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niaveone
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Default  Posted: 9:36 PM, September 10th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

WS got called in to work. I'm sitting here, at night, playing on computer, with cell phone next to me; waiting for him to say he is done and coming home.

Do you know how many times this exact thing happened while he was out screwing that woman? Too many.

I think WS knows this. As every 30 minutes or so I'm getting a new, time stamped text of the computer work he is working on...so I know exactly where he is. I didn't even ask him for this.

Yup. Just sitting here crying, pissed that I'm in this position; and loving him for knowing it.

[This message edited by niaveone at 11:37 AM, September 11th (Wednesday)]


Me: BS
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Married: 17 years
2 children
2 DDays

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jo2love
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Red  Posted: 10:15 PM, September 10th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

niaveone -

Please remember to follow the forum guidelines.

There is to be no venting about or name calling the OP in this forum.

Thank you.


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Deeply Scared
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Default  Posted: 7:55 AM, September 11th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

niaveone...

I think it's a really positive step he took to send you those texts. It's all a process, so take things slow and steady


"Don't give up, the beginning is always the hardest." My Mom:)

My tolerance for stupid shit is getting less and less.


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niaveone
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Default  Posted: 11:37 AM, September 11th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Sorry. Edited.


Me: BS
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Married: 17 years
2 children
2 DDays

Posts: 219 | Registered: Aug 2013
Undone1
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Default  Posted: 3:19 PM, September 11th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Evenings are very hard for me as well, or my fWH traveling. I normally try to plan ahead for times when I am going to be waiting for him to come home. We also facetime alot when he travels.

It is a great step that he gets time stamps so you know he is working!

R is a long hard process...there is a lot of pain and anger that this happened to us! Be kind to yourself!


Undone1
Married 10+ years to my high school sweetheart
DDAY 10/27/12
Me 55
WH 55
Blended Family: 25, 21, and 20
Married 10 years
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