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rachelc
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Default  Posted: 8:44 AM, September 13th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

So we're doing active shooter training in our school today and they played a 5 min 911 call from columbine. I couldn't listen. I plugged my ears. Years streamed down my face, my nose is running. There are 1000 ppl here and I am the only one this is happening to. Ppl keep asking me if I'm ok and patting me on the shoulder.
And all I can think is, I can't have any more situations in my life.


his Ddays: 2/10, 7/11
my Ddays: 1/12, 4/12 broken NC 12/12

me: 47
him: 51
4 kiddos in lower 20's

“Courage is the price that life exacts for granting peace."


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MovingUpward
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Default  Posted: 9:03 AM, September 13th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

(((rachelc)))


AKA Moo

Think of the haters in your life as sandpaper; they’ll scratch you up time and time again but in the end you’re polished, smooth, and spotless..while they end up useless

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rachelc
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Default  Posted: 9:11 AM, September 13th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I've gotta pull myself together. This is important stuff to know!


his Ddays: 2/10, 7/11
my Ddays: 1/12, 4/12 broken NC 12/12

me: 47
him: 51
4 kiddos in lower 20's

“Courage is the price that life exacts for granting peace."


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jo2love
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Default  Posted: 10:12 AM, September 13th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

(((rachelc)))




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Rebreather
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Default  Posted: 12:43 PM, September 13th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I think it sounds very scary to have to deal with that. Yikes. Good luck on the rest of the day.


Me BS
Him WH
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Recovering.
"The cure for the pain, is the pain." -Rumi

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nowiknow23
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Default  Posted: 1:17 PM, September 13th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

((((rachel)))) How are you doing?


You can call me NIK

There's always failure. And there's always disappointment. And there's always loss.
But the secret is learning from the loss, and realizing that none of those holes are vacuums.
- Michael J. Fox


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rachelc
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Default  Posted: 1:46 PM, September 13th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Better. Exhausted. Def will talk to IC about this Tuesday. Two years ago this wouldn't have bothered me as much.


his Ddays: 2/10, 7/11
my Ddays: 1/12, 4/12 broken NC 12/12

me: 47
him: 51
4 kiddos in lower 20's

“Courage is the price that life exacts for granting peace."


Posts: 3663 | Registered: Dec 2010
tired girl
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Default  Posted: 1:48 PM, September 13th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

It bothers me anytime I hear about these shootings. There is a song written about the columbine shooting, one of the girls, everytime I listen to it, the song gets to me.

ETA: Given where you work, it is not surprising this affected you.

[This message edited by tired girl at 1:49 PM, September 13th (Friday)]


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Fear is a natural reaction to moving closer to the truth”
― Pema Chödrön

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jrc1963
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Default  Posted: 4:46 PM, September 13th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

(((Rachelc)))

I moved away from the Denver area about 6 months before Columbine. I knew the area it happened in... had been near it many times.

I still get choked up when it's mentioned.

And all school shooting effect me now, especially since I work in a school.

Don't be hard on yourself. Give your self all the time and love you need.


Me: BSO - 45
Him: FWSO - 68
DS - 12
D-Day - 12-11-09,
R - he finally came home
Your life is an Occasion. Rise to it. - Mr. Magorium, "Mr. Magorium's Wonder Emporium"

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rachelc
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Default  Posted: 10:37 PM, September 13th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I SOO appreciate everyone's thoughts.
I do not understand why I was the only one who reacted this way.. I'm sorry to hear others here have had this experience but I'm glad I'm not alone!


his Ddays: 2/10, 7/11
my Ddays: 1/12, 4/12 broken NC 12/12

me: 47
him: 51
4 kiddos in lower 20's

“Courage is the price that life exacts for granting peace."


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