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openedupmyeyes
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Happy  Posted: 8:24 AM, September 9th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

My h and I go grocery shopping every weekend @ our local store that begins with a K.
We've had this same routine for the las year. We go go early, super early. When the store opens up for business. Its like they opened the store just for us. Anyway,
Most mornings h grabs breakfast for us while I shop. Then meets me in the store,shops,and loads the checkout. We are always friendly with our cashier. She's the same lady checker since we've been shopping there. Yesterday, she said you guys are my favorite couple. You laugh @ his jokes. He lights up when he looks @ you. How long have you been married? H says 35 years, mere newlyweds. With a big smile. I don't deserve her, I work hardevery day to make her glad she's my Mrs. I laughed and said he's telling the truth.
We continued on with our errands for the day. But, that exchange stayed with us.


Me:53 BS
Him:53 FWH Trying to make me a believer?
Years married:35
:03-01-10: The day I learned the truth
Kids:Daughters 4 all grown and married.
Reconciliation is hard.
Really freakin' hard.

Posts: 765 | Registered: Mar 2010 | From: The Great State of Texas
AFrayedKnot
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Default  Posted: 8:31 AM, September 9th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Awesome!!!


BS 40
fWS 36 (SurprisinglyOkay)
DD DS
A whole bunch of shit that got a lot worse before it got better.
"Knowing is half the battle"

Posts: 2629 | Registered: Aug 2012
shatteredheart7
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Default  Posted: 9:08 AM, September 9th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

This made me

I love hearing such positive stories!


Me~40
FWH~46
Married 8yrs
Together 11 1/2
Me~ 3 kids, 21,17,14
Him~no kids
A with a mutual "friend" for 2+yrs
He confessed 9/9/12
A was over 2/12
7/13~ Happier than we have been in yrs!

Posts: 240 | Registered: Jul 2013
catlover50
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Default  Posted: 9:25 AM, September 9th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

So happy for you both!

I know some people hate it when people praise their WS, but I like it. People never used to say what a great H I had; now they do, total strangers. Because he is!



Dday -9/24/2012
Reconciling

Posts: 1750 | Registered: Oct 2012 | From: northeast
openedupmyeyes
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Default  Posted: 10:00 AM, September 9th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I don't always feel positive about r. So this was a positive for me. Just thought I'd share. She said she could tell we were so in love. She could tell by our body language. Hmmmm.


Me:53 BS
Him:53 FWH Trying to make me a believer?
Years married:35
:03-01-10: The day I learned the truth
Kids:Daughters 4 all grown and married.
Reconciliation is hard.
Really freakin' hard.

Posts: 765 | Registered: Mar 2010 | From: The Great State of Texas
SisterMilkshake
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Default  Posted: 10:39 AM, September 9th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Very sweet!


BW (me) 50ish FWH 50ish
Married 34 years, 3 children
d-day 3/10 LTA (4 yrs./fucking & flirting)

"Oh, why do my actions have consequences?" ~ Homer Simpson
"She knew my one weakness: That I'm weak!" ~ Homer Simpson


Posts: 9798 | Registered: Nov 2010 | From: The Great White North USA
SandAway
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Default  Posted: 10:55 AM, September 9th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

That is awesome. Thanks for sharing.


fWW
BH Tred
M 16yrs
DDay Nov. 2011

Guns don't kill people; Affairs kill people


Posts: 439 | Registered: Dec 2012
Flatlined123
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Default  Posted: 12:08 PM, September 9th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

That's so sweet. Those kinds of things just make you feel good.


Me: BS 43
H : WS 46
DD #1 7-11-08
DD#2 8-21-09 same OW, A never ended.
Started R in 12-09
"If what doesn't kill you makes you stronger, I should be able to bench press a Buick."

Posts: 677 | Registered: Jun 2012
Twentyplus
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Default  Posted: 12:13 PM, September 9th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Made. Our. Day.


"But we must supply our own light." - Stanley Kubrick


Posts: 67 | Registered: Jun 2013 | From: The Big Blue Sea
soconfusednow
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Default  Posted: 1:14 PM, September 9th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Isn't that so wonderful!

Someone took a picture of my husband & I, When I saw it I couldn't believe the way he was looking at me. I felt so loved!


D-Day January 2013
prior EA in the 90's
me 50
WH 52
NC-several
last broken NC 7/2013 (hopefully)
Married 29 years
2 kids
Want to believe it's over, but is it really? Will I ever trust again?

Posts: 317 | Registered: Jul 2013 | From: USA
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