I hear you. I am in the same boat. It is discusting and shocking.
I like to say it out loud because I can still barely believe it, it is so crazy. I like to say it to him in DIvorce Therapy, but it doesn't seem to sink in.
"MY HUSBAND OF 15 YEARS, WHO I LOVED AND WAS MY BEST FRIEND AND FATHER OF TWO BEAUTIFUL KIDS, LEFT ME FOR A WOMAN HE MET IN A SEX CHAT ROOM AND THEN FEEL IN LOVE WITH AND HE JUST COULDN'T LIVE A LIE ANYMORE"
Now, I am not usually so Jerry Springer worthy. We had it all really. Really nice life, great kids, great home, in good financial shape, great neighborhood, friends, family. Everyone thought we were a great couple and a happy couple.
And now I have to send my two beautiful, happy kids off to his little apartment to sleep in their "other bedroom" and he says he won't introduce her to the OW, but I trust nothing this douche says....
And the law sucks here too. I can not control what he does with the kids, where he goes, who they meet, what they do, NOTHING. and I have been trying to protect them from all of this, because they don't deserve this.
And it is all because he is a selfish coward that couldn't communicate he was unhappy, too lazy to put effort into the marriage and then is so weak that he is willing to blow up this beautiful life for some skank that strokes his tiny EGO and tiny other parts???? Seriously? WHO. F**KING DOES THAT????