Looks like his REAL problem is bad coping skills in relation to depression at least. And that colored everything else about you or the M.
Yes I do understand why my FWH had multiple OW and EAs and PAs. It has nothing to do with me and everything to do with his inability to see beyond himself, lack of transparency to me, and, you guessed it, bad coping skills.Love is a choice.
True love is harder to come by than soul mates. True love requires work.
Ignorance can be cured with knowledge. There is no cure for being an idiot.