He has been employed, since around 1989. He has had issues with 3 of his jobs. He will have to work hard to get a new job.
This is a new OW. She came in the scene 12/2012. The OW from 1987 is out if the picture. We totally reconciled from that situation.
Another OW came into the picture about 7 years ago and she is out of the picture now too.
Yes, I need to leave. With current job situation attorney wants me to wait so spousal support will work out in my favor. No minor children in the picture anymore.
I am not making excuses for me or him, but we were married young. I worked for a bit at the beginning of the marriage during under grad and med school. Then I stayed home with the children. So up until recently I felt unable to support myself.
This job situation came at a bad time. Otherwise I would have filed.