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User Topic: functional...healthy....
hexed
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Default  Posted: 10:56 PM, September 9th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

TG has been a home for a couple days after being gone for a month. Today was his first day back in his office. We've had a great couple days together. We also had his kids this weekend

Tonight he just sort of fizzled out. He's quiet and just needing some alone time. No doubt due to the time change, quieter house after the kids went back to their mom's house ect.

I understand. I'm doing other things. He came in and gave me a hug and kiss. That's all I need to know that he's OK. He knows that's what I need.

Its so wonderful to be with someone who can do that. My X could never step outside himself to offer up the smallest gesture of love or reassurance if he was having a down day.

Damn healthy and functional is nice.


But that's just a lot of water
Underneath a bridge I burned
And there's no use in backtracking
Around corners I have turned

“Many of us crucify ourselves between two thieves - regret for the past and fear of the future.” -foulton oursler


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veelop5
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Default  Posted: 6:31 AM, September 10th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Happy for you! Can't wait for that right person to enter my life:-)


ME-38
XH-40
3 beautiful boys (20,19 & 15)
Update: Moved in to my own apartment 8/7/2012
Divorce final 3/27/2013

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jo2love
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Default  Posted: 7:20 AM, September 10th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage


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Ann124
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Default  Posted: 8:14 AM, September 10th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Very Nice!

Posts: 386 | Registered: Aug 2010 | From: Back Home ... And feeling Great!!
SoHappyNow
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Default  Posted: 12:15 PM, September 10th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Two thumbs up for the emotionally mature guys.....TG (and my guy!)


In the depths of winter I finally learned there was in me an invincible summer..Albert Camus

***Used to be hit-by-a-train***
Remarried 2/14/14


Posts: 2290 | Registered: Nov 2005 | From: USA
nutmegkitty
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Default  Posted: 2:17 PM, September 10th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage


me (BS)
him (NPD Ex)
2 dds
DDay 10/7/11
OW
OC

Divorced 1/17/2013

"Diamonds aren't a girl's best friend, freedom is."


Posts: 2589 | Registered: Nov 2011 | From: MA
MyVoice
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Default  Posted: 3:05 PM, September 10th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage


Me:BW 46, Him:WH 50
two kids DD14 and DS17
Married 26 years
OW 28, crew member (he was the ships captain)
"People are formed by their actions, not their ideals" unknown

Posts: 470 | Registered: May 2012 | From: Australia
Williesmom
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Default  Posted: 7:45 PM, September 10th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

So awesome.


You can stuff your sorries in a sack, mister. -George Costanza
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nowiknow23
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Default  Posted: 8:24 PM, September 10th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage


You can call me NIK

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-Hayley Williams


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