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User Topic: Oh-em-gee, so close I can almost taste it!
Nature_Girl
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Evil  Posted: 8:40 PM, September 11th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

So close. It's so close. Final judgment, third draft, this may be the one. I dunno. Lawyer & I are looking it over.

The end is in sight.

Of course then I'll probably have to scramble and work on an appeal if he appeals (which we think he will). Still. I'm just savoring this moment. Close, no cigar yet, but close.


Me = BS (Stay-at-home-mom)
Him = EX-d out (abusive troglodyte NPD SA)
3 tween-aged kids
Together 20 years
D-Day: Memorial Weekend 2011
2013 - I DIVORCED HIM, I'M FREE!
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=RBOJpIwF47Y

Posts: 9535 | Registered: Jun 2011 | From: USA
Phoenix1
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Default  Posted: 8:44 PM, September 11th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Yay!!


BS - Me
XPOS - too many OW/OCs over 20+yrs
Kids - DDs 22,17 -DS20 Deceased
M Dissolved 2013

This above all: to thine own self be true, and it must follow, as the night the day, thou canst not then be false to any man ~ Shakespeare, Hamlet


Posts: 1033 | Registered: Apr 2013 | From: Rising out of Hell's ashes!
tesla
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Default  Posted: 9:48 PM, September 11th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I'm going to get my NG celebration beer chilling in the fridge! Just say the word when I can pop a few of those open and toast to you!!!


"Thou art the son and heir of a mongrel bitch." --King Lear

Posts: 4610 | Registered: Jan 2012 | From: Indiana
Nature_Girl
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Default  Posted: 9:51 PM, September 11th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

This sucker is 92 pages long (including all the worksheets for ss/cs calculations). Seriously?


Me = BS (Stay-at-home-mom)
Him = EX-d out (abusive troglodyte NPD SA)
3 tween-aged kids
Together 20 years
D-Day: Memorial Weekend 2011
2013 - I DIVORCED HIM, I'M FREE!
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=RBOJpIwF47Y

Posts: 9535 | Registered: Jun 2011 | From: USA
Nature_Girl
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Default  Posted: 9:52 PM, September 11th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I know it's too soon, but this picture is so cute!


Me = BS (Stay-at-home-mom)
Him = EX-d out (abusive troglodyte NPD SA)
3 tween-aged kids
Together 20 years
D-Day: Memorial Weekend 2011
2013 - I DIVORCED HIM, I'M FREE!
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=RBOJpIwF47Y

Posts: 9535 | Registered: Jun 2011 | From: USA
tesla
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Default  Posted: 10:00 PM, September 11th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

92 fucking pages? Maybe I'll get one of those beers out now.


"Thou art the son and heir of a mongrel bitch." --King Lear

Posts: 4610 | Registered: Jan 2012 | From: Indiana
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Default  Posted: 10:04 PM, September 11th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Nature_Girl, I am so hopeful that you can get some peace in your life soon!! An appeal sounds awful, but maybe you'll be in a better place while that goes on? As in you'll have a bit more financial support?

It's quite an ordeal you've gone through!!!


Posts: 1243 | Registered: Aug 2010
Nature_Girl
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Default  Posted: 10:20 PM, September 11th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

92 fucking pages? Maybe I'll get one of those beers out now

I know, right??? Maybe this should be part of a game show, or a riff by Jeff Foxworthy. "You know you're divorcing a NPD if your divorce decree is 92-fucking pages long!" <cue audience laughter>


Me = BS (Stay-at-home-mom)
Him = EX-d out (abusive troglodyte NPD SA)
3 tween-aged kids
Together 20 years
D-Day: Memorial Weekend 2011
2013 - I DIVORCED HIM, I'M FREE!
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=RBOJpIwF47Y

Posts: 9535 | Registered: Jun 2011 | From: USA
nowiknow23
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Default  Posted: 10:44 PM, September 11th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Fingers crossed, NG.


You can call me NIK

"Sometimes it takes a good fall to know where you really stand."
-Hayley Williams


Posts: 25059 | Registered: Aug 2011
Kajem
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Default  Posted: 10:44 PM, September 11th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

My decree is 8 pages.

The CS modification paperwork a year later= a complete file drawer.

I hope this is the end for you, and you can finally get this behind you and relax a bit. If he runs true to NPD handbook-it won't be over. But at least you will have something enforceable.

Hugs,
K


I trust you is a better compliment than I love you, because you may not trust the person you love, but you can always love the person you trust. - Unknown
Relationships are like sharing a book, it doesn't work if you're not on the same page.

Posts: 5017 | Registered: Jul 2012 | From: Florida
Pass
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Default  Posted: 10:54 PM, September 11th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

You deserve some relief, NG. I hope this is the one.


Loyal spouse: Me; Disloyal spouse: The Princess
Two sons: Now 11 and 14
DDay: Nov 15, 2012
Separated: Mar 2, 2013 after 17 year marriage, now divorcing!

The best thing about hitting rock bottom is that everything after that looks fucking fabulous


Posts: 1834 | Registered: Jan 2013 | From: Ottawa, Ontario, Canada
homewrecked2011
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Default  Posted: 6:05 AM, September 12th (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Here's some hope for you:

Once the D was final, I had about 6 months of crap from him,bad mouthing me, etc then, I guess he moved on and we rarely have any run ins with him. He doesn't get the kids as often as he should, doesn't go to their events, doesn't feed them, and yesterday the OW wrote out the child support check. He gets crickets from me-I know they want at least a comment so I don't give it to them- and I act really happy when I run into him/OW.

Hope yours goes this way, too. I never thought he would blow off the kids because he was so into them at the beginning, acting like the best Dad to kids AND bad mouthing me at the same time. but everyone told me it would happen like this....

[This message edited by homewrecked2011 at 6:06 AM, September 12th (Thursday)]


me BS 52
him - 46
married 15 years DIVORCED 10 31 12
children - ds15 ds12
d-day 12-19-11
I gave a 24hour ultimatum then went to attorney next day
Divorce filed

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