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User Topic: Best Heartbreak/Infidelity songs!
Ostrich80
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Default  Posted: 11:44 PM, September 13th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

@vulc...Tammy and George wrote the book on cheating songs..love George but would hate to be married to.him


BS..me
WS..him
Been with him over half my life
4kid
DD1 10-01-09 DD2 02-12-12 discovered it never ended
OW..nothing special. Just your average skank
Status..#$%@????

Posts: 4741 | Registered: Feb 2012 | From: midwest
eyeloveu
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Default  Posted: 11:50 PM, September 13th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Detective, No Doubt.

Posts: 10 | Registered: Aug 2012
defyinggravity
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Default  Posted: 1:42 AM, September 14th (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

"Someone Else's Story"-Chess

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=qZLDdEJulCk

Long ago in someone else's lifetime someone with my name
who looked a lot like me.
Came to know a man and made a promise he only had to say
and that's where she would be.
Lately, although the feelings run just as deep,
the promise she made has grown impossible to keep
and yet I wish it wasn't so.
Will he miss me if I go?

In a way it's someone else's story. I don't see myself as taking part at all. Yesterday
a girl that I was fond of
finally could see the writing on the wall.
Sadly she realized she'd left him behind and sadder than that she knew he wouldn't even mind and though, there's nothing left to say, would he listen if I stay?

It's all very well to say "you fool it's now or never."
I could be choosing no choices whatsoever.

I could be in someone else's story. In someone else's life
and he could be in mine. I don't see a reason to be lonely. I could take my chances further down the line. And if that girl I knew should ask my advice
oh I wouldn't hesitate she needn't ask me twice. "Go now!"
I'd tell her that for free.
Trouble is, the girl is me.
The story is, the girl is me.


Me-BS Him-WS
Married-35 years
3 adult children
DD1-1/08. EA. In (fake) MC. "Just friends."
DD2-1/09. PA. Same OW,13 years younger. His married coworker.
Divorced-1/25/11 They married 2/12.


Posts: 85 | Registered: Sep 2009
ItsaClimb
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Default  Posted: 5:33 AM, September 14th (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

For those reconciling: Blackbyrd ft Craig Hinds "From the Bottom of my Heart" http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=vpqg4bkviU8

Separating: Blackbyrd "All for me"
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=P4p04N0Sk7s


BS 46
Together 29 yrs, M 25 years
2 daughters 24yo(married with a brand new little daughter) & 19yo
D-Day 18 Aug 2012
6mth EA lead to 4mth PA with CO-W. I found out 8 1/2 yrs later

Posts: 912 | Registered: Oct 2012
921Lisa
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Default  Posted: 4:30 PM, September 14th (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Mine -
Faith Hill "Like We Never Loved at All"

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=s7Qob5zr2Bk

[This message edited by 921Lisa at 4:31 PM, September 14th (Saturday)]


Behind every successful man is his woman.
Behind the fall of a successful man is usually another woman. (Mr Sim York Soo)

Reconciled


Posts: 881 | Registered: Aug 2005 | From: Texas
mom of 2
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Default  Posted: 8:31 PM, September 14th (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

If I Were A Boy - Beyonce

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=AWpsOqh8q0M


Me: BW
Divorced after 23 years of M thanks to XH's truth trickle.
Status: Recovering and healing. It's going to be a long hard road.

Update November 2013: It only took seven years but I finally turned a corner. :)


Posts: 13289 | Registered: Jul 2006 | From: The suburbs of hell
gonnabe2016
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Default  Posted: 9:04 PM, September 14th (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Not mentioned yet (and I only say that because Jar of Hearts is at the TOP of my list but someone beat me to it....)

Womanizer -- Britney

King of Anything -- Sara Bareilles

Love Song -- Sara Bareilles

(sorry but I'm feeling too lazy to go snatch the youtube links....)

[This message edited by gonnabe2016 at 9:05 PM, September 14th (Saturday)]


"Oh, what a tangled web we weave when first we practice to deceive." - Sir Walter Scott

In my effort to be *concise*, I often come off as blunt and harsh. Sorry, don't mean to be offensive.


Posts: 7706 | Registered: Feb 2012 | From: Midwest
traildad
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Default  Posted: 9:08 PM, September 14th (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

For the betrayed husbands -

"Grown Woman" - by Jason Aldean

I still play it when I get a trigger about the A.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=S4HQGRAbKQk


Me BH - 33
3 beautiful young children
DDay 12/13/11
Divorced.

Posts: 650 | Registered: Apr 2012 | From: Michigan
sadone29
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Default  Posted: 9:11 PM, September 14th (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I was going to post about this song I'm going to gush about. It's about betrayal in general, but the feeling behind it is true to the pain felt by infidelity. I love this song so so much. Even the way the video is shot...the singer's real vulnerability makes it even more amazing. How much bravery he must have to film this in public, alone.

The song is called Iscariot, by Walk the Moon.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=fPQeMqiKqKs

Iscariot

Until now, I knew this of myself
That if you had thrown yourself down
Into the lion's den
My brother, I'd follow you in
Perhaps I lack some foresight (Should have known)
Brother, you were so right
Sure as the setting sun
You can't trust just anyone

That's what you want, but it's not what you're asking for
I said that's what you're asking, but you're gonna get more than you bargained for
I said that's what you had, but you don't have it any more
You had it coming

I never imagined you dead (I never)
But tell me, are you even aware
That all that we did, you undo
Iscariot, you fool

That's what you want, but it's not what you're asking for
I said that's what you're asking, but you're gonna get more than you bargained for
I said that's what you had, but you don't have it any more
You had it coming

Oh you know you had it coming my friend, my friend
You know you had it coming my brother, oh my brother
Had it coming my friend, my friend
You know you had it coming my brother, oh my brother
Had it coming my friend, my friend
You know you had it coming my brother, oh my brother
Had it coming my friend, my friend
You had it coming.


"I move slow and steady, but I feel like a waterfall."

Posts: 621 | Registered: Mar 2013
broken0912
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Default  Posted: 9:30 PM, September 14th (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

How it went for him:
Slow Fade by Casting Crowns

Him if we don't make it:
Bruno Mars - When I was your man
Randy Houser - Anything Goes

When I'm trying to find hope:
Kutless - What Faith can Do
Josh Wilson - Before the Morning

When I'm hurting & desperate
Matthew West - Strong Enough
Plumb - I Need you Now
Laura Story - Blessings
Third Day - I need a Miracle

Just Want to cry:
Adele - Rolling in the Deep
Alan Jackson - Remember When
Tina Turner - Whats Love got to Do with It

To be Empowered:
Sara Evans - A little bit Stronger
Kelly Clarkson - Stronger
Alicia Keys - Brand New ME

The one that has carried me through the last year:
India Arie - This Too Shall Pass


BS 49
WS 61
OW 31 now - 23-24 when it began
dday-9/4/12
M 13+ together 16
HIS DC: D-33,S-25,S-22
MINE: 0 -he was too old to have C at 44, but had OC at 57
LTA: EA 1-2yr then 1.5 after pa end
LTA: PA 3.5-4 yrs

Posts: 97 | Registered: Jul 2013
traildad
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Default  Posted: 9:33 PM, September 14th (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I just downloaded and listened to "I'm Sorry" by Blake Shelton based on the recommendation above - fantastic.


Me BH - 33
3 beautiful young children
DDay 12/13/11
Divorced.

Posts: 650 | Registered: Apr 2012 | From: Michigan
Coma
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Default  Posted: 9:55 PM, September 14th (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Drops of Jupiter-Train

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=7Xf-Lesrkuc

For Just A Moment- David Foster

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=5B2uT4km3XI

If You Could Read My Mind Love- Gordon Lightfoot

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ngo2B5tibLQ


BS-Me
WW-Her
"Love, look what you've done to me"

Posts: 436 | Registered: Aug 2010
spinning73
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Default  Posted: 9:55 PM, September 14th (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Sad, Maroon Five


me-BS 40
WH-40
Together 23 years, married 17 years
DDs-11 and 8, DS 7
4 month EA/PA ended by WH 2 months before
DD-4/14/13
Hoping this recovery is real...

Posts: 42 | Registered: Jun 2013
kernel
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Default  Posted: 9:57 PM, September 14th (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Pink - Just give me a reason. Haunting.

I just checked out I'm Sorry - Blake Shelton. Spot on.

Done - the Band Perry. Took forever to get here, but I did it.

Linda Ronstadt - You're no good

[This message edited by kernel at 10:39 PM, September 14th (Saturday)]


"On particularly rough days when I'm sure I can't possibly endure, I like to remind myself that my track record for getting through bad days so far is 100% - and that's pretty good."

Posts: 4925 | Registered: Jan 2010 | From: Midwest
mom of 2
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Default  Posted: 10:07 PM, September 14th (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Drops of Jupiter-Train

How did I miss this one? Great song for any BS but especially for BHs (and I'm a BW). Love this song!


Me: BW
Divorced after 23 years of M thanks to XH's truth trickle.
Status: Recovering and healing. It's going to be a long hard road.

Update November 2013: It only took seven years but I finally turned a corner. :)


Posts: 13289 | Registered: Jul 2006 | From: The suburbs of hell
AlwaysBeenStrong
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Default  Posted: 10:13 PM, September 14th (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Reba McEntire - Consider me gone
https://www.youtube.com/watch?feature=player_embedded&v=cw_L8HdoYgo#t=56

Sara Evans - A Little Stronger
https://www.youtube.com/watch?feature=player_embedded&v=cw_L8HdoYgo#t=56

These have helped with my separation after his lies.


BW: 41 (me)
Divorced soon.
Moving forward.
Pre Nursing Student
Getting a Do over at 42

Posts: 119 | Registered: Jul 2013 | From: Lonelyville
Runninggirl
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Default  Posted: 10:20 PM, September 14th (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Abba
Winner Takes it All


Shock has worn off. Now the 'fun' begins.
After several years of solid R, (F)MOW
CHECKS IN in to say Hi~ H CHECKS OUT briefly and "forgets to tell me" because IT HADN'T gotten
physical this time. 4 months out again same MOW

Posts: 2852 | Registered: Mar 2006 | From: The Valley
EZ24get
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Default  Posted: 3:22 AM, September 15th (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

'Unforgivable' ~Armin van Buuren feat. Jaren...

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=eyUfJVqMtO0

'U-Turn' ~Samantha...

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=mSC7BY0zY8Q

...and, of course, Cee Lo Green...
**not the 'Official' video, but worth the watch**

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=sv3tadz5Q3o


TOOL ~Bottom...

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=eHPfRL3rCj8

...and from WH ...

Sarah McLachlan ~Fallen

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Jqps9ZdMxs0



Told my request was one so unlike being you. Then, was punished for asking, by watching you become all that I needed, for someone new.
...so,..he traded my heart,for a hard-on.

BW~ me 38
CH~ he 38
20 years on 12/12/12, 2 kiddos 14&17
D-day 1


Posts: 67 | Registered: Oct 2010 | From: here
EZ24get
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Default  Posted: 6:04 AM, September 15th (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

...

'Try' ~Pink...

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=HckionnitiU


Told my request was one so unlike being you. Then, was punished for asking, by watching you become all that I needed, for someone new.
...so,..he traded my heart,for a hard-on.

BW~ me 38
CH~ he 38
20 years on 12/12/12, 2 kiddos 14&17
D-day 1


Posts: 67 | Registered: Oct 2010 | From: here
Silentthoughts
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Default  Posted: 12:24 PM, September 15th (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Best heartbreak song: Craig Morgan love remembers. My bh an I cried every time we heard it for about a year. Now we listen and can just appreciate the song.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=oNvA_7QEmZI&sns=em

Best song for bh if we had split (we didn't): Tyler Farr redneck crazy
http://m.youtube.com/watch?v=QmAQprmjymI

[This message edited by Silentthoughts at 12:26 PM, September 15th (Sunday)]


WW - early 50s (me)
BH - late 40s
3 grown children
Married 25 years
Online cyber sex dec 2010. I got caught late dec 2010. Lying and TT until full disclosure jan 2011.
In R we both are committed to staying in this M.

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