If she triggers hold her tight. You don't have to say anything but showing her you get why she might be triggering will be very comforting to her. She will know you get part of her pain. If there is a trigger, after the show, be brave and bring it up. Let her know you are sorry she felt bad, or that you could see how what ever it was could make her trigger.....trust me on this....BS's know what other BS's need :o)
Good luck. I am happy you are doing something normal together. Great step in the right direction!
TMe: BS 50
Hubby: WH 53
Together: 32 years
Married: 25 years 09/10/2013
2 boys: 23&21
A length: 4+ years (yes years)
status: Ongoing Reconciliation :o)
Through thick and thin we will survive but he gets only one shot at it!