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User Topic: Secrets to a Super-Fast Divorce
blindsided03
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Default  Posted: 9:48 PM, September 15th (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

For anyone who hasn't heard of it, I'm going to Guam to get divorced. You can get an atty and paperwork done for $1500 uncontested D. You fly to Guam for 7 days (6 nights) and this is how you establish "residency." It takes 3-4 weeks to finalize once you leave, vs the 1-2 years in the USA (IL for me). I recommend this because it gives us STBXBSes the chance to get the toxins out of our lives ASAP and not have to be tied down to douches. Because I was only married for 7m, it was a huge deal to me to not have to be married to this loser while D'ing and have it take longer than the actual M!! F THAT!!! so, my friend put me onto the Guam D--his brother did it, it's a US territory with US courts, so it works!!! I'll update my post, but I leave on 27 sept and can't WAIT to be free of STBX-douche!!!!! Plus, i get a week's vacation in Guam. Who doesnt love a holiday?? Considering the cost of US atty, it's worth it to get a vacay at the same time! Tickets are expensive, but that's it!!! Consider it !!! xoxox


BW
M6m
Dday(2)8/13
D12/13...he's a sociopath.

Posts: 62 | Registered: Aug 2013 | From: Hell
ChoosingHope
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Default  Posted: 9:52 PM, September 15th (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I think the key here is to have an UNCONTESTED divorce.

I only wish *I* was so lucky.


Posts: 1702 | Registered: Oct 2011
blindsided03
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Default  Posted: 10:26 PM, September 15th (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

you can still do uncontested! it's just like $2500 instead of $1500. guamdivorce.net....saved my @$$.


BW
M6m
Dday(2)8/13
D12/13...he's a sociopath.

Posts: 62 | Registered: Aug 2013 | From: Hell
Nature_Girl
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Default  Posted: 10:58 PM, September 15th (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

What about if you own property together? What about if you have children? What if your STBX has a mental disorder? What if the marriage is contested? What if you have joint assets that need to be divided? What happens if you come back to the States & your now-ex-spouse has a legal melt-down on you because you engaged in severely underhanded dealings?


Me = BS (Stay-at-home-mom)
Him = EX-d out (abusive troglodyte NPD SA)
3 tween-aged kids
Together 20 years
D-Day: Memorial Weekend 2011
2013 - I DIVORCED HIM, I'M FREE!
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=RBOJpIwF47Y

Posts: 9815 | Registered: Jun 2011 | From: USA
ChoosingHope
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Default  Posted: 11:38 AM, September 16th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Sadly, NatureGirl, I don't think the quickie divorce would be possible for you and me!!!!

Posts: 1702 | Registered: Oct 2011
Nature_Girl
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Default  Posted: 11:47 AM, September 16th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

No, it totally wouldn't be possible for us. If we were young & carefree 20-somethings, it would be something to consider. Or if we were divorcing reasonable men who were the simple kind of cheating dirtbags but otherwise decent human beings, this would be something to consider.

But our circumstances? No friggin' way. We'd be named in a newspaper article describing how we and our children had been found murdered.


Me = BS (Stay-at-home-mom)
Him = EX-d out (abusive troglodyte NPD SA)
3 tween-aged kids
Together 20 years
D-Day: Memorial Weekend 2011
2013 - I DIVORCED HIM, I'M FREE!
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=RBOJpIwF47Y

Posts: 9815 | Registered: Jun 2011 | From: USA
EvenKeel
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Default  Posted: 11:59 AM, September 16th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

My X probably would of 'gone-Guam' if he could of. The year he moved out, it was the end of January and he asked if the D could be final in 2 weeks? (Idiot) I figured he must of been lining up a date for Valentines!

I know there is some on here who have done their own no-contest divorces for very reasonable by filing directly.

So I guess the time is the lure of Guam.

I am lucky because I live pretty rural, I was able to do a non-contest with an attorney for less than Guam.

I will be anxious to hear how your Guam vacay goes.


Eyes are useless if the mind is blind.


Posts: 2173 | Registered: May 2009 | From: Pa
Newlease
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Default  Posted: 1:12 PM, September 16th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

My D was completed in 3 months and cost $450. It all depends on the circumstances surrounding the D. Of course, I didn't get a week's vacation in Guam.

NL


Even if you can't control the world around you, you are still the master of your own soul.

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Phoenix1
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Default  Posted: 1:15 PM, September 16th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I am lucky to be able to get a no-contest divorce in 30 days (or thereabouts) for $150. However, a side vacation to Guam would certainly be appealing if I lived in another state and didn't have my options...


BS - Me
XPOS - too many OW/OCs over 20+yrs
Kids - DDs 23,18 -DS20 Deceased
M Dissolved 2013

This above all: to thine own self be true, and it must follow, as the night the day, thou canst not then be false to any man ~ Shakespeare, Hamlet


Posts: 1183 | Registered: Apr 2013 | From: Rising out of Hell's ashes!
heartbroken0903
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Default  Posted: 3:23 PM, September 16th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Guam would have cost three times what mine did cost. No property, no kids, amicable...less than $500 and less than two weeks from filing to final.


Me: XWS, 30s, 5-month EA/PA in '09-'10
Husband: XBS, 40s
No kids

Married 2.5 years
D-day 3/6/10
Divorced 5/14/10

Remarried. Reconciliation is a process and I still struggle.


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