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User Topic: Hoping to get caught to end the A?
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Default  Posted: 11:25 PM, September 21st (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Absolutely, some people simply don't know what to do, have gotten themselves in over their head and gone down a road that they truly didn't intend to go and can't understand why they just can't say "no more".

Getting caught by someone is their only way out because they don't have the mental strength to do so themselves.

My wife did end her affair, but was fearful of getting caught before she could end it, or because she ended it.

She said that she couldn't figure out how to stop it after she got started. In counseling she was able to figure that out.

BH - Me - Late 30's (now late 40's)
WW - Her - Late 30's (now late 40's)
4 Children
Her - Love of my life...still is.
Reconciled - Partly...she can't get over it.
Her - Thunderstruck by what she did.

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Default  Posted: 7:53 PM, September 24th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I now believe that rather than WW "thinking" that I knew about her affair long before I actually did, she was "afraid" that I knew. I still don't get why she didn't do anything to stop until I confronted her. Any thoughts?

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