It sounds to me like he is still obsessed with her. My jaded mind thinks he likes to talk about the affair because then he gets to think and reminisce about her. She appears to be in his thoughts a lot.
Ugh, that's what I was afraid of.
my husband would randomly bring up ow like that. Turns out--she probably had just emailed or texted him. they were still in cahoots together.
is it possible he is still secretly with her ?
So perhaps talking freely about it now is a way to keep the drama going?
Her: WW/56 Me: BS/62, 24yrs M
3 great kids, now 22, 20, 17 b,b,g
D-Day 8/14/08, D 1/13/11