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User Topic: Update on he doesn't know that I know
Karmita
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Default  Posted: 9:41 PM, March 10th (Monday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage


Yeah...he cried.... The snot kind of crying.

I would have offered him a tissue but instead handed him a roll of toilet paper because he's full of shit.


Posts: 76 | Registered: Aug 2013
karmahappens
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Default  Posted: 9:43 PM, March 10th (Monday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Good girl!


“And the day came when the risk to remain tight in a bud was more painful than the risk it took to blossom”
Anaïs Nin
Me: 45
Him: 47
Dday 8/2007
We have R'd

Posts: 3856 | Registered: Jun 2012 | From: Massachusetts
Karmita
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Member # 40183
Default  Posted: 9:49 PM, March 10th (Monday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage


Thanks Karmahappens.

I am a good girl....but I'm also embracing the don't take crap side of me.


Posts: 76 | Registered: Aug 2013
JellyGirl84
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Default  Posted: 9:50 PM, March 10th (Monday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Ohhhhh this is just so epic. I have the same fighter personality as you and I wish I wouldn't have been blindsided by the A because if I had any inkling about it, I'd have gathered evidence and similarly rocked, hard core!

What was said between you and ex-Butt Plug?

[This message edited by JellyGirl84 at 9:51 PM, March 10th (Monday)]


Me: BS 30
WH: 30
No kids
Divorced in June 2014
Together 10 yrs, Married for 3 of those yrs
OP: Ho worker
Divorced June 2014

Posts: 162 | Registered: Dec 2013 | From: Nj
Karmita
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Member # 40183
Default  Posted: 10:02 PM, March 10th (Monday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Mr. butt plug didn't like that I divorced his sorry ass.

He should be happy I didn't fight for his lazy boy chair in the divorce.


Posts: 76 | Registered: Aug 2013
kayaker55
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Default  Posted: 10:11 PM, March 10th (Monday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Just found this post Karmita.
I am in a messy sit with my SAWH but read thru all the pages of your post and just wanna say YOU GO GIRL. You are inspiring....and amusing.
Thanks and hugs.


Me: BS 56
He: SAFWH 56
Married 34 years
SA behavior + 2 affairs. I was clueless.
Future uncertain.

Posts: 71 | Registered: Dec 2013 | From: Vancouver, BC
nowiknow23
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Member # 33226
Default  Posted: 10:12 PM, March 10th (Monday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Congratulations! So much to celebrate.


You can call me NIK

"If you carry joy in your heart, you can heal any moment."
- Carlos Santana


Posts: 26094 | Registered: Aug 2011
Karmita
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Default  Posted: 10:20 PM, March 10th (Monday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Sending a big hug and raising my glass to all you sweet people.

I feel good and I just want to say that as much as we are brought down to never give up on loving ourselves,

I'm scared...but that won't stop me from facing my fears.

I chose to be happy...and I will be because I want it so bad.


Posts: 76 | Registered: Aug 2013
hear-me-roar
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Default  Posted: 11:31 PM, March 10th (Monday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage


Karmita - I have enjoyed your divorce so much! Your story is a good laugh to say good-night on. I like the way you go through life with a humorous rumble. I'm sure with a dash of down sometimes. Peace to you.

There once was a girl called Karmita
Of the likes, there was no one as sweeta.
Bought a Butt-Plug for him
Said, the marriage will end
Adios - and I hope not to see ya


Posts: 77 | Registered: Jan 2008
DejaVuu
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Default  Posted: 12:47 AM, March 11th (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Karmanita,

Your courage, your humor, your strength ~ all give those of us out here still struggling... hope.

I hope your days ahead will be the best of your life.

I raise my glass to you!


Me: BS | Him: WS
Three amazing daughters
D-Day: Too many to post :/

It is only in our darkest hours that we may discover the true strength of the brilliant light within ourselves that can never, ever, be dimmed.
~Doe Zantamata


Posts: 83 | Registered: Feb 2012 | From: CA
HurtsButImOK
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Default  Posted: 1:02 AM, March 11th (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Sounds like you are doing well Karmita. You have shown incredible strength through it all.

Congrats on the divorce, hope the BF is dreamy and treats you like the special person you are.

I would have offered him a tissue but instead handed him a roll of toilet paper because he's full of shit.

^^ that made me laugh out loud . One of the best lines ever!


Me: Awesome - 35.... ummm, not anymore

"I’ve learned that people will forget what you said, people will forget what you did, but people will never forget how you made them feel". –Maya Angelou


Posts: 756 | Registered: Apr 2013 | From: Australia
RidingHealingRd
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Default  Posted: 1:07 AM, March 11th (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I am so happy that you are charing forward and leaving the nightmare behind.

Wishing you years of the happiness you so deserve,


ME: 54 BS
HIM: 61 WH
Married: 28 years
D'Day: 10/29/10
in R 4 years and it's working but he is putting 200% into it (as he should) to make it right again.

The truth hurts, but I have never seen it cause the pain that lies do.


Posts: 2133 | Registered: Nov 2011
Lola88
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Default  Posted: 2:52 AM, March 11th (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Congratulations on your divorce from Butt plug, and love and good wishes for a happy and successful future!

I loved this thread - only found it after a recommendation - and I've read it right through.

Great reaction x


Posts: 127 | Registered: Dec 2013 | From: UK
LivinginLimbo
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Default  Posted: 6:45 AM, March 11th (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

You are amazing!! Now that the Butt Plug has been permanently removed, I wish you all the best.


BS - 62
FWH - 60
Married 34 years
D-Day 2/12/12
Doing well with R

Posts: 1055 | Registered: Mar 2012
NeverAgain2013
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Default  Posted: 7:20 AM, March 11th (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

My ex and Hauren broke up...

The HELL you say!

You mean, their oh so special looooooove wasn't forged by the heavens and the universe to last for eternity?????


Be careful - that 'knight in shining armor' may very well be nothing more than an assclown wrapped in tin foil.
ME: 50+ years old and cute as a button :-)
Ex-WBF: Just a lying, cheating, gravy-sucking pig - and I left him in 2012.

Posts: 1887 | Registered: Jan 2013 | From: USA
Karmita
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Default  Posted: 10:40 AM, March 11th (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage


It's tragic that their one of a kind...most greatest love of all time is now dust.

I read their e-mails and texts and their chemistry and love was expressed with such poetic words.

Words like....

I want to suck your dick...

I love it when you suck my dick....

Shakespeare had nothing on them


Posts: 76 | Registered: Aug 2013
nowiknow23
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Default  Posted: 10:42 AM, March 11th (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage


You can call me NIK

"If you carry joy in your heart, you can heal any moment."
- Carlos Santana


Posts: 26094 | Registered: Aug 2011
brokengirl37
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Default  Posted: 11:49 AM, March 11th (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

YOU ROCK!!!

Wishing you the best FOREVER!!


Me: 38
WH : 40
2 Boys Age 10, 13
D-Day Feb 16 2014
OW: My Co-worker

Posts: 71 | Registered: Feb 2014 | From: Canada
PippaPeach6
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Default  Posted: 12:18 PM, March 14th (Friday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

(((Karmita)))

Your strength and heart are truly amazing.

And you totally rock those bitch boots!

Wishing you all the best!!


Us: 50ish, madhatters, married 20 odd yrs
TT: May 2009 'til June
DDay for both: June 17, 2009
Me: 2x, same person, 1991
Him: 1.5 year PA (EA?) 2007-2009
Reconciled

Honey Badger don't care. - Randall


Posts: 386 | Registered: Nov 2012 | From: Flyover chic
tushnurse
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Default  Posted: 12:28 PM, March 14th (Friday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Great to hear from you.

Congrats on your new life.

I hope you have found your happy without a man. It's great you are dating, but having your happy without one makes you a whole lot less likely to EVER put up with an ounce of that crap again.


Me: FBS
Him: FWS
Kids: 15 & 17
Married for 22 years now, was 16 at the time. .
D-Day Sept 26 2008
Fully R'd, and Happy Happy Happy

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