't *really* surprises at all..just things that didn't occur to me before..due to the damn shock and trauma of what WH freaking did...can STOP now..please.

I used to have a great memory.

I swear.

[This message edited by confused615 at 5:47 AM, September 9th (Monday)]


BS(me)41
FWH 45
4 kids..21,20,11,9
M: June 2001
D-Day: 8/10/10
Status: Happily Reconciled.

..that feeling you get in your stomach, when you heart's broken. It's like all the butterflies just died.


Posts: 7303 | Registered: Jan 2011 | From: Indiana
LAFA
♂ Member
Member # 31868
Default  Posted: 5:51 AM, September 9th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

OM was a heroin addict, and tried to get WW into the same thing.


When you put someone on a pedestal, they quickly learn two things. The view is mighty good from up there, and it is a fine vantage from which to kick.

Posts: 183 | Registered: Apr 2011 | From: Hawaii
hurtsobadinside
♂ Member
Member # 35308
Default  Posted: 6:05 AM, September 9th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

VP Sales for competitor company (married with 2 sons and a scout master)

I knew him also thru my WW and considered him a friend

I could have got both of them fired if I "outed" the "A" to their HR and compliance depts.


BS- me 59
WS-her 57
LTA--7 yrs. PA & EA with former boss
1 Daughter 24 - reformed eating disorder left with excessive OCB
Dday- April 2012
Comfrontation day -7 wks later
Married 25 yrs.
I did contact AP's faithful wife and advised her of everything
Status: in "R" and finally getting better but slowly



Posts: 151 | Registered: Apr 2012 | From: Illinois
Topic Posts: 275
Pages: 1 · 2 · 3 · 4 · 5 · 6 · 7 · 8 · 9 · 10 · 11 · 12 · 13 · 14

Return to Forum: General Post Reply to this Topic
adultry
Go to :
madness  
© 2002 - 2014 SurvivingInfidelity.com. All Rights Reserved.