We were on a short family vacation this weekend and after swimming we took a shower when I noticed that he had been trimmed down there!
This man who supposedly isn't doing anything with anyone besides me. So, I said, "did u trim your hair?" He said yes. I asked when he did that. Oh last week sometime and hey, we should get out of the shower now or we might be late!
It just burns me! He has never done that our entire 16-year marriage even though I have asked him to. He didn't even say he did it for me or asked me if I liked it. He just couldn't get out of the shower fast enough !
He is really careful about his cheating activities and very tech savvy. I haven't been able to prove anything concrete but I've come close . That's for another post. But this hair trim and acting all guilty. I haven't even brought it up since because I will either be gaslighted or smooth talked. Like the time I could smell a certain scent on his breath and broached the topic and he flat out said I was crazy which sent me on a downward spiral that took a long time to get out of.
There is a special place somewhere for people who treat their loved ones like this