Topic: A year ago today...
Member # 38230
| Posted: 7:00 AM, September 13th (Friday), 2013|
A year ago today I was happy. A year ago today I was content. A year ago today I was in a 19 year happy marriage.
A year ago tonight....not so much.
I truly try to stay in the present. But today....its gonna be tough.
Variouse clues to EA. WW promised it would stop.
D-Day of EA 9/13/2012 2:01PM found 2 yrs of text messages, confessed to EA
D-Day of PA: confessed on 9/22/12 11:53 PM. Worst moment of my life
Posts: 155 | Registered: Jan 2013 | From: Massachusetts
Member # 36622
| Posted: 7:23 AM, September 13th (Friday), 2013|
fWS 35 (broevil)
A whole bunch of shit that got a lot worse before it got better
"Knowing is half the battle"
Expecting progress not perfection
Posts: 2024 | Registered: Aug 2012
Member # 31528
| Posted: 7:38 AM, September 13th (Friday), 2013|
There are still good times to be had.
Were together 7+yrs, Ended R.
Posts: 26609 | Registered: Mar 2011
Member # 36519
| Posted: 8:55 AM, September 13th (Friday), 2013|
Oh, I know. Your whole world changes. It casts a shadow on everything and makes you question everything you thought you knew about yourself and about the person you thought you were closest to.
((( Yakamishi )))
BS (me): 49
Married: 24 yrs
OW: Co-worker, 7 yr LTA
DD 8/1/2012, Working on R
Posts: 887 | Registered: Aug 2012
Member # 30817
| Posted: 11:39 AM, September 13th (Friday), 2013|
Hang in there today.
2 ddays in '07
"The cure for the pain, is the pain." -Rumi
Posts: 5245 | Registered: Jan 2011
Member # 40050
| Posted: 11:44 AM, September 13th (Friday), 2013|
So sorry for you. There's nothing that compares to the horror of the discovery, except maybe the lies that follow.
Me BW, Him WH
DD #1, caught 4/12/13
DD #2, tells me the whole truth, 5/21/13
DD #3, TT until 8/9/13 then full disclosure w/timeline
DD #4, 8/26/13, OW texts me more info, he tells me the whole truth
DD # 5, 9/11/13, he tells me the whole truth??
Posts: 116 | Registered: Jul 2013
Member # 30369
| Posted: 2:16 PM, September 13th (Friday), 2013|
We're here for you to lean on. Sending you strength.
BH/WBF - 40
FWW/BGF (Amerasia) - 43
DS - 9
Posts: 3078 | Registered: Dec 2010
Member # 40505
| Posted: 3:07 PM, September 15th (Sunday), 2013|
Hope you got through it okay. Onwards and upwards...
Posts: 52 | Registered: Aug 2013
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