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User Topic: He didn't bring them home!
Dreamboat
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Default  Posted: 7:38 PM, September 9th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

(((hugs)))

I can imagine your pain. More than once I had to rescue DD from my ILs when she was supposed to be visiting X. I won't get into the details because they do not compare with what your asshole X is doing, but I do understand somewhat.

Stay the course. And of course realize that this asshole put the nail in his coffin wrt getting custody. This type of behavior will not gain him any points in court.

I do hope he returns them soon.


And it's hard to dance with a devil on your back
So shake him off
-- Shake It Out, Florence And The Machine

Posts: 17688 | Registered: Apr 2006 | From: A better place :)
PricklePatch
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Default  Posted: 8:02 PM, September 14th (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Are your twins home yet?


BS
Fwh
sorry post on my tablet

Posts: 313 | Registered: Nov 2011 | From: pricklepatch
careerlady
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Default  Posted: 1:24 AM, September 15th (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

That is just evil! I feel like my WH would pull that crap. I hope he pays in BLOOD


Me (BS, 35); The Snake (WS, 36) 13yrs together; 1 baby boy (DOB 7/12)
Serial cheater-Multiple OWs, Multiple D-Days
D by default 5/3/14!
In house 8 mos, moved out 7/1!!!
Summary: http://youtu.be/iaysTVcounI

Posts: 942 | Registered: Nov 2007 | From: Northern California
persevere
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Default  Posted: 2:21 PM, September 15th (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

OMG GM, what a SOB. I hope the kids are home safely with you asap. ((Hugs))


Me: BW-44
Him: XWH-44
Together 9 yrs
DDays: 1/10/2011
Status: Divorced 4/27/11

Above all, be the heroine, not the victim. - Nora Ephron

It is our choices...that show what we truly are, far more than our abilities.
- J. K. Rowling


Posts: 4609 | Registered: Mar 2011 | From: Texas
solus sto
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Default  Posted: 7:23 AM, September 17th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

If I've missed an update, I apologize.

Are the kids back?!


BS-me, 52
WH (Trac-fone), 53, PD
2 kids-DD25, DS18
multiple d-days
DIVORCING
Alone, most strangely, I live on~Rupert Brooke

Posts: 8848 | Registered: Jan 2011 | From: midwest
DeadMumWalking
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Default  Posted: 2:27 PM, September 17th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Are the kids back?!

I was wondering this too.

((((GM))))


Me (BS), Him (WH): early 50's
3 DS: teens!!! :)
M: 25 (19 1/2 at Dday), Together 30
Dday: Dec 2008
Limbo-ish, again (after multiple S) -- weighing my options

Posts: 2609 | Registered: Aug 2009 | From: EU
betrayedfriend
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Default  Posted: 6:30 PM, September 17th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Me too, are they home?


I originally joined SI as a way to help my best friends find ways of coping with infidelity, but now infidelity has touched my family much closer to home.

Posts: 868 | Registered: Jun 2008 | From: Midwest USA
Griefstricken25
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Default  Posted: 1:06 AM, September 18th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I hope she's just too busy enjoying her babies to check in here. I've been worried.


Me!
3 amazing kidlets
To WXH "Now you're just somebody that I used to know." http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=d9NF2edxy-M
D-day and separation - June, 2009
Divorced - December, 2011

Posts: 2524 | Registered: Jul 2010 | From: A better place
peridot
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Default  Posted: 1:59 PM, September 18th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Bumping


I think...therefore, I'm single.

It is what it is.


Posts: 4788 | Registered: Feb 2008
ArkLaMiss
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Default  Posted: 2:36 PM, September 18th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Any news?


Just HOW stupid do you think I am, exactly?

Posts: 1203 | Registered: Jun 2007
Crescita
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Default  Posted: 3:12 PM, September 18th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Sending prayers and hugs GM. Hope they are safe at home with you.


“Happiness cannot be pursued; it must ensue.” ― Viktor E. Frankl, Man's Search for Meaning

Posts: 3454 | Registered: Jun 2011 | From: The Valley of the Sun
ArkLaMiss
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Default  Posted: 12:31 PM, September 19th (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Any word?


Just HOW stupid do you think I am, exactly?

Posts: 1203 | Registered: Jun 2007
GrievingMommy
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Default  Posted: 2:41 PM, September 19th (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Hi everyone. Thanks for checking up on us! XH aka Douche Bag, notified me on Sunday (the 15th) at 8:30 pm that he was dropping them off the next morning.....when he knew I worked until the afternoon. So I told him that he knew I'd be working and that I'll be home at 4 pm for the exchange. I didn't hear anything from him to tell me differently.

He takes the cowards way out and drops them off at my daycare at noon!! I think that was to avoid facing me (although I literally wasn't going to say a word to him). I wouldn't have even known had she not called me and asked what was going on since I hadn't mentioned them being dropped off. He texted awhile after dropping them off.

A few minutes into talking to them at daycare, they immediately stated that I "need to share", "needs to drive", "have us 45 weeks", "they (XH) miss us more"....so they've obviously been talking to the children about adult matters/talking in front of them. Daycare Mom also heard the kids say it.

But the good thing is, the kids are home safe and sound!! Court is in the end of October.

[This message edited by GrievingMommy at 2:45 PM, September 19th (Thursday)]


Me - Now 36 y/o
WXH: Now 45 y/o and 18+ hrs away -NPD asshole now onto wife #3.
My sweeties: 5 yr old B/G twins. 90% custody (or more) since 14 months old.
D-Day 4/4/10 PA('s?) & EA's - D'd 7/11

Posts: 1691 | Registered: Apr 2010 | From: Upper Midwest
betrayedfriend
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Default  Posted: 3:00 PM, September 19th (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

So glad your precious babies are back home, and UGH... Your x and his dumbass wife, need to shut their yaps in front of the kids, that's parental alienation and incredibly damaging to the kids.


I originally joined SI as a way to help my best friends find ways of coping with infidelity, but now infidelity has touched my family much closer to home.

Posts: 868 | Registered: Jun 2008 | From: Midwest USA
MissMoneypenny
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Default  Posted: 3:50 AM, September 20th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I am so glad you finally have your kids back but I feel so sorry for the stress and pain you are going through facing this dumbass father of them at court.
Show him the bitch boots !!


" The only thing I have in common with OW is our birthday "

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