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User Topic: Update on he doesn't know that I know
Getting to Happy
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Default  Posted: 2:36 PM, March 14th (Friday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

So happy you landed on your feet!

Strength and Beauty, that is what you are.

And this:

Mr. butt plug didn't like that I divorced his sorry ass.

He should be happy I didn't fight for his lazy boy chair in the divorce.

I see that your humor is still intact! You Go Miss!!!

Enjoy your cute new guy!


WS him
BS me DD's 26, 25' DS 23
dd1 1-1-10, dd2 Mothers Day 2011, dd3 3-12-12 Hawaii trip with ho-worker...

Never forget what is worth remembering or remember what is best forgotten.
Unknown


Posts: 1140 | Registered: Apr 2012 | From: La La Land
Uhtred
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Default  Posted: 4:15 PM, March 14th (Friday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

First time seeing this thread and all I can say is wow! What a damn fine job you did to pull all that together!


Me: BH 32years old DDay 4-29-13
Her: WW 33 years old
“Yet each man kills the thing he loves
By each let this be heard
Some do it with a bitter look
Some with a flattering word
The coward does it with a kiss
The brave man with a sword”

Posts: 605 | Registered: Aug 2013 | From: Houston, Texas
4everfaithful83
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Default  Posted: 4:39 PM, March 14th (Friday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Also my first time seeing this post and all I have to say is WOW!

You are a remarkably strong woman! Such awesomeness! Love it!


Always know if the juice is worth the squeeze...

ME: 31
WBF: 27
Together 7 years
1 doggie
DDay: June 24, 2013
IN R...


Posts: 565 | Registered: Dec 2013 | From: Pennsylvania
DTERMINED2SURVIV
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Default  Posted: 6:50 PM, March 14th (Friday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

LOL...the shakespear comment!!
Thats something I would have said.




Posts: 270 | Registered: Feb 2014 | From: Where theres lots of southern HOEspitality
MammaMia
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Default  Posted: 10:48 PM, March 14th (Friday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Karmita:

Good luck to you; you deserve it.

So your ex and his dream girl broke up? Where is the love? That's why they say that secrecy is what makes affairs so exciting. once it's out in the open, they both show their real face and it is not a pretty picture.


And once the storm is over, you won’t remember how you made it through, how you managed to survive.But one thing is certain. When you come out of the storm, you won’t be the same person who walked in. That’s what this storm’s all about.”

Posts: 873 | Registered: Nov 2011 | From: Somewhere in the South
Karmita
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Default  Posted: 4:37 PM, May 7th (Wednesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Bumped into the ex-OW at restaurant this weekend. I asked my waitress to send her a drink from me and my cute boyfriend. It was a drink called the red headed slut.

I think she got the message.


Posts: 74 | Registered: Aug 2013
Furious1
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Default  Posted: 4:53 PM, May 7th (Wednesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

This is the first time I have seen this post and all I can say is "Do those boots come in my size?" YOU ROCK!


BW: 41
WH: 48
Married 18 years. SD: 25 from his 1st. M. DS: 20 from 1st M. DD: 16 (autistic)

D-day: Oct. 2013 with ongoing revelations.
6 affairs, 1 OC, My sister was OW#5 with countless attempted A's.
Considering R but fully ready to D.


Posts: 298 | Registered: Apr 2014 | From: United States
devasted30
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Default  Posted: 5:20 PM, May 7th (Wednesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

You continue to amaze me with your strength and wit. I am glad that things are going so well for you. Keep us informed when you can. We anxiously await your humorous posts.
Be happy.

Posts: 1223 | Registered: Jun 2013 | From: Ontario, Canada
Karmita
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Default  Posted: 5:33 PM, May 7th (Wednesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Thanks ladies

I wear a size 7 bitch boots if you want to borrow them.

The red headed slut, I think wears a size ten. I pretty sure her IQ and her feet are the same size.


Posts: 74 | Registered: Aug 2013
scaredyKat
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Default  Posted: 5:36 PM, May 7th (Wednesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

You are a classy and witty woman. I suspect the symbolism of the drink went over the head of the RH S.

Be well.


Me-BS-60
HIM-SAFWH-63
Damn autocorrect is responsible for the silly errors, sorry!

Posts: 3578 | Registered: Sep 2009 | From: In my head
Catwoman
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Default  Posted: 5:43 PM, May 7th (Wednesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Karmita, I am dying to know who got custody of the butt-plug in the breakup. I mean, inquiring minds wish to know.

Cat


FBS: Married 20 years, 2 daughters 25 and 22. Divorced by the grace of GOD.
D-Days: 2/23/93; 10/11/97; 3/5/03
Ex & OW Broke up 12-10
"An erection does not count as personal growth."

Posts: 29626 | Registered: Apr 2003 | From: Massachusetts
Karmita
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Default  Posted: 6:29 PM, May 7th (Wednesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage


Well...I offered the butt plug to the OW, shit included. Even gift wrapped it for her.

Posts: 74 | Registered: Aug 2013
yearsofpain25
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Default  Posted: 7:33 AM, May 8th (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Wow Karmita. I just read through this entire thread and you have made my day. What a kick ass way of dealing with your xWH.

Glad to see that you are doing so well know.


25 years and counting of pain caused by mother's infidelity. Aftermath: 1 deceased sibling, 1 lost family, 3 lost souls.
"Each new day I am just glad to be alive and have survived all that I did." Ashland13

Posts: 2154 | Registered: Jan 2014 | From: Northeast US
Scorned Volcano
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Default  Posted: 8:07 AM, May 8th (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I sort of want to know what is in the 'red headed slut' drink.

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deena04
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Default  Posted: 8:14 AM, May 8th (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Now that is a new way of looking at the 180. Seriously though, I hope you are doing ok. I am proud of you and extremely envious that I never did that. Way to go!!


Me BS mid-late 30s
Him WS knocking on 40 (lovemywife4ever)
blended family with lots of kiddos
together 5 years, married 8/13
D day 12/1/13
WH ONS had been 4/12
Getting ME back and moving to HAPPY - whatever that means
I want out!

Posts: 1000 | Registered: Dec 2013
nekonamida
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Default  Posted: 8:20 AM, May 8th (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Just read your thread today. It was AMAZING! You're incredibly strong to end it that way and now you're reaping the benefits of your new life while your ex throws himself a pity party. Congrats and keep up the good work!

Posts: 95 | Registered: Mar 2014 | From: United States
dontknowwhyme
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Default  Posted: 10:50 AM, May 8th (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

You are amazing. Made my day. Good luck with cute guy. You sound like you would be a blast to hang with.


BS 38
FWW 37 (fireandice)
Married 13 Years - Together 20
D-Day1:Jan 08 (EA OM#1)
D-Day2:8-15-08 (EA/PA OM#2)
DS12, DS9
D-Day3:11-3-10
Divorced 1-27-11
Remember, you don't drown from being thrown in the water. You drown from staying in it.

Posts: 999 | Registered: Nov 2008 | From: Ohio
itainteasy
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Default  Posted: 10:59 AM, May 8th (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Stupid OW. Did she SAY anything to you when you sent her the drink?? God I hope she turned green, and slinked out.

Posts: 3396 | Registered: Feb 2011 | From: NWPA
Karmita
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Default  Posted: 11:24 AM, May 8th (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage


When I spotted the ex-ow ,( they broke up after I dumped his ass), at this restaurant I told my very nice waitress that my ex husband's trashy OW was sitting across the room and could she suggest a fitting drink I could send over to her.

Our waitress was fun and also despises cheaters and suggested the red headed slut cocktail. It's Jagermister, peach schnapps and cranberry juice.

I made sure that my name was mentioned as the red headed slut cocktail was delivered to her. Me and my cute boyfriend raised our glasses as she was presented the drink.

Poor thing....must of lost her appetite, she left shortly after.


It's a tasty drink...too bad it didn't include exlax.


Posts: 74 | Registered: Aug 2013
freeatlast72
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Default  Posted: 11:45 AM, May 8th (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

First time reading this post!! YOU GO GIRL!!! I wish I saw this post earlier-- it would have given me some ideas


BS:41 (me)
WH: 41
Kids: DD6
DDay: 12/31/2013
Married 15 years
Separated as of 01/16/2014,now divorcing...WH did not want to reconcile.

You can't rationalize irrational behavior.


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