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User Topic: What The Heck Is Up With The Other Woman?
MsRukia
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Default  Posted: 7:53 PM, September 15th (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Gee wiz. I have been trying to cut our family off from hers since June. Still each month we have gotten at least one contact. WH blocked her from his phone and she's blocked on email and FB. She's blocked from my FB as well. Annoying thing is she keeps texting me. So first she texted me on DDay that's how I found out. She texted me chewing me out when I told a mutual friend about the affair. She texted me about a baby bouncer we borrowed. And now she has texted me about why our kids can't play. Are you fucking kidding me?! You had an affair with my husband, you would think it was a given.
Every time she has texted me she always puts the blame on me. I sexually starved him, I have him castrated ( in the last text to him), I am hurting the kids with "my drama". What the hell woman!!!!

I did not go and have a fucking affair with someone else's spouse. She said she would let her kid know that it was my decision that they can't play. Well fine, I will be the bigger Bitch. My balls if steel will be bigger than yours. It's my marriage you and WH destroyed. So I'm going to do what needs to be done.

But God forbid she should take any responsibility for sleeping around. The damn hussy. Man sometimes I really hate being the bigger person. But I know anything I say will be twisted anyways.

Ugh I hate her...and to think she said she was my friend.

Ok Rant Over Now.

[This message edited by MsRukia at 8:01 PM, September 15th (Sunday)]


BS (34)
WS MisterP (37)
Together 14 1/2 years
D Day 03 Aug 13 EA & PA
D Day #2 01 Sep 13 continued EA & PA with OW
Slowly but surely finding my way.

Posts: 172 | Registered: Aug 2013 | From: Colorado Springs
sickofthelies
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Default  Posted: 8:05 PM, September 15th (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Don't you just love OWs entitlement complex? How they are so very innocent? I feel the same way that you do. Vent away, it's good for your soul.


BS-43(me)
WH-44 (love of my life)
Children-20,18,& 14
I think I can breath again!!

Posts: 260 | Registered: May 2010 | From: ohio
womaninflux
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Default  Posted: 8:13 PM, September 15th (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

People like her dig themselves into a hole...at first everyone considers their side and then the more they go on and on and on about it...they lose credibility and we have a winner...the crazy person!

Just let her go on telling her lies. Block her from your phone. (you can figure out a way to block her from texting you, right?)

Keep being the rational one...believe me, people take notice.


BS - mid-40's
SAWH - mid 40's
Kids - 2 elementary school aged
Getting tons of therapy and trying to "work it out"

Posts: 895 | Registered: Jun 2013
womaninflux
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Default  Posted: 8:14 PM, September 15th (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

can't you file a harassment complaint about her (like with the local PD)? It might be worth talking with them about this...they have probably seen situations like this before.


BS - mid-40's
SAWH - mid 40's
Kids - 2 elementary school aged
Getting tons of therapy and trying to "work it out"

Posts: 895 | Registered: Jun 2013
MsRukia
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Default  Posted: 8:19 PM, September 15th (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Yes sick...it's frustrating. She likes to play games to boot, WH couldn't have picked any worse than her. She's an alcoholic also and so it won't surprise me if one of these days she knocks on my door while drunk (she's my neighbor ).

She needs to get over it already that she is banned from my life now. So are her kids (who weren't great for my daughter as I later found out).

And woman I agree. She will just keep digging her hole. Apparently she has slept with quite a few of the married neighbor men. Eventually she's going to burn all her bridges and isolate her kids in the process.


BS (34)
WS MisterP (37)
Together 14 1/2 years
D Day 03 Aug 13 EA & PA
D Day #2 01 Sep 13 continued EA & PA with OW
Slowly but surely finding my way.

Posts: 172 | Registered: Aug 2013 | From: Colorado Springs
gonnabe2016
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Default  Posted: 8:23 PM, September 15th (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Is she not also blocked from your phone?
If you don't want to hear from her, the next time she contacts you....respond with "stop contacting me" (and a mental "go fuck yourself")

I hate her too. Friends don't fuck other friend's husbands.


"Oh, what a tangled web we weave when first we practice to deceive." - Sir Walter Scott

In my effort to be *concise*, I often come off as blunt and harsh. Sorry, don't mean to be offensive.


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