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User Topic: A year ago today...
Yakamishi
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Member # 38230
Default  Posted: 7:00 AM, September 13th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

A year ago today I was happy. A year ago today I was content. A year ago today I was in a 19 year happy marriage.

A year ago tonight....not so much.

I truly try to stay in the present. But today....its gonna be tough.


Me: BH
Her: WW Mrs.yaka
Kids:4
Variouse clues to EA. WW promised it would stop.
D-Day of EA 9/13/2012 2:01PM found 2 yrs of text messages, confessed to EA
D-Day of PA: confessed on 9/22/12 11:53 PM. Worst moment of my life

Posts: 216 | Registered: Jan 2013 | From: Massachusetts
AFrayedKnot
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Member # 36622
Default  Posted: 7:23 AM, September 13th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

(((Yakamishi)))


BS 39
fWS 36 (SurprisinglyOkay)
DD DS
A whole bunch of shit that got a lot worse before it got better.
"Knowing is half the battle"

Posts: 2560 | Registered: Aug 2012
jo2love
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Member # 31528
Default  Posted: 7:38 AM, September 13th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

(((Yakamishi)))

Sending strength.


Posts: 34777 | Registered: Mar 2011
Blobette
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Member # 36519
Default  Posted: 8:55 AM, September 13th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Oh, I know. Your whole world changes. It casts a shadow on everything and makes you question everything you thought you knew about yourself and about the person you thought you were closest to.

((( Yakamishi )))


BS (me): 50
WS: 50
Married: 26 yrs
Kids: 2
OW: Co-worker, 7 yr LTA
DD 8/1/2012, Working on R

Posts: 1055 | Registered: Aug 2012
Rebreather
♀ Member
Member # 30817
Default  Posted: 11:39 AM, September 13th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

*fist bump*

Hang in there today.


Me BS
Him WH
2 ddays in '07
Recovering.
"The cure for the pain, is the pain." -Rumi

Posts: 6360 | Registered: Jan 2011
Sadwife222
♀ Member
Member # 40050
Default  Posted: 11:44 AM, September 13th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

So sorry for you. There's nothing that compares to the horror of the discovery, except maybe the lies that follow.
(((())))


Me BW, Him WH
DD #1, caught 4/12/13
DD #2, tells me the whole truth, 5/21/13
DD #3, TT until 8/9/13 then full disclosure w/timeline
DD #4, 8/26/13, OW texts me more info, he tells me the whole truth
DD # 5, 9/11/13, he tells me the whole truth??

Posts: 130 | Registered: Jul 2013
LosferWords
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Member # 30369
Default  Posted: 2:16 PM, September 13th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

(((Yakamishi)))

We're here for you to lean on. Sending you strength.


Posts: 6769 | Registered: Dec 2010
Amber13
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Member # 40505
Default  Posted: 3:07 PM, September 15th (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Hope you got through it okay. Onwards and upwards...

Posts: 63 | Registered: Aug 2013
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