Member # 19258
| Posted: 10:56 PM, September 9th (Monday), 2013|
TG has been a home for a couple days after being gone for a month. Today was his first day back in his office. We've had a great couple days together. We also had his kids this weekend
Tonight he just sort of fizzled out. He's quiet and just needing some alone time. No doubt due to the time change, quieter house after the kids went back to their mom's house ect.
I understand. I'm doing other things. He came in and gave me a hug and kiss. That's all I need to know that he's OK. He knows that's what I need.
Its so wonderful to be with someone who can do that. My X could never step outside himself to offer up the smallest gesture of love or reassurance if he was having a down day.
Damn healthy and functional is nice.
But that's just a lot of water
Underneath a bridge I burned
And there's no use in backtracking
Around corners I have turned
“Many of us crucify ourselves between two thieves - regret for the past and fear of the future.” -foulton oursler
Posts: 8434 | Registered: Apr 2008
Member # 11089
| Posted: 6:31 AM, September 10th (Tuesday), 2013|
Happy for you! Can't wait for that right person to enter my life:-)
3 beautiful boys (20,19 & 15)
Update: Moved in to my own apartment 8/7/2012
Divorce final 3/27/2013
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Member # 31528
| Posted: 7:20 AM, September 10th (Tuesday), 2013|
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Member # 29289
| Posted: 8:14 AM, September 10th (Tuesday), 2013|
Posts: 386 | Registered: Aug 2010 | From: Back Home ... And feeling Great!!
Member # 8923
| Posted: 12:15 PM, September 10th (Tuesday), 2013|
Two thumbs up for the emotionally mature guys.....TG (and my guy!)
In the depths of winter I finally learned there was in me an invincible summer..Albert Camus
**Beloved hubby died at home 1/28/2013, age 61..** God sent me two good men in a row......and saved the best for last. Remarried 2/14/14, grief and joy....
Posts: 2285 | Registered: Nov 2005 | From: USA
Member # 33882
| Posted: 2:17 PM, September 10th (Tuesday), 2013|
him (NPD Ex)
"Diamonds aren't a girl's best friend, freedom is."
Posts: 2580 | Registered: Nov 2011 | From: MA
Member # 35695
| Posted: 3:05 PM, September 10th (Tuesday), 2013|
Me:BW 46, Him:WH 50
two kids DD14 and DS17
Married 26 years
OW 28, crew member (he was the ships captain)
"People are formed by their actions, not their ideals" unknown
Posts: 469 | Registered: May 2012 | From: Australia
Member # 22870
| Posted: 7:45 PM, September 10th (Tuesday), 2013|
You can stuff your sorries in a sack, mister. -George Costanza
There is a special place in hell for women who don't help other women. - Madeleine Albright
Posts: 7504 | Registered: Feb 2009 | From: Western PA
Member # 33226
| Posted: 8:24 PM, September 10th (Tuesday), 2013|
You can call me NIK
"Sometimes it takes a good fall to know where you really stand."
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