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User Topic: Best Heartbreak/Infidelity songs!
solus sto
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Default  Posted: 1:32 AM, September 20th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Kandi...One EsKimo
Late for the Sky...Jackson Browne
Somebody I Used to Know...Gotye
Love Interruption...Jack White
Not Afraid.. Eminem (for post dday/separation empowerment in a rather profame delivery...which worked with my anger well)


BS-me, 52
WH(Mr. Trac-fone), 52, PD
2 kids-DD25, DS17
multiple d-days
DIVORCING
Alone, most strangely, I live on~Rupert Brooke

Posts: 7968 | Registered: Jan 2011 | From: midwest
Kierst13
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Default  Posted: 9:41 AM, September 20th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

This sums up how I feel most days and how cold my WS acted about the gift of R I gave him. I gives me chills each time I listen to it.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=vsge4xsPwVE

"The Path Of Thorns" Sarah McLachlan

I knew you wanted to tell me
In your voice there was something wrong
But if you would turn your face away from me
You cannot tell me you're so strong
Just let me ask of you one small thing
As we have shared so many tears
With fervor our dreams we planned a whole life long
Now are scattered on the wind...

In the terms of endearment
In the terms of the life that you love
In the terms of the years that pass you by
In the terms of the reasons why

Through the years I've grown to love you
Though your commitment to most would offend
But I stuck by you holding on with my foolish pride
Waiting for you to give in...
You never really tried or so it seems
I've had more than myself to blame
I've had enough of trying everything
And this time it is the end...

There's no more coming back this way
The path is overgrown and strewn with thorns
They've torn the life-blood from your naked eyes
Cast aside to be forlorn...

Funny, how it seems that all I've tried to do
Seemed to make no difference to you at all...

[This message edited by Kierst13 at 9:42 AM, September 20th (Friday)]


Story in my profile
He lied, I gave the gift of R
He became the model remorseful WS...all while lying and seeing her
Am I done? Yes I am!

Posts: 346 | Registered: May 2013
LadyLove
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Default  Posted: 9:15 PM, September 20th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Brooks & Dunn - She's Not The Cheating Kind


BW - 46 (me)
WH - 48 Ladyslove
Don't know if I can live with it.

Posts: 61 | Registered: Sep 2013
TS68
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Default  Posted: 9:40 PM, September 20th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Honesty by Billy Joel


Me: 45
Him: 47
3 kids 16, 14, 7
Married 20 years

Posts: 105 | Registered: Aug 2013 | From: Michigan
Gajit
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Default  Posted: 11:11 AM, September 24th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I'm Letting Go
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=bkpRIx7jMp4


Lord, with Your help I will focus on each small step of the climb, instead of the mountain that stands before me.

Posts: 222 | Registered: Sep 2013 | From: USA
Twitchy
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Default  Posted: 12:43 PM, September 24th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

You Were Mine
Dixie Chicks

I can give you two good reasons
To show you loves not blind
He's two and she's four and, you know
They adore you
So how can I tell them you've changed your mind?

Sometimes I wake up crying at night
And sometimes I scream out your name
What right does she have to steal your heart away
When for so long you were mine
I remember when you were mine

Tears me up every time.

[This message edited by Twitchy at 1:30 PM, September 24th (Tuesday)]


BH(me)-47, FWW-41,
D-Day #1 - Oct 2007 - On-Line EA leading to a failed rendez-vous
D-Day #2 - Nov 2008 - In person EA caught early.

Dies irae. Dies illa solvet saeclum in favilla.


Posts: 577 | Registered: Sep 2009 | From: Ontario - Canada
cl131716
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Default  Posted: 3:40 PM, September 24th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

One Time by Safetysuit. Describes how I feel to a T.


Me BS 31
Him WS 34 Trying4change
Together 3 years, married for one
D-day: 07/23/13 cybersex with COW
D-day: 12/27/13 found out he met and kissed a "friend" in 2011
"A clear and innocent conscience fears nothing."

Posts: 935 | Registered: Sep 2013 | From: Oklahoma
RavenLocks
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Default  Posted: 4:00 PM, September 24th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Beyonce.... "Resentment"


You have to hear this one...it sums it all up. I cried my eyes out when I heard it. I can't attach the link since I'm at work..(shh)


BS:34
H:34
MARRIED:7 YEARS
SON: 11 MONTHS
DDAY1: 03/2006
DDAY2: 05/2013

Posts: 15 | Registered: Aug 2013
Secrets Kept
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Default  Posted: 12:38 PM, September 25th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Depending on mood......

Sometimes love just ain't enough - Patty Smythe

Yesterday - Foreigner

Try - Pink

Already gone - Kelly Clarkson

Someone Else - Queensryche

To name just a few!!!


Marriage #1=BW-46 (now)
XWH-Deceased on his 36 bday
2 sons together-28 & 23
Divorced in 1996
Marriage #2= Married in 2003
WW with H#2 =BH-44
2 kids together-DS14 & DD12
"All this time I was finding myself & I didn't know I was lost"

Posts: 157 | Registered: Sep 2013 | From: Midwest USA
movingbackwards
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Default  Posted: 12:46 PM, December 13th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I know this is an old thread but I have had it bookmarked and come back to it numerous times, and wanted to add a few songs I've found recently.

Catch My Breath - Kelly Clarkson
(really helpful when I'm feeling guilty over wanting to D)
Starts With Goodbye - Carrie Underwood
Let Him Fly - Patty Griffin
Say Something - A Great Big World


You can crawl back home, say you were wrong
Stand out in the yard and cry all night long
Go ahead and water the lawn
My give a damn's busted!

Posts: 85 | Registered: Sep 2013
Secrets Kept
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Default  Posted: 1:12 PM, December 13th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I also thought of............

Wake Up Call - Maroon 5

"Wake up call, caught you in the morning with another one in my bed....you don't care about me anymore", etc, etc., etc.


Marriage #1=BW-46 (now)
XWH-Deceased on his 36 bday
2 sons together-28 & 23
Divorced in 1996
Marriage #2= Married in 2003
WW with H#2 =BH-44
2 kids together-DS14 & DD12
"All this time I was finding myself & I didn't know I was lost"

Posts: 157 | Registered: Sep 2013 | From: Midwest USA
movingbackwards
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Default  Posted: 1:17 PM, December 13th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Also "Makes Me Wonder" - Maroon 5


You can crawl back home, say you were wrong
Stand out in the yard and cry all night long
Go ahead and water the lawn
My give a damn's busted!

Posts: 85 | Registered: Sep 2013
ascian
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Default  Posted: 1:54 PM, December 13th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

For a while, post D-Day, I wasn't able to listen to one of my favorite bands from the last couple years, Mumford and Sons, since so many of their songs hit too close to the mark.

As a BS:
I Gave You All (http://youtu.be/00dcKqc5H-A)
The Cave (http://youtu.be/3KkUeRPjc-Y)

As a WS:
Roll Away Your Stone (http://youtu.be/2O-BwV0DDUY)
Little Lion Man (NSFW lyrics) (http://youtu.be/lLJf9qJHR3E)
Sigh No More (http://youtu.be/ujv3c0TqLRk)

Really I'm convinced the whole album is written to various relationships that went wrong.


Me - BH 39
Her - FWW 36
D-Day: 8/13
Working on R

Posts: 262 | Registered: Aug 2013 | From: Midwest
Take2
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Default  Posted: 2:00 PM, December 13th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

A few I'm not seeing here:

Over you by Daughtry http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=HTbJ5DIMDHc

I'm Outta Love Anastacia
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=TnOy6HEf7HU

Take a Bow Rhianna http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=J3UjJ4wKLkg

In the End Linkin Park http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=1yw1Tgj9-VU


"We must be willing to get rid of the life we've planned, so as to have the life that is waiting for us." Joseph Campbell...So, If fear was not a factor - what would you do?

Posts: 4099 | Registered: May 2009 | From: New England
Rainbows
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Default  Posted: 2:07 PM, December 13th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

My two tops are from the same artist, Justin Timberlake.


"Cry Me A River"

"What Goes Around/Comes Around"


There is always a rainbow after every storm.

Posts: 362 | Registered: May 2013 | From: California
StillStanding1
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Default  Posted: 2:14 PM, December 13th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Mine change as I ride the rollercoaster, but I didn't see these here. They haunt me.

The Giving Tree by Plain White T's (infidelity and co-dependency theme song)www.youtube.com/watch?v=8wGhqtWR4uo

Say Something by Great Big World. I like the new version with Christina Aguilera too. (waiting for him to start opening up to me)
www.youtube.com/watch?v=-2U0Ivkn2Ds

ETA: oops. movingbackwards had this one ^^^ already!

[This message edited by StillStanding1 at 2:16 PM, December 13th (Friday)]


Me: 40s BS, Him: 40s WH
M 20 yrs - 3 teens
LTA = 2+ yrs, Dday = 2/10/13, he moved out, MC/IC/FC,
He officially moved back in 1/25/14 and our work continues...

Posts: 527 | Registered: Aug 2013 | From: MidWest
SilverRose13
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Default  Posted: 2:24 PM, December 13th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I'm compiling a list of all these songs, but here are some no one has mentioned yet


Miranda Lambert Kerosene

Miranda Lambert White Liar

Miranda Lambert Baggage Claim

Miranda Lambert Mama's Broken Heart

Carrie Underwood Before He Cheats

Carrie Undderwood Undo It

Joey + Rory God Help My Man

Ashton Shepard Look It Up

Reba Turn On The Rdaio

Little Big Town Tornado

i'll add more when i think of them!


Together 16 years, Married 13
BS (me; 32)
fWS (wtsmm; 32) 2 1/2 yr LTA
2 children, 11 and 5
DD #1 9/27/2011 (EA/Sexting)
DD #2 10/3/2011 (Some PA)
DD #3 11/28/2011 (Full Disclosure)

Posts: 223 | Registered: Nov 2011 | From: Northern Illinois
steadfast1973
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Default  Posted: 2:29 PM, December 13th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

You Give Love a bad name is by Bon Jovi.


Me- 40- BS Him- 36- WH D-day#1 5/25/09 3 mo. EA (tt, uncovering much more) d-day#2 11/06/13 Prostitute 11/5/13 (full confession)"I've seen your flag on the marble arch, our love is not a victory march, it's a cold and broken hallelujah

Posts: 2011 | Registered: Jul 2009 | From: Midwest
SilverRose13
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Default  Posted: 2:43 PM, December 13th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

more:

Tracy Byrd Don't Take Her She's All That I've Got

Tracy Lawrence Alibies

Clay Walker Then What

Aaron Tippin Kiss This

The Band Perry You Lie

Gary Allan Her Man

Too Little Too Late JoJo

Leave (Get Out) JoJo

Joss Stone Karma

Beyonce Irreplaceable


Together 16 years, Married 13
BS (me; 32)
fWS (wtsmm; 32) 2 1/2 yr LTA
2 children, 11 and 5
DD #1 9/27/2011 (EA/Sexting)
DD #2 10/3/2011 (Some PA)
DD #3 11/28/2011 (Full Disclosure)

Posts: 223 | Registered: Nov 2011 | From: Northern Illinois
philly172
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Default  Posted: 2:47 PM, December 13th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Oh my! my DD, BFF & I loved break up songs during the A... There were some that seemed to empower me, & others that made me fall to my knees crying..

My fall to the knees crying songs ( so sorry if they've been posted in this thread, I think I read most of what was posted)

Break Even- The Script which seems to be a popular one here on SI

Jennifer Nettles- Stay.. Yes, I know it was written as an OW perspective but it can be for a BS as well


My DD's break up song that she can NOT listen to without crying ( Surprisingly it's MY favorite artist)

This Time- Donny Osmond- http://youtu.be/Ktu1LSvJ8v0

My BFF sent me 2 songs & both tore me apart..

I can feel the hurt in this song ( but it's Elvis, c'mon he's the best!)

My Boy- http://youtu.be/HOLH63c7SG0

and MY all time favorite A song-

Clay walker- Then What -http://youtu.be/RriwQbiLJNA

My feel good songs are pretty off the wall..

During my EX'H's A one song made me feel strong-

New kids on the block- Baby, I believe in you.. I know strange but it just made me believe in ME!

and during WH A..Apple bottom jeans..(don't judge ) WH was so sure I was out clubbing & partying that after we R'ed if this song came on the radio in the car , he would change stations.. Even today he can't listen to this song


"Sorry" works when a mistake is made, but not when trust is broken. So in life, make mistakes, but never break trust. Because forgiving is easy, but forgetting & trusting again is sometimes impossible

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